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| Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by buchi4action(m): 6:59am On Apr 26, 2012 |
My friend is madly in love with a lady that lives 100 meters away from his house, is it advisable for him to start a relationship with her?  |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Killz3(m): 8:44am On Apr 26, 2012 |
No. It breeds contempt! |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Kadata(m): 8:48am On Apr 26, 2012 |
~Killz~: How |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Nobody: 8:52am On Apr 26, 2012 |
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| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Killz3(m): 8:56am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Kadata:You get to see much of her unnecessarily. You tend to start feeling jealous when you see other guys around hitting on her. Basically, you'll find it hard to trust her after a while, and you'll just hate her for nothings sake! It's not advisable, unless you want frequent heartbreaks. It's even better if she was 1000 meters away, i.e 1km away, than 100 meters. . . That's a NO NO! 10 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by slimyem: 9:04am On Apr 26, 2012 |
i wouldnt do it for many reasons. I'd prefer one of us moves away instead.... It all boils down to choices though.. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Nobody: 9:06am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Nothing wrong with it. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:23am On Apr 26, 2012 |
There won't be trust in that relationship. I might get bored 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Killz3(m): 11:25am On Apr 26, 2012 |
andromida: Nothing wrong with it.To you sha. . . |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Idowuogbo(f): 11:30am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Dats a no no! Na 2 4 we go dey jam na.Mbanu! 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Beync(f): 11:44am On Apr 26, 2012 |
people are scared of long distance rltnshp becos of trust issues why scared of close distance reltnshp againg?. for me it doesnt matter aslong as u know urself and both of u are genuinely involve in the rltnship u can see and know my friends and i can see urs no big deal. 7 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Killz3(m): 11:48am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Beync: people are scared of long distance rltnshp becos of trust issuesHow close is "close"? And how close is "too close"? |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Sijo01(f): 11:52am On Apr 26, 2012 |
No go area 4moi. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Basildon1(m): 11:58am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Smash: Hell YES, Date: Not really |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Beync(f): 12:04pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
for me,there is no yard stick for measuring how close it should be. as long as the relationship is genuine, there is nothing to hide about who he sees me wit or not. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Killz3(m): 12:06pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Beync: for me,there is no yard stick for measuring how close it should be. as long as the relationship is genuine, there is nothing to hide about who he sees me wit or not.Have you been in such a "close" relationship before? |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Raxxye(m): 12:14pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
I don't see anything wrong. Fears only arise when either or both partner/partners is/are not ready to be faithful. Hence fear of being caught by the other. Otherwise, why not? 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by chemberlin(m): 12:16pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
If love can take them to the next level, why? It is adviceable...cos I once had it and we got well but latter disatnce and religion things crashed it. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Meeah: 12:22pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Considering that the people involved are adults, you would have things/events (work or business) that take you away from your house frequently. That will create some distance. Afterall, some cohabiting University course mates end up getting married. Bottom line, its all about what suits you. 4 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Idowuogbo(f): 12:23pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Raxxye: I don't see anything wrong. Fears only arise when either or both partner/partners is/are not ready to be faithful. Hence fear of being caught by the other. Otherwise, why not?Hiiiiiii  Remember me? 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by OmawumiMegbele(m): 12:27pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
If you ask me, na who i go ask? They matter wey we see so, e heavy for mouth.  1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
ur friend is in lust, not love. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by lopsydoo(m): 12:29pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Love is a flower that could grow in any garden. A new date could also start by chance or design, but mutual interests, expectations and attitudes would make it work or otherwise. Truly, familiarity breed contempt, but is "out of sight not out of mind?" Talking about familiarity- can you ever be "too familiar" with your lover ? If so, what's the basis of the relationship? What's jealousy got to do with it? If she likes you enough, won't there be some mutual understanding? There are lots of case studies that prove that attitude, not distance is everything in a relationship. So, my friends, if the babe is cool, calm and collected enough to meet your taste and she likes you enough to grace your value system, you guys have the core advantage of everyday fellowship, easy understanding and what else, love and happiness.. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by duzomba: 12:30pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
They say long distant relationship never workout, meaning short distance should be d opposite. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:31pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
dating has no formula sometimes it is worth it to try and came out with your own experience from it than being told from other people;s experience which they made mistakes that you would never do its like saying dont do english at school becoz so and so had a bad experience with the langauge. would agree to drop it or you would give a try ? 5 Likes |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by saydfact(m): 12:32pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
what as distance got to do with loving?   |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Atandav: 12:54pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
I'm currently into one now, the only option left for me now is to move out of d compound, d thing no easy o |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by ugosly(m): 12:55pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
 Fling maybe.... yes, Dating,HELL NO!! Especially if you are the multi-tasking type ..get wat I mean??. Fling maybe.... yes, Dating,HELL NO!! Especially if you are the multi-tasking type ..get wat I mean.1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Killz3(m): 1:00pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Atandav: [size=15pt]I'm currently into one now, the only option left for me now is to move out of d compound, d thing no easy o[/size] |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by pdpiperpippen: 1:03pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
If u are a ho, no if u are not then its ok. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Date Your Neighbour? by Maleeq(m): 1:03pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
~Killz~:Well said! |
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