daroz: I am thinking of showing her this post, maybe pple's opinion of the matter will help her realise the position of things and force her to change for the better. House what do u think?

daroz: I am thinking of showing her this post, maybe pple's opinion of the matter will help her realise the position of things and force her to change for the better. House what do u think?

ITbomb:
Please do.
If she is really an introvert then nl would be her second home.
She has to open up a bit and take the risk of getting people into her life. That's the fun of life
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Winneygirl:
Pls dont!!! Pls, pls, pls...do not show her this thread.
Do U want 2complicate Ur life
Do as advised here but do not let her know that U exposed her life to the world. Her opinion on this would be, "If U had issues with me, Y didnt U just tel me?"
Be careful. D internet can be a force 4 good as well as a force 4 evil. Ur lives are supposed 2be private. Please do not show her this thread!!! That is not d kind of psychological help some of us advised U 2get her.
If she is reclusive in nature 2 other pple because she doesnt trust them,dont U knw she will see dis thread as a very big betrayal of trust??Hw will she be sure dat she can entrust U wit her secrets??

daroz:
Of cos she has banned me from some certain things, but most of it is for my own advantage. For instance, at d beginning of d relationship, she insisted I quit drinking alcohol. Though I didn't yielded absolutely, I was able to reduce d habit to social drinking alone, and most times, indoor in d company of a trusted neighbour friend who comes most weekends to play PS3 wit me , and she seems to be ok with it. 2ndly, in other to put me in good shape, she has succeeded in making me involve in regular body exercise like backstroke and pressup, and sometimes with her supervision. More also, I am now used to changing my boxers everytime I take my bath(twice a day on d average), cos I know one of d 1st thing she does when she comes over is to try to sniff my boxers to perceive is there is any form of sweat or urinary odour. so i'm now used to general body and environmental cleanliness cos I know anything contrary will put her off.
so as earlier stated, I don't have any personal problem with her, I enjoy her company and she has really improved my life style. But d way she relates with pple around me, and d way they view her is d real issue.

stpat1: Wait o, I just read ur post saying you want to show her this thread. Guy don't try it o. I hope she doesn't know your NL I'd? For the good of yourself and your relationship, don't let her see this thread. Either now or later.

Na wa for some guys o

daroz:
Well, if you say so.
Thank God she hardly visit nairaland, and when she does she dont go behold the frontpage articles.
I am greatful for all the contributions so far.

benson19: Broda u dnt av 2 show her dis thread ooo and dat sound childish 2 me nw