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Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 12:25pm On Dec 28, 2012
Hello Everyone. . .

I hope we all had a successful 2012, and that we are enjoying the holidays.

Jaybee and I would want to thank you all for the level of cooperation we have received in making this section a better one, our hope/goal/aim is to make more changes in the Romance section come 2013. I'm glad we have found successful activities in the Mr and Miss NL competitions, the debates and The Wooing Challenge. There are places where the Romance section could improve, however. For starters? DECORUM!

First, we must define the definition of Romance.
Per Merriam Webster:
romance (n):
-a love story especially in the form of a novel
-an emotional attraction or aura belonging to an especially heroic era, adventure, or activity
-love affair
romance (v):
-to carry on a love affair with
Per Dictionary.com:
romance (n):
-a romantic spirit, sentiment, emotion, or desire
romance (v):
-to think or talk romantically
-to court or woo romantically
As you can see, na lovey lovey stuffs. When I think of romance, I think of love. When I think of Nairaland Romance section, I think of love, marred by e-fights and insults and derailing. For what na? Enough of the hypocrisy. 1/3 of the world's population has internet access, so the people you meet here are not from mars. They are from around your locality and they are humans like you with emotions. So stop saying it is a faceless forum and that you cannot meet someone special from here. Love is a beautiful thing. . .

This section had a fantastic 2012. Our goal is to further improve for a better and more successful year. That is why I am calling on all of you to be mindful of the responsibilities and expectations that come along with being a member of Nairaland. You cannot expect us moderators as well as Seun to keep this forum functioning by ourselves. Without members, there is no Nairaland. We need you. At the same time, we need you to be mature, amicable, and respectful of others' opinions. Yes, I am aware that nonsense threads pop up. However, there are a lot of people seeking genuine advice, especially in the Romance section. This section should be warm and inviting to other users, especially guests. We are talking about the busiest section in the biggest and most popular website in Nigeria

I encourage all members to use the "Report to Moderator" button rather than fighting perceived "goats" on your own. No jungle justice on NL abeg. If you report a member, we will see it and respond in quick fashion.
If you guys need a reminder of the rules, the rules we use when we dey ban una, aka our Bible, here are the links:

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1. Topics:

- Please search a topic before posting. Certain topics have been tackled numerous times.
- Please DO NOT DUPLICATE your threads, as they will be deleted
- Please post your topics in the right sections.


2. Attacks:

- No Personal Attacks.
- No Public Fighting
- No Hateful contents or comments. If you have problems, comments or information about a religion, culture or tribe
or intimate orientation. We have the Religion, Culture, Crime and Sexuality Sections for that.
- Please be nice and respectful. In your arguments, avoid insults and name-callings


3. OffTopics:

- Please try to post on topic. There is a section for off-topics on the Land. Derailing the thread into several pages
will result in deletion.
- Worthless threads and posts will be deleted


4. intimate Contents:

- Pornographic images are not allowed.
- As a public forum, please when posting, try to avoid lewd, hard core and sexually explicit contents and words.



Don't take things too personal. Jokes are cracked and sarcasm is common
But if you are personally insulted. Please use the "Report to Moderator" link.
If you keep ignoring the rules, a ban will be the consequence.
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Nairaland Romance Rules

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You may not bully a fellow Nairalander. This applied to old members too. Violation -> ban.


- The use of multiple accounts without explicit permission of the forum administrator(s) is prohibited

- Disturbing, disgusting, or irritating pictures are not allowed. Violation attracts a very harsh ban.
- The invasion of another user's privacy is now strictly prohibited - example: posting a lady's full name.
- Any attempt to bypass the word censor is AGAINST forum rules and will warrant a ban.
- Avoid posting using all capital letters, not only are capital letters difficult to read but they are associated with shouting and considered rude.
- Thou shalt not deliberately post false information.

PROPER ENGLISH LANGUAGE ONLY
Please use standard, proper, and clear English at all times when publicly discussing topics on the Nairaland Forum. If you must use other languages, create a special topic for that language in the culture section.

ALWAYS POST ON TOPIC
Off-topic posts will also be strictly penalized! We want our forum to be well-organized.

GOOD, DESCRIPTIVE TITLES FOR NEW THREADS
Strive to choose the best possible title for every thread. A descriptive title gives the reader user a very strong, accurate idea of what is actually being discussed without being too long. A really good title should be durable, i.e. good for several months of discussion (e.g. "Presidential Election 2007" instead of "Chris Okotie drops out of the race"wink. Don't be alarmed if a moderator modifies the title of your new thread to make it more descriptive, durable, and compact.

NO PERSONAL ATTACKS OR PUBLIC FIGHTS
Nairaland is a discussion forum, and it is inevitable that disagreements with crop up from time to time. Please be nice and respectful to other members at all times and do not resort to personal attacks, false accusations, name-calling, and other unproductive forms of communication. If you are upset with another member of the forum you must settle the fight outside the forum. You must not carry out any 'fights' on the open forum. 'Fights' are not allowed.

NO SEXUALLY EXPLICIT OR HATEFUL CONTENT
Please do not post any pictures, multimedia content, or writing that is sexually explicit (lewd, suggestive, bawdy, dirty, love-related, filthy, gross, hard core, immodest, indecent, indelicate, lascivious, licentious, naughty, obscene, off-color, pornographic, X-rated, smutty, suggestive). We will also not allow any comments that promote hatred, violence, or murder against any race, ethnic or religion group, gender, intimate orientation, person, et cetera.

PLEASE BE COOPERATIVE!
Nairaland is first of all a privately owned website, then a discussion forum. We strive to ensure that anything published on our Nairaland.com domain is up to a certain standard, and a number of times we have to use our discretion. Regardless of whether you agree with administrative decisions or not, we require you be fully cooperative with us at all times, else refrain from posting or sending messages on the site. Disputes or disagreements with the administrator(s) must be handled privately.

And the most important rule is this: don't do anything that annoys the admin. Thanks a million!
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Nairaland Forum Rules and Regulations

It's a new year folks. A new beginning. A revamped Romance section is more than possible. It won't be easy, but we can get there if we all cooperate.

If you refuse to cooperate, you shall be banned from this section. The rules say so. For derailers, here is a thread for you: https://www.nairaland.com/967122/romance-sections-off-topic-chat

Do NOT derail a thread on this section apart from the one above. If you must converse with a member, direct them to that thread.
It takes less than a second to hide a comment, and ban you if you go against the rules, so please do not bother trying to do so. . No one is more special than the other, and all shall be treated equally. If you are banned, someone else will fill your space. No one is indispensable. There are over 200 guests viewing this section who are ready to login into their accounts or create one, just to join in the fun. So pls pls pls

This is a humble plea from us. . .

Thanks for your anticipated cooperation. smiley

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Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 28, 2012
To the guests viewing this thread and Nairaland as a whole:

What stops you from becoming an active member? Your contribution could be what someone out there needs to make an important decision. Pls do not just stay there and watch. Log in, and join in the discussions, or create a meaningful discussion that would be beneficial to us all. . .

Here is a thread to get you started
https://www.nairaland.com/1046482/welcome-romance-section-new-members
smiley
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 28, 2012
Comments and Suggestions are welcomed. Please stick to topic!
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Mynd44: 1:15pm On Dec 28, 2012
Nicecheesycheesycheesy
Re: Romance Section 2013 by xynerise: 1:34pm On Dec 28, 2012
I wish 2013 there will be an E-slap button grin. Nice one killz cool
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 1:34pm On Dec 28, 2012
Am I free to make a comment about some lapses.
Re: Romance Section 2013 by ayusco85(m): 1:38pm On Dec 28, 2012
Wuna weh done o. This wuna bible ₪☺ get books and chapters? Hw person go take cram all dis rules na
Re: Romance Section 2013 by xynerise: 1:38pm On Dec 28, 2012
candygosh: Am I free to make a comment about some lapses.
are u waiting for me to sound the whistle before you make your comment? undecided
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 1:40pm On Dec 28, 2012
candygosh: Am I free to make a comment about some lapses.
Sure
Re: Romance Section 2013 by CrazyMan(m): 2:25pm On Dec 28, 2012
Great job sexkillz and jaybee, more grease to your elbows.

May 2013 be a greater year for the romance section...may all trolls and trouble makers who gave you sleepless nights this year give up their lifestyle and change for the best as 2012 rounds up.

I believe there's always room for improvement...so keep the fire burning, cos you can still go higher.

Compliments of the season.

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Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 2:28pm On Dec 28, 2012
sexkillz: Sure

I just felt that the miss nairaland didn't include some users (dunno why)
And am quite aware there are much more beautiful users around that are active in a way.
Except if the basis of choosing the users who took part in the competition was dependent on some criteria

Then I think there should be awards like most annoying, most information,most reserved, best sense of humor, best personality, couple of d year (if any), etc.

Am open to correction. Thanks!
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 2:37pm On Dec 28, 2012
candygosh:

I just felt that the miss nairaland didn't include some users (dunno why)
And am quite aware there are much more beautiful users around that are active in a way.
Except if the basis of choosing the users who took part in the competition was dependent on some criteria

Then I think there should be awards like most annoying, most information,most reserved, best sense of humor, best personality, couple of d year (if any), etc.

Am open to correction. Thanks!
Thank you. . .

On the Miss Nairaland ish, we used those that showed interest or had a picture in their profile. There may of course be more beautiful ladies, but how will we know if they refuse to show interest?
On the other awards you mentioned, they'll be incorporated this coming year.

For there to be couple of the year award, for example, we need couples. But where we go see couple with everyone on here forming what i don't know? If the romance in each of us is brought out, i think we all Will have a wonderful 2013 in all aspects. . .
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 2:43pm On Dec 28, 2012
sexkillz:

For there to be couple of the year award, for example, we need couples. But where we go see couple with everyone on here forming what i don't know? If the romance in each of us is brought out, i think we all Will have a wonderful 2013 in all aspects. . .

There are wonderful ones I guess and they can read as well, so reading this would inspire them. grin
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Mynd44: 2:45pm On Dec 28, 2012
NL couple......I don't mind. That's if..........
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 28, 2012
candygosh:

There are wonderful ones I guess and they can read as well, so reading this would inspire them. grin
We hope so. . .
Re: Romance Section 2013 by MariaGoretti: 2:47pm On Dec 28, 2012
Mynd_44: NL couple......I don't mind. That's if..........
....she consents to it, right?
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Mynd44: 2:49pm On Dec 28, 2012
Maria-Goretti:
....she consents to it, right?
This will not end well at all.
Re: Romance Section 2013 by MariaGoretti: 2:56pm On Dec 28, 2012
Mynd_44:
This will not end well at all.
your meaning, mister?
Re: Romance Section 2013 by ITbomb(m): 3:10pm On Dec 28, 2012
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Re: Romance Section 2013 by Emmy9ite(m): 3:12pm On Dec 28, 2012
Before any ban, there should be a legal committee that should look into the matter/offence.
Mods should always notify a user before giving him/her a ban.
When notified, the user should have the right to appeal the ban threat before being banned. This is my humble logamasy.

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Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 3:25pm On Dec 28, 2012
Emmy9ite: Before any ban, there should be a legal committee that should look into the matter/offence.
Mods should always notify a user before giving him/her a ban.
When notified, the user should have the right to appeal the ban threat before being banned. This is my humble logamasy.
All the legal committee and notification you will ever need are in the rules.

Break the rules and your ban will be instant, without much ado!

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Re: Romance Section 2013 by Emmy9ite(m): 3:34pm On Dec 28, 2012
sexkillz: All the legal committee and notification you will ever need are in the rules.

Break the rules and your ban will be instant, without much ado!
change is the only thing that is constant.
It was only a suggestion. smiley
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 28, 2012
Emmy9ite:
change is the only thing that is constant.
It was only a suggestion. smiley
It was a reminder/answer to your suggestion.
Re: Romance Section 2013 by freecocoa(f): 3:51pm On Dec 28, 2012
Like I'm going to read that epistle, mscheew.tongue.
Re: Romance Section 2013 by DExplorer1: 5:04pm On Dec 28, 2012
Kudos to both SK and Jaybee. 2012 (had) great developments and it (gave) a sign for a better 2013.

No. 1 - If we can have less of e-fights, get romance section users to get more involved in activities like the Debates, The Wooing Challenge etc., it could add to the fun and properly define romance.

No. 2 - Warning should be issued on two threads before a ban is served and not that kind of SK warning wey be like revenge statement. Lol

No. 3 - Talking about the guests, if the atmosphere is welcoming, they will join. That's one of the reasons i'm on the welcome thread and always wanting to engage a newbie in certain event. I think as a mod, SK and JB should work more on the welcome thread and newbies thread should be considered immature, hence, it should be corrected with love.

No. 4 - Also, maybe we could have someone to post link of threads not related to romance and without romantic content. There are too many of them and sending such link or creating a thread for fast awareness will help the mods.

I choose to be here, i choose to do the things i do and i choose to work with SK. Most of our discussions has always been on Nairaland but does that make me/him the owner of Nairaland or declare me bankrupt? Nobody pays for these things even Seun may not openly appreciate them. I believe in growth and giving to any environment we find ourselves. As they say, what's worth doing at all is worth doing well. As long as we're on Nairaland and on a particular section, your positive contribution is expedient.

We see in 2013 by His grace.

D-Explorer

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Re: Romance Section 2013 by kandiikane(m): 5:04pm On Dec 28, 2012
freecocoa: Like I'm going to read that epistle, mscheew.tongue.
grin grin



@sexkillz, regarding the mr/miss nairaland, I think it will be better to prepare for it a month earlier or so. Go around nl, get people, email them and find out whether they are interested. If they are, we'll ask them for photos and from there on we choose how many may go into the first elimination. If this is in place, we won't have arguments about who is genuine and who isn't. Plus, we can get photos prepared in time so we won't have to rush about emailing everyone during the competition for photos..
Re: Romance Section 2013 by Nobody: 5:43pm On Dec 28, 2012
^^^^ That makes a lot of sense...

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Re: Romance Section 2013 by chinedumo(m): 5:45pm On Dec 28, 2012
Obviously nairaland was not structured to give warning before the punishment unlike facebook
Re: Romance Section 2013 by EzePromoe: 7:35pm On Dec 28, 2012
Sexkillz, na wa for this your Sharia law o. angry
Re: Romance Section 2013 by MariaGoretti: 7:39pm On Dec 28, 2012
Eze Promoe: Sexkillz, na wa for this your Sharia law o. angry
...igbo man...lmao

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