In this part of the world we pretend a lot,someone's marrital status is Subject to change anytime from single to married or separated or divored!so it beats me when single pple keep claiming single but not searching when they are seriously searching with torch light.
I have this single girl friend that always claim she is not searching at all but attends all single&mingle seminars,yesterday my hubby invited friend over for dinner and when the guy saw her at my place he said to herI think we cld get together someday soon so I quicky told him that she isn't looking for a
Date and he apologized,gosh my friend gave me this killer look and left immediately,vnt called since then,did I do something wrong thought she wasn't searching

Lolol. If you know what is good for you get her that dude by all means. @op. To some, they think it makes people to perceive them as tough and focused.

Frankly, l can't imagine why? Particularly ladies, they keep pretending until they over ripe.

everyone is searching just that the time and experience tend to pull some strings. I can just imagine myself going for lectures by 7 in the morning, attend my daily ward round of patients then come back late around 5pm, cook or light rest, go for topic discussions or report my unit work, get back by 9pm, light reading till 12am and crash till the next day
anyone that puts up with me will be God

same with the other 80hrs a week jobs. they tried the relationship thing and ended up hooking up with their jobs more. They would want a break and focus on their career first

so it is with the broken hearted guys and girls who claim to be more cautious in entering another affair. yeah, they're searching but dont want to get involved with the bad eggs, hence their plight

everybody wants a chance in a relationship but its better to just say you're hooked than the obvious to avoid going through that phase

But I am single and not searching. The thing is that, you can never imagine how happy some poeople are with their single life. Some single lives beat a lot of married or couples life.

tishat: In this part of the world we pretend a lot,someone's marrital status is Subject to change anytime from single to married or separated or divored!so it beats me when single pple keep claiming single but not searching when they are seriously searching with torch light.
I have this single girl friend that always claim she is not searching at all but attends all single&mingle seminars,yesterday my hubby invited friend over for dinner and when the guy saw her at my place he said to herI think we cld get together someday soon so I quicky told him that she isn't looking for a
Date and he apologized,gosh my friend gave me this killer look and left immediately,vnt called since then,did I do something wrong thought she wasn't searching

That's because, Nigerians lie a lot and pretend too much

hi my nem is carzola am single nd serchin.... isnt dat not an embarasin statment now u kn y...

OP, really some people love to keep their business private. What would you have done for all that declare their searches to you? Would you help me get a good Christian man in his thirties,tall,dark,handsome and a total segxy moralist who is going to fall in love with me if I told you I was searching? Exactly my thought.

moreeni: OP, really some people love to keep their business private. What would you have done for all that declare their searches to you? Would you help me get a good Christian man in his thirties,tall,dark,handsome and a total segxy moralist who is going to fall in love with me if I told you I was searching? Exactly my thought.

serch no more am here.. am t
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Reyginus: Lolol. If you know what is good for you get her that dude by all means. .

Seconded.

Obviously, your friend is looking

@ poster.

Single and not searching and happy with that, why ....................... because Income doesn't split into 2

190: them full nairaland especially derailers section paradise room

But wait ooooooo @Op, I am single and happy! Na by force?

190: them full nairaland especially derailers section paradise room

OMG!!!

**DIES**

i think the men should open their minds in 2013, and quit the eternal bachelor club

what do you want- a sign in the sky?

[s]I'm sure you know that can be arranged- dont ever doubt the determination of women in pursuit of a man![/s]

at least have a SO, instead of proudly parading your "singleness" in people's faces, jeez. Do you know how unsettling that is for an average lady in search of a partner?

Mynd_44:
OMG!!!

**DIES**

OMG!!!

**FAINTS**

@op, the answer is cos they chose to lie or say the truth.the choice is their's.but most time, people say it so that they can still be able to flirt and have free punny/JT

they say it because they dont want to appear desperate, or they feel it makes them look uncool if they admit they're looking for a man.

I am single and ...