familyman:

ope u guys realise this topic was posted in 2006.

Rhea: Takethat,

Your boyfriend is pretty pissed (angry) and that's normal. The situation calls for that. You have to explain everything when he cools down. He needs to hear it all. Lay ALL ur cards on the table like it is. He wants the truth. Make sure ur story has one single version. Dual or multiple versions implies ur lying.

And as a lesson; someone on ur suspect list does not deserve an sms. Text mesages leave trails. I'm not saying u should cheat on ur hearthrob. If u must reach out to those on the[b] barred list[/b], then better a call. Sometimes we need to reach out to EXs to just to say hi. If that must happen, then call them Calling is more expensive, but sms is more intimate. You cannot send an sms by mistake. You must have thought about it over and over before even laying ur knuckles on ur phone.

Goodluck. You can still salvage the relationship, if ur man wasn't looking for a way out in the first place.

twinstaiye: Serves him right, next time, he wont venture into reading your text messages again. Meanwhile, you yourself dont help matters, you should have deleted such kind of message. I have said it times without number that human will cheat on each other at any slightest opportunity, irrespective of the gender nature. The above case is a pointer to the fact that, both gender can cheat on each other. Having said this, do keep begging your guy, and I hope he listen, afterall, he is only being clever that you have not catch him with such messages too. People should learn to live their life believing that their loved ones will cheat on them rather than believing that, their trusted loved ones will never cheat on them. If your boyfriend had lived with such notions, he would have forgiven you and seeking our opinion would not even have arise.