One question that hasn't been really tackled a lot, and which I found while looking through the search phrases for my blog is the title of this post. Are men willing to wait till marriage? I know for certain that some men are, or maybe I'm wrong. I think the more important question may be, where are celibate men and are they enough to go round?

http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2013/01/are-men-willing-to-wait-till-marriage.html

I wish they were.

Eh! Am i mad,wen dem no cause my tin

i think i made the list of celibates till marriage

but come o! Is it only men? What about our women? I am rolling my eyes.

So that what will happen exactly, it is not like am keeping it for anybody. Was well into my twenties infact at youth service when i made the decision to lose my virginity status. Was begining to be ashamed of it sef. What's the big deal. Imagine my gf then, when i told her later after our third time that she was my first devoted her time and self to teach me the rudiments of love making, it was quite an experience and after youth service and her . Oh boy! I went on rampage.

Yes. Some men are ready. But what about the ladies that agrees with their man on sex after marriage & ended up losing their virginity through their shameful act.

Well,not everyone believes pre-marital s3x is immoral.these ones fall into the 'unwilling' category.Only few hold virginity till marriage as a moral sign of dignity and are willing to stay celibate until married. In all,it depends on a person's conviction.

Okiki_Oluwa: Yes. Some men are ready. But what about the ladies that agrees with their man on sex after marriage & ended up losing their virginity through their shameful act.

abi ooo....

Seconded

nikkyshyne: I wish they were.

We'll it's not like the ladies raped the men. They unfortunately caved in and both parties played a role.

Okiki_Oluwa: Yes. Some men are ready. But what about the ladies that agrees with their man on sex after marriage & ended up losing their virginity through their shameful act.

totalbaby: We'll it's not like the ladies raped the men. They unfortunately caved in and both parties played a role.

Both parties ? you mean an outsider/another man/a strange dude

@topic. O boy e hard o!

U mean when d world has come to an end?Pls,ask beta question!

kimberluge: U mean when d world has come to an end?Pls,ask beta question!

With the kind of photo you have on your profile; no man would like to wait.

Yea, men can wait of course under one condition

She either provides the sex and the guy provides her upkeep among

Others

or she keeps her body and the guy keeps back his money,

After All Na Love coverth all things!!

SO SAYETH 190

Few of us. Of which I'm one.. Warefa U̶̲̥̅̊ tink

yes , if women are willing to stop asking for money till marriage... its that simple...

I love good sex so the woman I want to be with has to perfect that act by practice, and how do we practice if not via premarital sex.

Pls do we stil have virgins in this satanic age *Just curious*

the question that begs for answers is; who are those impatient guys having it with?

Its rely hard bt if she is a virgin shurely i will wait.

To me it not possible i don't know of any other person

I made the list of Celibate till marriage too

i believe its the virgins with dignity that can hold unto their pride til marriage.

A real God fearing Christain can also stand by marriage b4 sex.

As for me, that girl must be a virgin bfor i will wait til after marriage, xcept i become a stunch Christain.

The problem is that while you're (foolishly) waiting, there is a high chance that other ruthless men are bleeping her senseless elsewhere. When you eventually marry her, she would of course claim to be technically a virgin - that she lost her hymen while doing routine exercises. If you insist on making noise about how wide and loose her punny is, she would impudently ask you: 'Did you marry me for me or for my hymen'? The idea is to blackmail you into accepting and tolerating the fact that you have been conned into paying a high price for damaged goods.

The point is: what is the sense in waiting until marriage to have sex with someone that is already having sex with other people?

totalbaby: We'll it's not like the ladies raped the men. They unfortunately caved in and both parties played a role.

nothing unfortunate here dear, they allowed themselves to be decieved easily.

nikkyshyne: I wish they were.

will u keep ur virginity until marriage?

The truth of this matter is that there is no way to tell if a man is a virgin or not.if its d same way with girls I bet everybody in this world will be a virgin.

pro01:
The point is: what is the sense in waiting until marriage to have sex with someone that is already having sex with other people?

absolutely pointless.

Celibacy is impractical to me. How do u know you both are sexually compatible? How does she know I won't be a perpetual bad lay? I don't care for virginity, hardly the most important thing that goes into making any man-woman relationship click...