Richfella: My brother, the best way to fight fire is with fire. Abraham Lincoln told his son's teacher to "teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with tough people".

If someone gives you bullshít, immediately return the bullshít 2X. Once people know you have the potential and capacity to return their nonsense - they sit up.

Once you're timid, supplicating and ball-less, certain kinds of people smell blood and go for the kill.

Don't pretend to have a mistress, get a mistress. Stop helping her with stuff. Live in the house but do not be in the house.

IMPORTANT: You are not doing any of these to get a reaction from her. You are not doing this for her to change. NO! you're just coming at it from the position of one 'door closes...another door opens'.


You have a díck, which by it's very nature must be pocked into some dark places. Now, whether it's with her or with another party is entirely up to her.

NEVER beg for séx.

Acidosis: Draft a fake sms on your phone about how you enjoyed s. ex with another woman...

"hi sweety, when do I see you again? I still want a feel of yesterday's *** *winks*"

All you need is another new sim... Keep exchanging provocative sms with the line and make sure the sim is safe.

pDude: All of you unmarried people here are yarning balls.

Only a married person can advice thia fella. And here is the advice:

OP, the best way to get her attention is to treat her ecactly the way she treats you. Ignore her and don't beg her for sex or anything. Act nonchallantly. You will see results after a week or 2.

Please remember to say thank you.

Meegadough: Are you sure, she's not possessed? Her spiritual husband at work. She needs deliverance man. T.B Joshua can be of a help.

worldstevo: For over 2 years i have been married with no child.Even though i don't trouble my wife over this (tests done prove that her and not me have minor fertility issue) yet for over a year her attitude towards sex has been nothing to write home about.What i mean is that i practically have to beg her for sex.This terrible situation has caused several fights between us despite the fact that i have calmly had a chat with her on this matter on several occasions; trying to make her understand the temptations she is exposing me to of which she promised to change.Yet, she has repeatedly done otherwise; inspite of her initial promise/agreement not to deny me sex before we got married and uses any slightest disagreement,issue or excuse to frustrate my touch.
Apart from my job which i lost of recent,i hardly have any problem that a right thinking woman would complain of.I don't smoke,drink nor womanize and i help her in virtually everything domestic all in the name of love.
Now,my love for her is dwindling ; my patience over her childless state expiring and i am at the brink of searching for a mistress or more accommodating lady

KINDLY ADVICE ME COZ AM GOING NUTS HERE! I totally love sex.

jay bee: You might as well start helping yourself with

Richfella: My brother, the best way to fight fire is with fire. Abraham Lincoln told his son's teacher to "teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with tough people".

If someone gives you bullshít, immediately return the bullshít 2X. Once people know you have the potential and capacity to return their nonsense - they sit up.

Once you're timid, supplicating and ball-less, certain kinds of people smell blood and go for the kill.

Don't pretend to have a mistress, get a mistress. Stop helping her with stuff. Live in the house but do not be in the house.

IMPORTANT: You are not doing any of these to get a reaction from her. You are not doing this for her to change. NO! you're just coming at it from the position of one 'door closes...another door opens'.

You have a díck, which by it's very nature must be pocked into some dark places. Now, whether it's with her or with another party is entirely up to her.

NEVER beg for séx.

Richfella: My brother, the best way to fight fire is with fire. Abraham Lincoln told his son's teacher to "teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with tough people".

If someone gives you bullshít, immediately return the bullshít 2X. Once people know you have the potential and capacity to return their nonsense - they sit up.

Once you're timid, supplicating and ball-less, certain kinds of people smell blood and go for the kill.

Don't pretend to have a mistress, get a mistress. Stop helping her with stuff. Live in the house but do not be in the house.

IMPORTANT: You are not doing any of these to get a reaction from her. You are not doing this for her to change. NO! you're just coming at it from the position of one 'door closes...another door opens'.

You have a díck, which by it's very nature must be pocked into some dark places. Now, whether it's with her or with another party is entirely up to her.

NEVER beg for séx.

Richfella: My brother, the best way to fight fire is with fire. Abraham Lincoln told his son's teacher to "teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with tough people".

If someone gives you bullshít, immediately return the bullshít 2X. Once people know you have the potential and capacity to return their nonsense - they sit up.

Once you're timid, supplicating and ball-less, certain kinds of people smell blood and go for the kill.

Don't pretend to have a mistress, get a mistress. Stop helping her with stuff. Live in the house but do not be in the house.

IMPORTANT: You are not doing any of these to get a reaction from her. You are not doing this for her to change. NO! you're just coming at it from the position of one 'door closes...another door opens'.

You have a díck, which by it's very nature must be pocked into some dark places. Now, whether it's with her or with another party is entirely up to her.
NEVER beg for séx.

sexy74: @ Poster, show her love but treat her she treats you: if you are bored and cant stay without a child again get someone else to give you one if she truly has a problem as you said; but if the findings about fertility problem is not confirmed tell her you give her some time to change but if she does not guy make yourself happy and relegate her to the back ground: dont be at the mercy of the girl, she should be under your mercy: its a womans world which men control.

worldstevo: For over 2 years i have been married with no child.Even though i don't trouble my wife over this (tests done prove that her and not me have minor fertility issue) yet for over a year her attitude towards sex has been nothing to write home about.What i mean is that i practically have to beg her for sex.This terrible situation has caused several fights between us despite the fact that i have calmly had a chat with her on this matter on several occasions; trying to make her understand the temptations she is exposing me to of which she promised to change.Yet, she has repeatedly done otherwise; inspite of her initial promise/agreement not to deny me sex before we got married and uses any slightest disagreement,issue or excuse to frustrate my touch.
Apart from my job which i lost of recent,i hardly have any problem that a right thinking woman would complain of.I don't smoke,drink nor womanize and i help her in virtually everything domestic all in the name of love.
Now,my love for her is dwindling ; my patience over her childless state expiring and i am at the brink of searching for a mistress or more accommodating lady

KINDLY ADVICE ME COZ AM GOING NUTS HERE! I totally love sex.

pDude: All of you unmarried people here are yarning balls.

Only a married person can advice thia fella. And here is the advice:

OP, the best way to get her attention is to treat her ecactly the way she treats you. Ignore her and don't beg her for sex or anything. Act nonchallantly. You will see results after a week or 2.

Please remember to say thank you.

tpacalipse: Do you know that some people have remained unmarried because they know too much about marriage while some are married because they know nothing about marriage.

jp philips:


the guy is broke, the woman refuses him sex, that is a normal trend in Naija it is no news, on a second thought, she may be dealing with an STI or UTI and doesn't want you to be infected, either way, you are bleeped.

get something doing, then move out of the house, rent a quiet small apartment where you can get a little space to think, if all fails, you can throw in the towel and kick the bucket.

Fifty-Fifty:
One more reason why Islam will remain the best religion on the planet earth. In such a situation u have an option of either marrying another wife or just divorce her “after all efforts to reconcile among u prove abortive“. But that applies only to Islam.

pro01:

Lol. You can't possibly mean that. Kick the bucket ke? Unless we're talking about kicking her bucket; not his.

death is a justified end in my books, nothing wrong with committing suicide if one is tired. i see a lot of tired people on daily basis and i wonder; why haven t they killed themselves? they are just nuisance for serious minded people.
if you cant give yourself reasons to live by solving your problems where you can, then killing oneself becomes an option.
death is not as bad as it sounds you know