ifihearam: I think the man's side of the story is true. Why should a married woman spend weekends outside her home even if the man is cheating on her,I sincerely doubt if the women of nowadays can be as faithful as our mothers. Especially going by the said tribe of women simply nothing to trust about them.

seedord247: I keep sayin it.... Even thou i'm 101% yoruba, i wont marry from my tribe. If you marry a yoruba woman just have it mind that you marry the entire family. A yoruba woman cant think for herself unless she invite all her families.

H$LBroker:
women should learn to be submissive

H$LBroker:
women should learn to be submissive

ifihearam: I think the man's side of the story is true. Why should a married woman spend weekends outside her home even if the man is cheating on her,I sincerely doubt if the women of nowadays can be as faithful as our mothers. Especially going by the said tribe of women simply nothing to trust about them.

ifihearam: I think the man's side of the story is true. Why should a married woman spend weekends outside her home even if the man is cheating on her,I sincerely doubt if the women of nowadays can be as faithful as our mothers. Especially going by the said tribe of women simply nothing to trust about them.

nuges...1:
Our love became a nightmare when he found solace in another woman’s arms and he changed to a wife beater”. A house wife, Mrs Olubunmi Jolaogun, disclosed this while praying an Orile-Agege Grade ‘B’ Customary Court,Lagos to put an end to  her  9-year-old marriage to her husband, Olubode, over desertion and lack of care. The 35-year-old-woman, who lives at 2, Musa Street, Ikotun, told the court that her marriage had been nothing but a nightmare.

”My husband had nothing when I met him, and I was the one taking all the responsibility at home. ”When things started getting better for him, he neglected me and, before I knew it, he had impregnated another woman and spends quality time with her. ”He lied that he was going to Abuja. I later saw the receipt of the hotel he lodged in  here in Lagos during that time,”she said.

”He always accused me of prostituting which I never did; he came to report me to my parents and, in the process, he slapped my elder sister.”

Olubunmi, a mother of two urged the court to dissolve the union and grant her custody of the children. Meanwhile, Olubode, 38, denied the allegations. He said, “I did not leave her. My business took me out of the house. I have always cared  for her and the children. ”While I am away, she doesn’t sleep in the house, and I don’t know where she normally goes. She is extremely stubborn and doesn’t listen to me.

”She has not spent  up to 30 weekends in my house for the past four years and I don’t know why”. Olabode, who lives at 9, Temidire Street, Ikola, Ipaja, Lagos also told the court that his wife had pushed him outside and could not be a caring and responsible husband again if the marriage was not dissolved.

”If the custody of the children is granted her, I want my children to be taken to my parents  every holidays, because my wife’s family contributed negatively to our fight”. The court president, Mr Joseph Adewusi, told the couple to maintain the peace and adjourned the case till Jan 28 for further hearing.

Richvkunt: I can feel this man's pain.
90% of divorce case can be traced to the fact that extended families want to influence events in a marriage and this ends up as interference.
Parents,brothers,sisters need to learn that once a couple become man and wife they MUST be given their space and be allowed to build up their home.
Take it from one who knows what he is talking about.

Richvkunt: I can feel this man's pain.
90% of divorce case can be traced to the fact that extended families want to influence events in a marriage and this ends up as interference.
Parents,brothers,sisters need to learn that once a couple become man and wife they MUST be given their space and be allowed to build up their home.
Take it from one who knows what he is talking about.

seedord247: I keep sayin it.... Even thou i'm 101% yoruba, i wont marry from my tribe. If you marry a yoruba woman just have it mind that you marry the entire family. A yoruba woman cant think for herself unless she invite all her families.

ifihearam: I think the man's side of the story is true. Why should a married woman spend weekends outside her home even if the man is cheating on her,I sincerely doubt if the women of nowadays can be as faithful as our mothers. Especially going by the said tribe of women simply nothing to trust about them.

ajanaku2:

...Just 'cos such situations are common in your immediate and extended family doesn't mean you should stereotype all Yorubas!...Omo Ale rada rada!

colombiana: At times we human just fool oursefs. An average guy has like 7 girls he nails and a cute guy probably 50 then a rich guy hmmmmn dozens, wat about a cute and rich guy? Or are the women 20 times the men in naija mtchewwww. Just maturity and discipline we all need. If a guy can't zip up then a woman shudnt close up. Givin xcuses for lust is absurd and immature

Richvkunt: I can feel this man's pain.
90% of divorce case can be traced to the fact that extended families want to influence events in a marriage and this ends up as interference.
Parents,brothers,sisters need to learn that once a couple become man and wife they MUST be given their space and be allowed to build up their home.
Take it from one who knows what he is talking about.

bukatyne: Really? and men should learn to love!

H$LBroker:
Now let me educate you base on 11years experience, a submissive woman can win back the man that is about to get lost, even the bible said so, that is why i love muslim women they act like sarah, wife of abraham, i'm not talking about career women oo because majority of them don't want to hear the word submission, any home you find submissive woman the home is always peaceful and progressing and love will be abundant in that home but any home you find a sturborn woman that is dragging the headship of that home with the man there always problem that we lead to dirvoce

ajanaku2:

...Just 'cos such situations are common in your immediate and extended family doesn't mean you should stereotype all Yorubas!...Omo Ale rada rada!

Fhemmmy:

Same thing could be said about a man, cos a man that loves his wife the way he has been told to, will easily get the submission of a wife . . .

ifihearam: I think the man's side of the story is true. Why should a married woman spend weekends outside her home even if the man is cheating on her,I sincerely doubt if the women of nowadays can be as faithful as our mothers. Especially going by the said tribe of women simply nothing to trust about them.

H$LBroker:
you are correct but you can't expect a man that come back home and the wife sub him for lateness and didn't give him food without finding out the reason for his lateness after making him comfortable to get love from this man that has already been stressed outside because of family.

vanstanzy: Both parties are lying. I greatly pity the kids involved. Next!!!

Fhemmmy:

very true, but a real man too would call home that he is running late and not say, I am the man of the house when i enter, i enter . . A real man would call him and tell the wife how things are, at least that would make him look caring and responsible.
How would that man feel if the woman just eat, go to bed before the husband is home, would he prefer the woman to just make the food and leave it on the table and just go to bed?
But if he calls, a real "Woman" would not nag such man upon his return, cos she is already aware of her coming home late for that day. . . it is all about communication.