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Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by embee430(m): 5:42pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
I must admit that playing the field is a whole lot of fun, but so is being in a serious relationship -- provided that it's with the right woman. But how do you know if she really is the right woman for you? If she possesses the following 10 traits, you better hold on to her for dear life or, before you know it, a guy who already knows where it's at will get his hands on your "goods." 10. SHE'S INDEPENDENT: No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby- sit. Once in a while, like if she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can't seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she will eventually make you feel like you're suffocating, which is a surefire way to get you running out the nearest exit. On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can stand on her own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you -- while still missing you, of course -- then she must be a great girlfriend. 9 SHE'S INTELLIGENT: I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on. Instead of being the one in total control, you'll find yourself trying to figure out what she's really thinking behind those glazed eyes of hers -- or if she's actually thinking at all. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored of her. Besides, it's nice to have something to talk about between all that chandelier-hanging sex. 8 SHE'S SEXUAL: While we're on the topic, a great girlfriend has to be sexually compatible with you. For instance, if you're into S&M and she's more the "fluffy lingerie" type, that's a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page -- or, at least, she has to be willing to wear leather and use a whip from time to time. Of course, this doesn't imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that you and she have an undeniable attraction towards each other, and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues). It is important that you please each other in the bedroom, or on top of the dryer -- whatever the case may be. 7 SHE'S BEAUTIFUL: I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. She should always look her best and be well put together -- matching lingerie is a definite plus. You have to be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you think her full bottom or uncontrollable curls are beautiful, you're allowed. 6. SHE RESPECT YOU: This is a biggie. Your woman must respect you. This means that she listens to you, even if she doesn't necessarily agree with what you're saying. And, of course, she never tries to demean or belittle you in any way, shape, or form. A great girlfriend won't ever cause scenes in public or in front of your friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with you in private. If she respects you, chances are that she will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations, which is definitely a good thing. Does your woman bring you and the guys beer on poker night? 5. SHE LETS YOU BE THE MAN Do not -- I repeat -- do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up poker night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. A good girlfriend lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all. If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches. She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to be yourself. Just like you wouldn't deprive her of going shopping with her best girlfriend, she shouldn't expect you to give up the guys for her. 4. SHE'S NAGLESS There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to speak-up and when to let it slide. You don't want a girlfriend who will give you the heights of hell for leaving a couple of dishes in the sink occasionally. However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her, and she lets you have it, then you're setting yourself up for disaster. This is a situation that nobody would let slide -- not even a great girlfriend. 3. SHE GETS ALONG WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILIES A great girlfriend will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to your dad's stories, and hang out with your friends, she will enjoy it. She'll make a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in your life. And she won't try to get you to ditch your best buds. 2. SHE LOVES YOU If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her. A woman who doesn't try to change you is hard to find. Of course, everyone has their slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she really loves you, she will be able to cope with these. 1. SHE MAKES YOU WANT TO BE A BETTER MAN Stop making that face... Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn't have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be love. I hope this helps the ladies in turning out great and the guys in understanding and knowing what you have. 5 Likes |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Bootybuttchic(f): 6:29pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
love this;nicestttt write uppp,;thumbs up |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:45pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
Well,i think these are top 10 traits of a perfect girlfriend...which most likely, is unobtainable in real life. But if it's a wife,these tips are more realistic. 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:47pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
I knw this will make FP so I here by comment. Pizarrah |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by castielo(m): 9:10pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
-Yawns- stories dat touch the heart... |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by KINGwax(m): 10:55pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
So, ugly girls no get hope, abi? |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:11pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
KINGwax: So, ugly girls no get hope, abi? Hehehehehehe. |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:13pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
Na wa oh. Everyday one keeps reading different tips on how to this, how to that. As for me, I formulate my own how to do tips. 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by greedie1(f): 11:19pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
Top ten you say?? |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:21pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
DP. |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:57pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
Which lady has all this trait? |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by seunfly: 11:58pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
I[/color][color=#000000] wish i have that kind of girl as a wife especialy if she add spirituality to make it top 10. But in Nigeria that list is difficult to come by especialy that INDEPENDENT GIRL (who does not ask for MONEY) is a falacy in Nigeria, first rules of naija girls is weighing of the finacial capacity of any guy b4 going out with him. |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Nnekacherry: 12:25am On Feb 06, 2013 |
Nice |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:31am On Feb 06, 2013 |
Nnekacherry: Niceit's always 'nice' by you #lol |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Nnekacherry: 12:07pm On Feb 06, 2013 |
binger: it's always 'nice' by you #lol Lol.. Yes.. If it doesn't make sense, i would have said so or ignore.. |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 06, 2013 |
Nnekacherry:Yeah, right...i hope u're good btw? |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by temtem1(m): 12:59pm On Feb 06, 2013 |
If I had met a woman with 2,3,4,7 and 10... I would ve long been married! |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by 2bosun: 1:39pm On Feb 06, 2013 |
^^^^^^ If you're waiting for a woman with all those traits. You'll be waiting for a vvvveeerryyy loooonng time. |
Re: Top 10 Trait Of A Great Girlfriend by specialguest(f): 2:31pm On Feb 06, 2013 |
A girlfriend with all these traits should be a wife! Period 1 Like |
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