Would you think of dating a young, recently separated woman who has children?

I swear i can,
if she seperated for a good and genuine reason.
If she is a victim of circumstance.
beautiful,

chychy:

@ fredrika
please i hope u aint lookin @ datin already, u aint ready yet.

in good time, it will all fall into place.

I knew you will tell me this

Don't worry, I am not looking for anybody. At least not from here. If I meet somebody, that will be in IRL. I am just entertaining myself, and kind of curious to know what guys will think about woman like me. Just want to find out if there would be chance for me to find somebody, when I am ready.

Yes i can.

Chilrdren Not even a child ? Abeg i nor fit o !

With all due respect, I can not. Me, date a 'young' woman with kids (a tokunbo)? Count me out.

No.

Yes!!

She go get enough money in her account? If yes, then positive but if no, then count me out.

LOL, exactly

@all
nothing is wrong with that as much as am concerned sha oooooo!

As in?

if she is a widow yes
if na seperation and the guy man still de kampe NO!
Because once debe is debe forever!

What's up poster? If you are busy making babies, don't you think you should be a little responsible and try to be busy taking care of them instead of thinking of how to get more babies? To get to your question. It depends on what the date is for, to help you get more babies? I don't know. To just have fun and leave your kids home alone? I don't know. To just go out and drink and forget about your responsibilities? I don't know. Or do you need some one that will help you financially take care of some one's children? I don't know. So to answer your question you need to be specific. Date, doesn't really mean anything, what's for is what counts.

is she rich?? nothing bad with a sugar mama to pay off my student loans

seriously though how many kids, and are u really in the process of divorce or just separated for a little bit.

It was just a rhetorical question.

Ok, only because the marriage did not work out, do you think woman should stay alone for the rest of her life, without man?

I did not mention she needs financial support, did not mention she would leave her children at home and go to have fun.

Who said she is busy making babies? Sometimes you marry, have children, and for reason or another things just not work out.

Ok?

Yes! with reasons

To all the guys that said yes to taking on a young woman with her children, una don earn my RESPECT from today. To the coward guys that said no they can't do it, just imagine if it were you left with the children to take care of, how easy will be for you to date?

Listen up sista jay or what ever you call your self. This isn’t a matter of being a coward or not. This is a matter of being responsible. So what do you expect? I should thank her for having fun, having babies and looking for more ways to leave the kids alone and have more? So, guys should just leave the hard working, responsible ladies alone and look for those that have puzzled life style? Think. Use your head the next time you post your Shit.

its not easy but it is do-able.

Nope, not for me sha, i aint ready for all that baby father drama

Sorry

@ outlaw
I guess it takes the two of us to post shit here, but hey yours stinks the most. OOh do remain an OUTLAW.

ChildrenHow many four . I beg, my mama go vex. Plenty unmarried chics dey wey no get bobo, na mi go con dey date mother of four . If I don born before and I don seperate "ehen" na another issue. But as I still be bobo "Ko si nko to joo"

Fredrika:

Would you think of dating a young, recently separated woman who has children?

@Fredrika
I know this is for guys", but i speak out myself for you to be aware the fact from what I have seen common issues everywhere in the world.

Normally, most men do not date young woman who is recently separated with children. WHY? because she is STILL LEGAL MARRIED, most men STAY AWAY not want too much trouble with child's daddy (still LEGAL HUSBAND) drama. Called "EXTRA BAGGAGE" . Most men just play along to pretend to be loved young separated woman on the relationship that most men won't bring her to their mama! You know what i mean.

If you are still separated single mother of child(ren), then you are better off taking your own responsible yourself for a long time unless your husband either divorced you or changed his mind to reconcile you later, or dead or death penalty prison.

TOO MANY SINGLE MOTHERS WITH CHILDREN, divorced, separated or unmarried out there around the world! MOST MEN RUN, RUN, RUN!!! Very few men will accept dating/marrying a divorced/widowed young single mother with only ONE CHILD. >>>>PAY ATTENTION: Not separated young single mother with ONE CHILD.

Good luck!

To Jay Sister: Bleep you and your post. ill headed, outdated, stupid Bitch.

outlaws:



To Jay Sister: Bleep you and your post. ill headed, outdated, stupid Bitch.

why the name calling?

y not i c nothing wrong with that, as far as she still got her charms

@outlaw

Hmm, never knew such scum could come out of your mouth instead of your arse. I ain't bringin myself down to your level little boy.