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Ten Don't(s) For A Successful R/shp. by JadeWilliam(f): 3:11pm On Feb 16, 2013
1).DON'T LET UR LOVE GROW COLD: Keep d love burnin thru sharin of gifts,eating 2gether,stayin awake till ur spouse gets home;seeing him off to d airport/park;goin 2favourite places whether cinema/parks/shows etc.As for d women,u can escort ur husbnd 2go&watch football.Always say d work ''I love u'' everyday;b4 hangin up d phone;in public;text messages etc.
2).DON'T STOP APPRECIATING&PRAISING UR PATNER: no matter how little what he/sh did for u,appreciate it.When sh cooks a good meal,praise her&tell her how good it taste;sh'l always b happy 2cook somthng delicious 4u.When he/sh dresses,tell him/her how good sh looks.He/sh wil go out that day with high esteem.
3).DON'T TAKE HIS/HER FEELINGS FORGRANTED: Always listen 2him/her whether he/sh is talkin nonsense or not.Givin listenin ears 2his/her complains gives him/her a sense of belonging.Woteva he/sh complains abt,try 2avoid it or change it.My spouse has issues wit my pingin&facebookin so wheneva he's around,I put my phone on silence&hide it&he loved that I didn't neglect his complaints
4).DON'T LOSE HIS/HER TRUST: Whether wit money or whether its wit d truth,try not 2lose ur patner's trust cos trust is d bedrock of evry r/shp.B open&transparent wit ur phones,laptop,emails&so on.
5).DON'T NAGG UR PATNER: When u nagg a man,he won't b happy coming home 2u&if u nagg ur wife,sh won't b happy wen u com home.Sit dwn&form an approach 4layin ur complains without naggin d persn
6).DON'T NEGLECT/DISREGARD UR PATNER'S AFFAIRS: Always put him/her first in evrythng.If sh wants u 2drive her 2d salon b4 goin 2ur frnd's office,do dat. If ur boo doesn't want 2eat d old soup/stew,prepare somthng else.Wot eva that's important 2ur patner,don't toss it aside.Always treat it as a priority.Sacrifice is vry vry important in evry r/shp.
7).DON'T EMBARRASS OR TALK DOWN UR PATNER IN PUBLIC: U knw his/her flaws,u don't need 2announce it 2d whole world
cool.DON'T ABUSE UR PATNER PHYSICALLY,EMOTIONALLY OR MENTALLY: Not only men abuse women.Women abuse men mentally&mental abuse drains a persn 2d grave.I watched former USA president; Abraham Lincoln's movie&realised his wife verbally&mentally abused him.Sh neva saw anythng good in him&talked down on him&let him knw dat he wasn't good enough.A lot of women ar that way.They keep comparin their husbnds,fiancee&boyfriends wit other successful men.Do u knw how long or wot it cost them 2get 2where they are.Mental abuse is one of d leadin causes of suicide.I knw a boy that killed himself at age 16 because his parents kept tellin him he'l neva b any in future cos he always failed in sch.
9).DON'T B JUDGEMENTAL AT AL TIMES: Ppl are always quick 2judge&criticize their patner's actions whch is not fair.I used 2do dat a lot until somone critisized me&i pain me 2my marrows&my spouse told me dat I used 2do dat alot&dats how It also pained my victioms so I stopped. Nobody is perfect
10).DON'T BREAK UR PATNER'S HEART: If u'r tired of a r/shp,just walk away.Don't leave a long lastin scar dat'l damage d persn's heart&self esteem.Somone wil tak d hand u failed with&succeed with it;somone wil tak d man/woman u said is good for nothin&mak him/her d love of his/her life.Heartbreak is another leadin cause of depression,unforgiveness,self-loathin,suicide&homicide.Heartbreak includes so many thngs whch I can't list out but d summary of it al is that u shld do un2 others what u'l like others 2do unto u

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Re: Ten Don't(s) For A Successful R/shp. by EduColombo(m): 8:23pm On Feb 16, 2013
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Re: Ten Don't(s) For A Successful R/shp. by Chinwem(f): 8:41pm On Feb 16, 2013
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Re: Ten Don't(s) For A Successful R/shp. by gboyetade: 4:41am On May 26, 2013
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