I can help out once in a while, its that simple.

freecocoa: I can help out once in a while, its that simple.

You can help out when you feel like it. I only hate it when some guys now make it seem as though it's the job of the lady. The lady should determine when she wants to do it.

That's one thing that disgusts me about Nigerian men.
I'm not your mother, don't expect me to do wifey material stuff for you, while you give me nothing.
I used to b4 till I came to my senses. I did it to be nice, but I realized that it came as an expectation for them.
Mthewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Very annoying.

If u didn't do all dat 4 me den y ar u fiancé or gfrnd 4 me. Must it be only on bed?

Yoruba_Omoge: That's one thing that disgusts me about Nigerian men.
I'm not your mother, don't expect me to do wifey material stuff for you, while you give me nothing.
I used to b4 till I came to my senses. I did it to be nice, but I realized that it came as an expectation for them.
Mthewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Very annoying.

What's your own grouse? is it the fact that you're washing plate for him or the fact the he's not reciprocating the gesture?

Yoruba_Omoge: That's one thing that disgusts me about Nigerian men.
I'm not your mother, don't expect me to do wifey material stuff for you, while you give me nothing.
I used to b4 till I came to my senses. I did it to be nice, but I realized that it came as an expectation for them.
Mthewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Very annoying.

Dats y u wil pass ur menopause b4 u wil get married cos no 9ija man marry because of f***k again ok

Afam4eva:
What's your own grouse? is it the fact that you're washing plate for him or the fact the he's not reciprocating the gesture?

Women are so constraint my society that they fail to realize that while they're busy doing wifey material, their boyffy isn't doing any husband material.

How do Nigerian men reciprocate wifey material? If its the dciiiik, no thanks. I know where to get a bigger, thicker dil.do.

They're completely lazy and useless, tbh.

Idowuogbo:
In 2013, y'all still get dis kian mentality? Wots d biggie about sweeping, washing and cooking? I mean for Godsake, dose are d qualities a guy who wants to settle down would probably be on d look out for. All dis shakara dey ruin cv o! U were warned o! Hian! Smh.

So, if I do his chores, will he buy me brazilian weave, shoes, dresses? Abeg joor! With the way you guys are stingy, I always tell women not to. Abi, you nor get hands and feet! Shior!

1man's squard:


Dats y u wil pass ur menopause b4 u wil get married cos no 9ija man marry because of f***k again ok

Thank you.

Yoruba_Omoge:

Women are so constraint my society that they fail to realize that while they're busy doing wifey material, their boyffy isn't doing any husband material.

How do Nigerian men reciprocate wifey material? If its the dciiiik, no thanks. I know where to get a bigger, thicker dil.do.

They're completely lazy and useless, tbh.

GBAM!

kandiikane:

So, if I do his chores, will he buy me brazilian weave, shoes, dresses? Abeg joor! With the way you guys are stingy, I always tell women not to. Abi, you nor get hands and feet! Shior!

That's my girl
Don't mind idowu. Na Alamo bitters she drank for breakfast.

freecocoa: I can help out once in a while, its that simple.

An u stil pray 4 him to propose to u wen gals dat ar ready to play d roles of houz wife ar dere lukin 44 husband or dnt u no dat husband ar scared or do u want to marry ur boyfriend?

Yoruba_Omoge:

That's my girl
Don't mind idowu. Na Alamo bitters she drank for breakfast.

Lol, I didn't realise it was her I quoted.

Some ladies should be careful of what they say in public forums, you never can say who may be reading. As for those that said they can't act the role for a boyfriend, you wont either when he becomes the husband because wife roles don't jump on girls after wedding ceremony. If you don't do it before marriage you aint gonna do it in marriage !!!! When i see such brazen comments from people, first thing i do is to click on their profile, God help them they don't have relationship with someone i know or else i would sit that guy down and tell him to run for his life. Finally, by their words you shall know them.

yes ......... shikena

Xavier1976: Some ladies should be careful of what they say in public forums, you never can say who may be reading. As for those that said they can't act the role for a boyfriend, you wont either when he becomes the husband because wife roles don't jump on girls after wedding ceremony. If you don't do it before marriage you aint gonna do it in marriage !!!! When i see such brazen comments from people, first thing i do is to click on their profile, God help them they don't have relationship with someone i know or else i would sit that guy down and tell him to run for his life. Finally, by their words you shall know them.

Marriage is not by force, so put a sock in it.

I hope Obama is reading, maybe I'd actually care.

Lazy Nigerian men looking for mama part 2.

kandiikane:

So, if I do his chores, will he buy me brazilian weave, shoes, dresses? Abeg joor! With the way you guys are stingy, I always tell women not to. Abi, you nor get hands and feet! Shior!

Wot u saying?

U tell women to stop catering to dier men? Seriously? May Jah deliver u o!

I dont think dere's anying wrong wit doin a few chores 4 some1 u luv. buh playing d role of a wife wen u r just his gurlfwend is a NO NO. D truth is, alot of guys would take it 2 mean dat u re desperate, dey would think u re tryin 2 scheme ur way in2 his house permanently.

Yoruba_Omoge:

That's my girl
Don't mind idowu. Na Alamo bitters she drank for breakfast.

Americana aka madam freedom writer! Emi ko high o! All na true stories....

what's with girls and the house chore question these days?
if u cant help out with the chores, dont come to my house.
a lady can't be around me and i'll be the one cooking for her, washing plates for her after she eats, washing the bed spread after we'v slept together
and to think i'v got to do all these things for her after work?
abeg all these girls complaining are heartless.
if u employ a house girl, they'll still complain

Idowuogbo:
Americana aka madam freedom writer! Emi ko high o! All na true stories....

I'll be back on this thread in a few.....
All these lazy Nigerian men with mouthy odors, I get una time today.

Maya2pretty:
Ah ahn, lol, is dis jealousy I smell?

offcourse.. not good in pretending..

1man's squard:


An u stil pray 4 him to propose to u wen gals dat ar ready to play d roles of houz wife ar dere lukin 44 husband or dnt u no dat husband ar scared or do u want to marry ur boyfriend?

You think say na playing the role of housewife go make am propose? I laugh loudly at you .

No be mouth my guy, I can't remember the last time I did chores for my bf and trust me, he knows what he's got, as far as he's sure I'm not lazy and can do chores then there's no biggy.

A friend of mine that I talked about on one thread in the family section just got dumped by a bf she practically worships and does everything a wife would do for her husband and more for, what would you say about that?

Abegi.

I won't marry most these girls. Ewwww

Maya2pretty:
Oya PM now now

Oh! upgrade to pm level after just concluding good morning?..Op & seun cohorts sorry for derailing.. *some importants issues can't just ignored*..

luvmijeje: @Idowuogbo,wetin u deh talk now,guy weh never pay ur bride price I will now be doing wifely duties.Then why the need for marriage.
As other said,there should be a limit to what u will do for a bf.

if all these r only 4 wifey to do,pls list three things u can do as galfriend to show love apart 4rm sex that he can pay for outside

Turning his house upside down all in d name of cleaning and playing d "wifey" does not guarantee d title "mrs". However like some peeps hv said here,u can help out once in a while like weekends.

Afam4eva:
You can help out when you feel like it. I only hate it when some guys now make it seem as though it's the job of the lady. The lady should determine when she wants to do it.

You make some points!..but when a lady apply limited asistance toward her guy then there is tendency friendship might not yeld any result..so why the pretence?...who is fooling who? l still believe show ur best & leave the rest to God..l advice ladies be honest even ur guy don't value it he ill regret it later..honesty pay so much!.

freecocoa: You think say na playing the role of housewife go make am propose? I laugh loudly at you .

No be mouth my guy, I can't remember the last time I did chores for my bf and trust me, he knows what he's got, as far as he's sure I'm not lazy and can do chores then there's no biggy.

A friend of mine that I talked about on one thread in the family section just got dumped by a bf she practically worships and does everything a wife would do for her husband and more for, what would you say about that?

Abegi.

if u are doing it all, it should be because u feel the need to help out not because u are enticing him to put a ring on it.
and even if someday he or u decides to end the r/ship, u shouldnt feel sad for the reason that he turned u down after all the house chores u did.
i'v grown up with ladies who cant afford to see any dirt around.
any time my elder sister comes around, she puts the house in order for me and quarrel y i'v not washed the dishes for 2 days, not that i'm dirty but its not easy to come home after a tiring work day and still muster the strength to the chores.
if my own sister can help out, y shouldnt my girl friend do that anytime she's around, if her own friends come visiting and see the whole place unkept, will they blame me for been dirty or will blame her for been lazy?

Yoruba_Omoge:

I'll be back on this thread in a few.....
All these lazy Nigerian men with mouthy odors, I get una time today.

Honestly u ill get more than what u bargain for..

The question to me is a no-brainer.

If a guy is responsible and does more than what your friends' husband does for u (financially, emotionally), i mean a guy that is always there for you just leave his room alone, his neighbour will take care of it and you will post heart break on Nairaland.

The question is that some guys are worth it while some are not.

The question should be , How do i know a guy who is worth it ?

Awon greedy girls...what about the guy paying your bills? Is he your husband too...na people like una dey create thread on "why am i still single @40