True2myself24: I wouldnt do it. There's nothing wrong with helping out on the weekends with cooking, but the rest really? Playing wife is not the same as being a wife. Why buy the cow if the milk is free.

razznaija: Cooking, doing his laundry and cleaning his house are not going to buy a ring for me if he doesn't like me, he is going to dump me anyways, so what is the point?

dammytosh:

My dear, God bless you. You don't enjoy a relationship through principle. There should be a place of you shifting ground and that is called love.

If you have this guy who can stake his life for you. Defends you. You know how unsafe you feel without him being around. there is a problem, all you need is just for your baby to say , "It is well." Tell me what is too much ?

Please don't follow all this anonymous users that scream God Forbid. I know their type. The last girl that claimed she will never play with a guy with her penny confessed to me that her ex-boyfriend is oweing her 1.9million after they broke up.

Follow your heart. If he is worth it, u know.

bukatyne: @OP: Dammytosh made a very worthy point: The question is not if it's right or wrong; The question is 'Is he worth it?' Before I met my fiancee, I don't do house chores for guys as a principle. However, when we started, there was nothing he couldn't do for me domestically and in every way. I was open to change and I did everything worth doing for him to. Naturally, we do all chores together because it's so much fun. When I wanted to relocate b'cos of my job, he looked for the house, cleaned it and we scrubed it together. He would soon get his apartment and I would be more than glad to do those chores. While we
were serving, he always cooked elaborately when I was coming and reciprocated the gesture. Love is about sharing and putting each other's needs above ours. So the question really is: 'Is your guy worth it?'

buchibabe:

My dear,u hv made more point dan evryone here put togeda.

Yoruba_Omoge: Freecocoa bought up a good point.

For all the desperate girls playing solve for their boffy,Mehta makes you think he's going to put a wrong on it? lmao.

If a man really wants to determine if you're wifey material, let him spend some time at your home. Let him see how you manage YOUR home. Going to his house to "perform" is unnecessary if all he wants to determine if your ability; if you're able.

Don't let these lazy azz Nigerian men, who are spoilt by gender expectations, to determine your value based on how much work you do n his home. Lol

bukatyne: My dear, only a foolish person would read something on Nl and would want to practice it in Real Land when what you have is working for you. No two relationships is the same and we must both be ready to sacrifice to make it work. I remember when I was in 300L, a friend told me I was behaving like a married woman following my guy about. She said I don't have freedom to do what I like or go about. i don't accept dates from other guys etc. I just looked at her and smiled. I know where I am going to, the kind of guy I want etc and don't need to be distracted. I don't subscribe to her idea of fun : wearing mini skirts to parties, jumping from man to man etc. and I rather behave like a married woman to a humble man who pampers, honors and respects me than be a 'big' girl hopping about.

Yoruba_Omoge: Freecocoa bought up a good point.

For all the desperate girls playing solve for their boffy,Mehta makes you think he's going to put a wrong on it? lmao.

If a man really wants to determine if you're wifey material, let him spend some time at your home. Let him see how you manage YOUR home. Going to his house to "perform" is unnecessary if all he wants to determine if your ability; if you're able.

Don't let these lazy azz Nigerian men, who are spoilt by gender expectations, to determine your value based on how much work you do n his home. Lol

Idowuogbo:
If u are doing so called "chores" @ home, wots d big deal doing d same thing @ his? Does it necessarily mean u his housekeeper? It's something you should do naturally, it shud only become a problem if ur bofy starts dictating.

buchibabe:

My dear,u hv made more point dan evryone here put togeda. Most of dis babes claiming to do heaven n earth in d name of doing house chores,how sure are we dt u really do dem abi ur just claiming superwoman.

eagle,eye:


ALL THOSE GUYS GOING ABOUT SPENDING AND DOING HUSBANDLY THINGS FOR THEIR BABES, i sorry for una.
IF YOU THINK IT WILL STOP THEM FROM BED HOPPING AND LEAVING YOUR BROKE AZZ IT WON'T.
If a girl wants to know how GENEROUS and CAPABLE YOU ARE AS A MAN, let her watch how you spend for your mum and siblings and how your home is equipped with modern gadgets and how baffed up you are.

I really love meeting Agarachas and show casing just how selfish I can be.

Yoruba_Omoge:

Yet not doing the chores at his home has a negative impact on my wifey material. So think about it.
If its not much of an issue, threads like this wont sprint material.

Yoruba_Omoge:


The question that no one has yet to answer is what does man do to reciprocate the so called wifey material.

Idowuogbo:
Bukky no offence o! but i gats tuck dis babe.

Madam buchi, how you so sure buki ain't bluffing? Oh I gerrit! I probably should have written 6 pages worth of examples to convince you d nobody dat I do it all ba? Msteew! Don't u go indirectly pointing ya damn fingers at pips u don't physically know.Ok?

Yoruba_Omoge:

Makes sense. Do that.

buchibabe:

Madam dry cleaner,y d response? Do I sense guilty conscience u can even clean d roof top of ur guys house,who's biz is it?
I won't reply u further,cos its not worth it.

ConfidentVee: Guys are just too lazy, they want cooked food all the time. No food for LAZY MAN. Do house chores if u can STUPID Always looking for who to take the blame.

ConfidentVee: Guys are just too lazy, they want cooked food all the time. No food for LAZY MAN. Do house chores if u can ST*P*D, Always looking for who to take the blame.

eagle,eye:


Girls are too greedy, they only want to feed off a hussling dude. NO PLACE FOR A GREEDY biatch.
Show that you care or else go meet ya papa and brothers for stuffs.

Yoruba_Omoge:

I came to his house to spend quality time together.

eagle,eye:


Girls are too greedy, they only want to feed off a hussling dude. NO PLACE FOR A GREEDY biatch.
Show that you care or else go meet ya papa and brothers for stuffs.

igbo_barbie: Na wa o. Firstly it is not a girlfriends job to cook and clean after a man. If he can't do it himself then he should get a maid to do that for him or in fact marry her then he can get a personal cook/cleaner 24/7. I think it is ok helping your man out as it is something that is nice to do but he should not expect that just because i am his gf i have to wash his clothes etc. Personally, I don't mind cooking whenever am with my bf because i enjoy cooking but am lucky that i don't have a lazy man. He does not expect me to clean after himself( am not his mom) as he does it himself and even when cooking he helps with dishes. If you want your girlfriend to act like a wife then make her your wife.

ItsModella:
abegi...which kain useless generalization be this? if girls are greedy, then your sister and your mother are included...

Truckpusher: Impressive....but you also expect this same guy to foot some of your bills?