dammytosh:

There is a place for greedy Biatch oooo. They get laid several times until the responsible girl come.

ConfidentVee: Guys are just too lazy, they want cooked food all the time. No food for LAZY MAN. Do house chores if u can ST*P*D, Always looking for who to take the blame.

eagle,eye:


Na why I like your type. I get one babe like that b4 - b4, the only thing we do whenever we meet na to fuc,k our brains out.
I pay as I Bleep. She does the same. If she needs my help on anything, she go holla me on phone and I go just come do am sharpaly. After the assignment na to drive go house for fuckery.

It was only when she started demanding more than the normal wages for fuckery that I decided to move on.

Yoruba_Omoge: Can you imagine, me that should be doing my own laundry at home, is expected to be washing one boys dirty laundry. Mtchewwww

I came to his house to spend quality time together, not to do no wifey material nonsense that like many societal construct, defines womanhood.

If I have that grown azz puzziii, I no be woman again? Let me hear word.

If he cooks for me, we can do the dishes together nauuuuuu. Na who go stay with a lazyyy man with no wifey material sef.

My boffy must have the wifey material because no one wants to marry a lazy, dirty, resourceless man.

ItsModella:
you sef, why? what kind of assumption is this? how many guys have you even met? I hope this your generalization includes your brothers and father.

igbo_barbie: lol i can foot my own bills thank you, i have a job and it's not his duty to do so.

dammytosh:

There is a place for greedy Biatch oooo. They get laid several times until the responsible girl come.

You come, u get laid , u gist, u go. continue the cycle until u expire.........

ItsModella:
you sef, why? what kind of assumption is this? how many guys have you even met? I hope this your generalization includes your brothers and father.

Idowuogbo:
ako e ti poju! iwo ekiti yi sha! i'll pray for u.

Truckpusher: haba!!! you never waited for me to complete the whole thing you've already quoted me...NICE WAY TO GO SHA I'LL HIT 100LIKES FOR YOU

miss law: I HVNT BEEN IN DIS KINDA SITUATION...
BT I WUD LUV TO HELP OUT nd I KNW MA GUY HE WUDNT STAND DER WATCHIN ME DOING DEM,INSTEAD HE WIL JOIN ME ND WE CN BOTH DO IT TOGEDA

razznaija: Cooking, doing his laundry and cleaning his house are not going to buy a ring for me if he doesn't like me, he is going to dump me anyways, so what is the point?

Yoruba_Omoge:

Sorry pele, your subtle insult just flew out of the window. Lol sorry, if you really meet a chic like moi, you wouldn't leave. Gba be!!!

So because she didn't come to your dirty face me face you home, you dey vex?

At least she bleeped your brain out and moved on the mr right.

2buff: Na only Idowuogbo dey make sense for here.

If you visit your guy and chill, you dey tell me say you no go at all at all enter kitchen one daay cook for una 2?
All these tolo-tolo girls today sef. Dem too dey fall hand

Somebody there was talking about "token". All the toasting, and things he does out of love for you at his own expense, don't you think he can decide to "not play role of husband before marriage" too? When he fails to do that, of course we will then see aanother thread on nairaland about how your guy no dey show you love again.

Truckpusher: funny thing is most these ladies in this forum commenting on this particular topic saying over their dead will they wash and cook for their man don't reside in Nigeria and would probably end up with peeps like them over there or folks around here that are willing to tolerate them....but my sincere condolences goes to my fellow no transfer no leave ladies because our Naija boys aren't ready to compromise their 1860 mentality wahala dey oooohhh

Yoruba_Omoge:

Idowu always make sense, not to say she's not making sense on this thread because of differing opinion, but I really disagree with her.

If a man wants to know that she can cook, clean, etc. . . go to her house. Simple.

If she's cooking and she wants to make a plate for two, consider yourself lucky.

When will men start displaying wifey material? Won't be home to cook for his kids when his wife is MIA? Won't he be home to cook for himself?

Truckpusher: funny thing is most these ladies in this forum commenting on this particular topic saying over their dead body will they wash and cook for their man don't reside in Nigeria and would probably end up with peeps like them over there or folks around here that are willing to tolerate them....but my heart felt and sincere condolences goes to my fellow 'no transfer no leave ladies' because our Naija boys aren't ready to compromise their 1860 mentality wahala dey oooohhh

CeCe Billz: Well I do that for my bf 2timex a week n I get paid month end! Cool business loool

eagle,eye:


babes na Nairaland we dey. If we meet for Real Land, you no fit talk this kain thing you talk.
Yeah you could fuc,k my brains out, I wouldn't mind. But a real Woman/man does not live by fuc,k alone.
Kapish.

2buff:

SMH

bukatyne: My dear, only a foolish person would read something on Nl and would want to practice it in Real Land when what you have is working for you. No two relationships is the same and we must both be ready to sacrifice to make it work. I remember when I was in 300L, a friend told me I was behaving like a married woman following my guy about. She said I don't have freedom to do what I like or go about. i don't accept dates from other guys etc. I just looked at her and smiled. I know where I am going to, the kind of guy I want etc and don't need to be distracted. I don't subscribe to her idea of fun : wearing mini skirts to parties, jumping from man to man etc. and I rather behave like a married woman to a humble man who pampers, honors and respects me than be a 'big' girl hopping about.

Dark Five: All I see are lazy lazy tw@ts.
Same reason I tell most stinky ho.es I aint ur daddy,so I am not expected to play his role or provide you all your daily needs

librangyps: I gr£w up having to shar£ chor£s £qually with my siblings r£gardless of sex. I hav no lov for a man who sits around waiting for m£ to tak£ charge and fix his house. If I have to spend d w££kend we must cat£r to d house together or whoever comes across a chore that needs
to b done should do it. I don't sit around waiting for him to change a bulb or tak£ d cylindr out for a gas r£fil. H£ says I act like a man most times cos I can do basically any chor£. It should b a joint task since we have to share d house. This way my bf knows what to £xpct frm marrying me. I'm not on£ to pr£tnd like I'm some 'jacky' that lov£s house chores... Nah we share everything.

even bills, I don't mind sharing that too...

2buff:

SMH

Truckpusher: Canadian woman wrapper ,i know you would be right here....you've proven to me times without numbers that you're a perfect candidate for this task.....welcome sire

igbo_barbie: Na wa o. Firstly it is not a girlfriends job to cook and clean after a man. If he can't do it himself then he should get a maid to do that for him or in fact marry her then he can get a personal cook/cleaner 24/7. I think it is ok helping your man out as it is something that is nice to do but he should not expect that just because i am his gf i have to wash his clothes etc. Personally, I don't mind cooking whenever am with my bf because i enjoy cooking but am lucky that i don't have a lazy man. He does not expect me to clean after himself( am not his mom) as he does it himself and even when cooking he helps with dishes. If you want your girlfriend to act like a wife then make her your wife.

favynikky: I have a friend that does it and it is quite disturbing.

What are your thoughts on this?