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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 12:16am On Mar 02, 2013
dokunbam: well there is nothing wrong with that

but how do i know she is a virgin? after or before

wht of if i discover she is no virgin after all


Run away whilst yhue still can.... She lied from the get-go.... That marrage doesnt have a future.... Cuz a very important ingredient is missing... TRUST...
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 12:18am On Mar 02, 2013
Any reason for a slut or a guy that cannot afford one to slander virgins is always welcomed.

Those Nigeria sluts here on NL are always finding ways to slander and underscore the virtue attributed to maintaining virginity and celibacy. Some deluded sluts will even go further to argue that being a virgin does not translate to been a good wife just to defend their slutty lifestyle.

For goodness sake, you sluts and woman-wrappers should get a life. And for men, don't slander virgins because you've been rejected so many times. By the way, most virgins I know will less likely go into relationship with players.
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Vivipop(f): 12:21am On Mar 02, 2013
AdexOmoby:
Good! Am proud of you both.
Are u for real? Did u not read the part where he wrote 'I tried penetrating 3 times, no way.. tight as hell. Then I gave up.' How do we judge this? Guilty or not guilty? Well, If I should go with what some of u folks here define viginty as,I will have to say this,"the marriage was totally defiled,because contact of the two body parts was made". But then,Virginity is defined beyond sex, penetration or puncturing of hymen(females). Seriously,it goes beyond that.So,in answer to the op's question,the man walked out not because she is a virgin but because he does not love her enough for marriage. The same goes to a man that walks out on a lady because she is not a virgin,he does so not because she is not a virgin but becos he doesn't love her enough to settle down with her. BTW,why are we even talking about viginity only on d female side? For ur info guys,we re now on d look out for virgin hubbies. To sum it all up,it is not a bad thing to marry a virgin just as it is not a bad thing to marry a non virgin,love should be the yard stick. One love people...

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Uchesis: 12:28am On Mar 02, 2013
onila: am a virgin smiley
U r not a virgin until u have been tested and proven 2 b one.

I'm a virgin. Hehehehehe...
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by watchindelta(m): 12:33am On Mar 02, 2013
@op arrange the shady shapshap for me. I need virgin shap one
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Uchesis: 12:41am On Mar 02, 2013
There was dis gal in her late 20's in my neighbourhood some yrs bck. She was damn ugly, skinny, dirty-looking, and shapeless. She was a virgin then.

I guess u guys already knw y...

Our virginity sometimes is due to lack of opportunity.
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by jaijay(m): 1:37am On Mar 02, 2013
onila: am a virgin smiley
SMH 4 ur mata!...I know u o!
Abi make I play ur tape?
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by jaijay(m): 1:45am On Mar 02, 2013
SimplYeahmee:


Good for U̶̲̥̅̊.
Stay that way till U̶̲̥̅̊ get married.
It's honourable. Very very
ADVICER in chief!..wetin concine u?
Wan to spoil awa market abi?
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by jaijay(m): 1:46am On Mar 02, 2013
SimplYeahmee:


Good for U̶̲̥̅̊.
Stay that way till U̶̲̥̅̊ get married.
It's honourable. Very very
ADVICER in chief!..welldone o wetin concine u?
Wan to spoil awa market abi?
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by tinnymerit(m): 2:30am On Mar 02, 2013
shes a v @ 27 and so do i @ 3....,sex is a covenant and i believe there are spiritual blessings attached to it. Also it will create an everlasting trust btw u two.shalom.
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Toks2008(m): 3:57am On Mar 02, 2013
When i had a serious issue with my wife. One of the reasons why i just had to get her back into my life is because i was the one who dis-flowered her.

So anyone who says he cant marry a virgin is only fooling himself. Guys will do anything to be the one who deflowered their wife.

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by amazingkpapi: 5:11am On Mar 02, 2013
Now let me get this straight........... You keep chanting marry a virgin or not..... blah blah blah. Honestly I'm not interested in that part. And no one yet has thought about this, I just think its crazy.. the wife a virgin and the husby a pro? Why evils? I think they should both be virgins that way I believe they would both enjoy the so-called first-night-after-marriage ......... Thank you!! Ok bye.

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 5:14am On Mar 02, 2013
Seun Osewa, oya settle the matter for us! cheesy grin
Will you marry a virgin?

Am waiting for your answer o angry
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by paulkhalifa(m): 5:15am On Mar 02, 2013
Uchesis: There was dis gal in her late 20's in my neighbourhood some yrs bck. She was damn ugly, skinny, dirty-looking, and shapeless. She was a virgin then.

I guess u guys already knw y...

Our virginity sometimes is due to lack of opportunity.
That's true , but what can they do?
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 5:29am On Mar 02, 2013
This is thread mainly meant for Muslims. I can see them raising their BOKO HARAHAM heads to defend virgins.However, 7 virgins are waiting for you in heaven, virgin-freaks!
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by ovise(m): 5:41am On Mar 02, 2013
Timijo: Even when she is the right woman for you? Can you give your reasons for this please?
I jst can't mary a virgin
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:03am On Mar 02, 2013
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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by sheyma: 6:36am On Mar 02, 2013
What's d difference between marrying a virginn ,divorcing her and dating a virgin and dumping her, no b still d same result.
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by fydence: 6:39am On Mar 02, 2013
Well I hear itz good to marry a virgin...but i'm personally not crazy about it..virgin or no virgin...so its not a parameter for loving u more or less as far as i'm concerned...not every virgin is responsible and not everyone who isnt a virgin is a flirt...just go for someone who completes and makes u happy and someone u cn happily share ur lyf wit... **Just my opinion though
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by chronique(m): 7:08am On Mar 02, 2013
Nothing wrong with a virgin. I can marry a non-virgin but if she's a virgin,it becomes an added bonus. I just can't marry the girl who's been passed round the town(everybody's leftover).
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:22am On Mar 02, 2013
It takes fear of God and availabilty of the man after he disvirgined the wife after marriage...if u. Mistakenly travelled and left ur new wife for just 2month na musa(gateman)ur 1st born go resemble....cos the fire go dey burn higher....Mr. Cock

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:32am On Mar 02, 2013
U no dey noticed say some virgin gals always get very soft lips and unfirmed breast that's the Price she has paid......na only the pant dem no dey touch....professional love makers...I prefer to marry non virgin because.She must av learnt a Lesson n even tired of sex than virgin wey still dey hot
JideJamez: It takes fear of God and availabilty of the man after he disvirgined the wife after marriage...if u. Mistakenly travelled and left ur new wife for just 2month na musa(gateman)ur 1st born go resemble....cos the fire go dey burn higher....Mr. Cock
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Lexoria: 8:36am On Mar 02, 2013
I don't know or understand why guys who have been sleeping around will be opening their dirty mouths to be talking about marrying a virgin.I didn't read anywhere in the bible where David was intimate before he got married,neither did Solomon,Abraham,Moses etc.So if as a guy you are no longer a virgin,why would you be expecting a virgin wife?

Only virgin husband deserves virgin Wife and vis-a-vis.Men always want to heap everything on women and women will ALWAYS let them.Guysssssssssss stoooooooooop bleeeeeeeeeeping aroooooooooound.Una own worse!!!!

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:51am On Mar 02, 2013
Lexoria: I don't know or understand why guys who have been sleeping around will be opening their dirty mouths to be talking about marrying a virgin.I didn't read anywhere in the bible where David was intimate before he got married,neither did Solomon,Abraham,Moses etc.So if as a guy you are no longer a virgin,why would you be expecting a virgin wife?

Only virgin husband deserves virgin Wife and vis-a-vis.Men always want to heap everything on women and women will ALWAYS let them.Guysssssssssss stoooooooooop bleeeeeeeeeeping aroooooooooound.Una own worse!!!!

Best post on this whole thread.

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 9:35am On Mar 02, 2013
I dont still understand this term VIRGIN,IS it about someone that cant do without porn videos that has not gotten a mind to show it Off,Or someone that just has Tight V. Thank God for nown but before i cant do without watching porn videos or pictures at night,i always go mad when i cant see my porn book at night,d day my twin sister deleted it from my phone,i almost got mad inside me and trust me some girls are like that they satisfy thier sex urge with porn pics and videos. As for me i cant call myself A male virgin again though i have never had sex with a woman but my my conscience knows that i know everything about it......What i can say is that,Virginity will not be a ground for any partner i want to marry tommorow....If i can get a Woman with a better mind and a repenting spirit,i will be Ok with her,but if added she is a virgin, Ah ,that one is Heaven on top of Earth.
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by YoungGame: 9:43am On Mar 02, 2013
#Fact

Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by DD01(f): 9:48am On Mar 02, 2013
You guys are so so funny.
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by dhardline(m): 9:57am On Mar 02, 2013
Not all virgins are virgins.
Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by YoungGame: 10:01am On Mar 02, 2013
onila: am a virgin smiley

Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Nobody: 10:19am On Mar 02, 2013
dhardline: Not all virgins are virgins.I still dont know how come i managed to get this set of girls in my life but i just have.I know about 4 ladies who are virgins(cause i confirmed by tryna stick my finger in buh toø tight) but this ladies will give me super Bj's and also all the other naughty stuffs included except penetration.had anoda friend who happened to be a lesb but no intimacy gadgets goes into her but she does all the unthinkable with her gf,now tell me are this ones also qualified to be virgins?

I think not.... Some people just dont understand the term... There is no difference between a corroded pipe and a licking pipe...

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by Timijo(m): 10:45am On Mar 02, 2013
Our tradition supports virginity including the holy book (Bible). In those days, when a woman marries and she is discovered to be a virgin, the husband will take gifts to the parents of the lady for the good work they have done on her. But if she is not a virgin, the husband won't be too happy with her, and she would be seen as a slut. But reverse is the case today, the good moral of those days have been rejected by the people of this generation in the name of civilization.
If one is still a virgin at 20, he or she will be seen has uncivilized person. If she is a girl, they will say she is not beautiful, and if he is a man, they will say he is impotent. Just to discourage them, so that they can give a way their virginity and become wayward like them.
I read an interview of charly boy yesterday, where he said that he lived in sin with his present wife for 2 years before they married. This means that they have been sleeping together before marriage. I was shocked to hear that from him, if he acknowledged that sex before marriage is sin, then what else do you need?
The bible also frown at this immoral act. Read below:
Hebrew 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undifiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
If you are still a virgin, keep it. Don't be intimidated by the words of some sluts. Remain focus, let the bible be your guide.
If you have lost your virginity and you are still messing around like dogs, don't condemn yourself. What you need to do is to repent and all will be well with you.
NOTE: HOW WILL YOU FEEL IF THE FOOD THAT BELONGS TO YOU ALONE IS GIVEN TO EVERYBODY TO TASTE AND THE REMNANT IS BROUGHT TO YOU TO EAT?

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Re: What Is Wrong In Marrying A Lady Who Is A Virgin? by kinsjesus(m): 11:00am On Mar 02, 2013
notin wrong. dats the plan of God for our lives. even wen u are in marriage,u wil be able to trust ur wife

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