Everything is just overrated..pretty f..ked up..

Huh? Getting married to an older man is a common trend in the world in that it draws no controversy.
Or,do u speak of getting married to a man as old as one's father?

i know its a common trend and all but some people still roll their eyes at it,and i don't mean as old as my dad..

Sorry i'm a learner in this aspect.

Most people here in nigeria just don't go well with the idea of a young lady getting married to an older man but i find nothing bad about it..i still prefer it..just my opinion..

Why it's over-rated is because the trend has been adopted as the surest GRQ formular. I'd advise, if the motive is right and happiness, intact, could be a good move.

What's GRQ?
Anyways i can't speak for others,i can only speak for myself

When you say older man i believe you have an age range in mind you consider older

I believe the question is: define older?

Ms_ShaQ: I believe the question is: define older?

exactly

For instance, a Lady of 28yrs marrying a guy of 46 or 48yrs. Is it realy bad??

A man at 46 is no longer a GUY.

Erm......48,28....20yrs difference....babes its mush o!

missblanche: What's GRQ?
Anyways i can't speak for others,i can only speak for myself

Get Rich Quick

prickly: When you say older man i believe you have an age range in mind you consider older

Below 50

nyere84: For instance, a Lady of 28yrs marrying a guy of 46 or 48yrs. Is it realy bad??

You just read my mind..*whew*

Below 50...

missblanche:
Below 50

you in your 20's 30's 40's ?

Below 50 can also be 20,22,26,27 no ??

prickly: you in your 20's 30's 40's ?

Yea...mid 20s

Wateva. All i knw is age is not a barrier but a mere number.

And i really don't think 23 yrs is too much difference if its for the right reasons..

nyere84: Wateva. All i knw is age is not a barrier but a mere number.

Exactly...the age thingy does not matter to me et el..

missblanche:
Yea...mid 20s

i see

missblanche:
You just read my mind..*whew*

Believe me, that is the kind of men, am alwys atrracted to.(but, nt the married ones). I believe in, “the older they are, the better they are“.

nyere84: Believe me, that is the kind of men, am alwys atrracted to.(but, nt the married ones). I believe in, “the older they are, the better they are“.

you're always attracted to men in their 50's?
Wow! Wow! Wow!

nyere84: Believe me, that is the kind of men, am alwys atrracted to.(but, nt the married ones). I believe in, “the older they are, the better they are“.

Not the married ones tho..

In marriage, one has to follow the mind, ask uaself what u want in marriage.
If it's protection and care fine. But if u want fun and adventure, u must understand
that most 50 year old men can only buy u ice cream while still woing u.As soon as u enter,
u will notice the vast difference in your life preferences. While u are thinking of ua fun outings,
the man is thinking of investments and life after retirement and after here.
And this can be a big issue, except u are extraodinarily
reserved and brought up with moderation.

For all the right reasons

Woman age faster and men can still look 30 even when 42 and older men are richer because they have hear their entire lives to build their wealth. They are wiser and less troublesome as younger men turn to be players who cheat more on their wive, get angry easly, act like kids,need to explore more and divorce more but a wiser man has done all that and knows what he wants so honey the way i see it marrying an older men is fine (ONLY IF HE IS WEALTHY) we dont need no broker grey hair son in law here

Ijeoma Okeke100: Woman age faster and men can still look 30 even when 42 and older men are richer because they have hear their entire lives to build their wealth. They are wiser and less troublesome as younger men turn to be players who cheat more on their wive, get angry easly, act like kids,need to explore more and divorce more but a wiser man has done all that and knows what he wants so honey the way i see it marrying an older men is fine (ONLY IF HE IS WEALTHY) we dont need no broker grey hair son in law here

Loool!!!i like the sound of that

Older men are wiser and less troublesome as younger men turn to be players who cheat more on their wive, get angry easily, act like kids,need to explore more and divorce more.....
Yet,not a father figure or married man!

Uhmmmmmmm.....