Yomieluv: Cos most ladies want to get adventurous while the fun last. Afterall there's no meter that reads any change in size of the.................
That's why if my GF is going to camp,I will force her to wear an iron pant,laced with barb wire,and enforced with alarm to notify me of any intruders.
And I will also make her swear fidelity oath with Sango before leaving.
So help me God.

sexkillz: You've had your fill with numerous girlfriends and you're here complaining. You're part of the problem!

Nextworldnx: I ask because when I left for service in 2010, though I had a GF before leaving for camp, I got hooked up right from the car park. At the end of the day, I had 3 new GF before our posting came out. Now 2 of those Girls had a loving and steady relationships before they came to camp as well, but we all cheated on our partners all through service year like there is no tomorrow.

Fast-forward to today, my younger brother who have a "fine and succulent" GF here, just left for kaduna Camp as early as 5:00am this morning. I just spoke to him now to know how well his trip was, only for him to tell me how he met 2 girls in the bus he took, going to thesame camp and it seems one of them is interested in him already. They have arrived camp though but they are yet to be registered(the 3 of them are the first in KD camp). They have been together all through the trip and he even gave the phone her for me to get to know her.

Now my question is this, Isn't this whole love and relationship thing a farce? Isn't it fake?.. Isn't it over-hyped..? Because for the love of me, I can't seem to understand why "out-of-sight" is really "out-of-mind".

Because I don't understand why we take cheating to another level when we go for service, and cheat on the love of our lives that we left back home.

Its pathetic.!!

I dunno what the cause is, maybe its Joblessness(trust me,a lot of corpers are idle and sleep away their time, esp in the north), waywardness, lack of morals, or maybe we just wanna catch fun.

Its just getting out of hand. Something needs to be done!

Nextworldnx:

U think I didn't complain about it then? Even to one of the girls who expressly love her BF, I told her to let me be and Concentrate on her BF at home. But what did she do?
She threatened my life.!

Am only ranting here because I tot this whole shiit isn't happening anymore.

Yomieluv: Cos most ladies want to get adventurous while the fun last. Afterall there's no meter that reads any change in size of the.................
That's why if my GF is going to camp,I will force her to wear an iron pant,laced with barb wire,and enforced with alarm to notify me of any intruders.
And I will also make her swear fidelity oath with Sango before leaving.
So help me God.

Fruittyswaqboii: LOL. The part you said "Something needs to be done" just keeps me wondering the part iHave to play. Or do we wait for GEJ?

greggng: well i cant say your statement is general. honestly i met 2 virgin corpers in my ppa. i confirmed it myself cos i never believed what they told me until they allowed me to confirm. i swore from that moment never to touch them .more importantly i was very proud of them. one attended unilag and the other ui. Just to let you know that the got proper exposure but they decided to leave right. After the service i introduced one of them to my friend and they are gonna marry pretty soon cos they have done introduction already. both are 21 and the other is doing her masters now in ui. They are my closest friends.

texazzpete:

Cool story, bro.
Now since in the OP you admitted "we all cheated on our partners" why don't you answer your own question on whether 'out of sight means out of mind'.

Funny how you and your brother go out of your way to toast girls in buses and then turn around and condemn them once they give you their numbers.

omotola1: Hmmmmm

imperiouxx: There are lots of fun during service I must say and all end after service. It's beyond explanation.

Yomieluv: Cos most ladies want to get adventurous while the fun last. Afterall there's no meter that reads any change in size of the.................
That's why if my GF is going to camp,I will force her to wear an iron pant,laced with barb wire,and enforced with alarm to notify me of any intruders.
And I will also make her swear fidelity oath with Sango before leaving.
So help me God.

obowunmi:

Are you suggesting that I serve?