Hi forum,

Need a friendly advise especially from ladies here for my friend who is a sickle cell sufferer. I believe most people here know the adverse effect and toll this sickness have on it's sufferers mentally and physically.
Ok, my friend is searching for a girl to marry, and as you all know, it is not wise to keep your to be life parter in the dark about any health problem you may have. If he or she finds out later in the years to come, it might spell doom for the marriage union.
To keep matters short, my friend's problem is about coming out to make his sickle cell health problem open to his dream girl because of his shy nature. He think the girl might pull out of the relatioship because of his health sickle cell problem. Ladies, can you put up with a marriage to a sickle cell sufferer?? Your honest opinion please.

No I can't! Life is tough enough!

yea.if i rily luv him,

Depends on how bad his disease is and how the girl cope with that situation. first of all, if relationship is turning into something serious, you should not hide such things from your partner. she will need to make an informed decision, so better let her know first before everyone gets hurt.

dnt think so

rockhaven:

look around so many sicklers hav lived up to 60 and one of them is dr sonny kuku of eko hospital.it is a matter of faith .of your belief system.so many sicklers babes are far better wife materials than many AA.IF U DONT HAVE THE FAITH,DONT GO FOR AN SS.but i know one HOT SS BABE and believe me ive opened a file for her lol

Bloody rumor peddler. He isn't SS, only said lots of his siblings died of the disease.

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Tough choice.

do a NL search and you will see that the subject has been dealt with MANY A TIME. you will find all the answers you need if you search hard enough.

Yes, I would marry him

I can't. not even in the dream.

_{as one of said " life is tough enogh "}