Hello Nairaland,

Pls i need u to help me out, I have a guy that we have been dating for 6 years now, he is a nice guy and  for that six years he is sincere with me. i didnt see or hear that he is dating another lady but the problem be say this guy get big mouth that if anything happen between the two of us he will tell his friends and other people, i have been telling him i dont like it but it seems this guy can not stop, now i am begining to get tired of him.

i dont know what to do can u pls help me out.

@ poster, there isnt anything like a perfect partner, everyman out there has got one bad trait or the other. it s gonna be silly and stupid of anyone to advice u to opt out of the relationship simply because of his bad habit, be that as it may be u are at liberty to decide, it all depends on what u want frm a man. so ma sista. the ball is in ur court.

@ lonleypal
Come on, this is not picking his nose in public or scratching his butt while standing in line. He's telling their private business to the world. If this were a woman now you'll hear "women can talk to much, olofofo and the rest of the insults. If she was with Radio Nigeria now, at least she would have resigned herself to the fact that all her business will be public.

@ Poster
Please do what you have to do.

Ómo gurl,

You know your problem berra oh!

Like the Sisi talk am, Do what you gotta do

6 years is a long tym

What are you people still doing, being BF and GF

hmm

@poster

You tried for 6 years!

I usually get tired after one night.   All it takes is one time and the thrill is so gone. It may take another like 2 years before I have any kind of memories about "the event" or "person" in question. The rest na management!

You did gooooooooooooooooooooooooood!

Just don't expect it to get any better next time.  Have all the fun while you can.  Every toy in the chinese market usually come up with a complete makeover to keep children interested.  Adults are no different.  Just find "ways" to keep the interest going.

That's life.

Poster

for 6 good years?u try oo
As for me i can mange it if my pal,as in a guy is doing such,but if my GF is doing it,i wont even think 2cie,I hate stuff like that.

If you love him,try to solve the problem
If not jus free the guy,period

@post

for you to keep it aight

with him for 6years something is good about

him, think this through thoroughly

6 years of your life no be small thang oooo

Damn!!! 6 years without any inclination of it getting to "more than boyfriend and girlfriend" level? omo, you tried o. . .

ladies mind ur business. it's obvious they have some issues to work out before taking the next step.

bawomolo:

ladies mind your business. it's obvious they have some issues to work out before taking the next step.

wetin na? the poster obviously said NLers. which means males and females. . so you'll stay with a girl for more than 6 years living as BF and GF?

wetin na? the poster obviously said NLers. which means males and females. . so you'll stay with a girl for more than 6 years living as BF and GF?

well it depends on factors such as age, financial stability and how strong the relationship is. as for u, we can just elope within 6months

bawomolo:

well it depends on factors such as age, financial stability and how strong the relationship is. as for u, we can just elope within 6months

sorry, i'll get back at you on this


_{**runs out**}

u can run but u can't hide. so why do u think 6years is too long

bawomolo:

u can run but u can't hide. so why do u think 6years is too long

ehrrrrrrrm. , like yea. even 2 years is too long. . . withing that 6 years, they should have been married with a 3 year old baby

ehrrrrrrrm. , like yea. even 2 years is too long. . . withing that 6 years, they should have been married with a 3 year old baby

damn morenike are u serious. u are going to handcuff a dude oo, baby ke . i think courtship should be more than 2 years so both partners can know each other thoroughly. this thread is a good example

bawomolo:

damn morenike are u serious. u are going to handcuff a dude oo, baby ke . i think courtship should be more than 2 years so both partners can know each other thoroughly. this thread is a good example

see you. . so you wan spend more than 2 years to court someone? omo, which yeye relationship is that? see you, by the time you're 30, you'll still be "getting to know each other"

see you. . so you wan spend more than 2 years to court someone?

love is blind, time doesn't matter

see you, by the time you're 30, you'll still be "getting to know each other"

come on morenike, don't rush things. better late than never. is thinking like this that has led to the high defense rate. dont' worry though, we are eloping within 6months

bawomolo:

come on morenike, don't rush things.

am not rushing oh. . .am taking things slow. . .but good gosh, not this slow

bawomolo:

love is blind, time doesn't matter

come on morenike, don't rush things. better late than never.

Love is blind, true. . .but what has that got to do with a 6 year courtship? means you were blind through out the whole relationship?
better late than never? hmmmmmmmm!!! you're so right, but. . .but. . .man!! you're a brilliant scoundrel i'll find sth to oppose about it later

bawomolo:

don't' worry though, we are eloping within 6months

haba. . 6 months. no o. . that's too far. see, am packing my bags now. hisssssssssssss

you're so right, but. . .but. . .man!! you're a brilliant scoundrel

how am a scoundrel,

haba. . 6 months. no o. . that's too far. see, am packing my bags now. hisssssssssssss

iyawo alagolo, bring the frying pan and cooking utensils along, i have a huge appetite.

Love is blind, true. . .but what has that got to do with a 6 year courtship?

relationships progress at different rates, i won't be surprised if the bond of that kind of gf/bf is stronger than some of these arranged naija marriages.

How have you dealt with such an immature troll for 6 years?

You can usually tell a bigmouth within the first 2 months.

What are you people still doing, being BF and GF

It's because of people like you that you have people who go around claiming imaginary "engagements" after 3 weeks

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You can usually tell a bigmouth within the first 2 months.

yeah, I knew you were a big mouth in like 2 seconds

@ topic

6 years of nonsense yarning and you just realised? Ask yourself what you've been doing in it for this long. . .maybe trying to change him?

Old habits die hard, let him reform himself then maybe you can give it a go.

Sharrap jare!

Seriously big mouth guys are the height of immaturity and they are not that hard to spot after a while. Yuck.

Leave that garrulous guy alone girl and move on if you detest his nature
Its a natural thing. . .can't be changed!!. . .no matter how hard you try. . .

There is a saying that goes by ''Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and it annoys the pig''
It's like ''u trying to teach a pig how to sing'' . . . . . . .savvy?

hello sly-verster.

bawomolo:

how am a scoundrel,

you dnt want to know

bawomolo:

iyawo alagolo, bring the frying pan and cooking utensils along, i have a huge appetite.

hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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hello sly-verster.

Hello Miss Toyin.

6 years?! wow, you're good to have stuck with him that long and me? i no like big mouths o

Hello young'n . . .

Hello younger young'n

ibkaye:

6 years?! wow, you're good to have stuck with him that long and me? i no like big mouths o

baby girl, wetin you know.

you dnt want to know

oh yes i do, we could discuss this in my private lear

hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

oh come on, u can't be going to ile oko without the cooking utensils.