i have this colleague at work who has been bugging me for sex to the point where it has now become some sort of challenge. she has gone as far as placing monetary bet on the issue.
i have even invited me girl to my office so she knows i have some1 am really serious about, i have told her countless times that am not interested, and all i know how to tell alady off.
funny thing is that she says she doesnt care about my girlfriend, dat she just has this feeling that i can satisfy her sexually.
i actually try avoiding her, but she comes everyday to my office for daily updates.
i even went as far as asigning my colleague to attend to her yet she still bugs me.
calls me at odd hours, text and wat eva u can imagine.
now am scared of saying this to any1 even my gf, cos she has always said she knws that there are girls there toasting me and i have not really said the truth.
well i cant leave this job cos am due to get married b4 the middle of the month.
wat do i do,
sleep with her and let it lie there? will it ever lie there? what if she wants more than i can give.
moreso i dont want to do the sex thing cos i want to be faithful to me wife,, and my boss has an eye for her yet she pretends not to notice.
abeg m,ake una help me beg am cos she dey visit nairaland seriously.
i cant mention her name but i know she will read this post, if possible reply.

U again?
U seem to have issues with confronting pple.

Once again, I'll say like i said in your other post . .Stand your grounds!!!
no is "NO". na by force? she's not even your boss, so push her away, scream NO at her,
unless of course, u're the one leading her on. As long as u've told her that u are not interested.
block all form of communication with her and do not lead her on.
if i were u, i'll let your girlfriend/fiancee know what is going on . . .seems like she might go to any extent which will include telling your girl stuffs or making up stuffs/lies bout u.

sooner or later . . . she'll get the message.

hey make sure you document all that is going on in case she tries to turn it into some sexual harrasment case

by the way in festac are you from i lived in 322 road b close block 3
and do you have recent pictures of festac i can get from you?

Just say no and stand by your word. She can't force you, can she?

dont do it,if u do it, she will blackmail u with it and believe me she is looking for dat opportunity

report ur coworker to your supervisor or management. it's something called SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

@omega2red, sorry i dont actually have pics of festac but i can try helping out to see what i can do. tanx for the advise
by his grace, did u ever consider that this might actually be some kind of temptation of some sort?
wat if i do am come find out say i no longer dey interested in my girl?
or dont u knw things like that happen.
i knw all ladies will actually tell u that they dont care if u got a gf, but the truth still remains that at some point she will amke demands.
moreso i love my girl and dont want to do this to her.
as for those who asked me to report her as a sexual harrasment case, no forget say this nah "NAIJA" .
i love my job. and wud not loose it for anything, but same goes for my dignity.

Seun:

Just say no and stand by your word. She can't force you, can she?

Poster, go with this.

i second that

@poster

Dont start what u wont finish
One bite, u might be hooked
D consequences u might not stand to bear
Be strong and stand ur ground
Nairalanders have spoken!!

she just walked out of my office right now, and she did read the post like i said.
well i have told her that she actually is not my type but she just laffed and walked away. promising to upgrade to my type. her exact words.
funny tin is dat if i was wat i used to be i for don take up the offer. like my colleague just said , pregnancy don make me le( my wifey is preg)

It's not such a big deal; she's just flirting with you. You're taking it far too seriously.

at my age i tink i know wat flirt is and wen some1 has a lostful eye. she is provocative, and maybe it extends to grabbing my balls wen she meets me at the corridor?

Wat a lucky chap.

Why not me?

I bet she'll be hating me by now cos she'll enjoy every minute of it and immiditely get tired of it.

Where u dey work?

I need to visit u. Am up to the task.

Lol the world is never fair o.

Those who get dnt want
Those who want dnt get.

Listen hammers, some opportunities as u may call it are sometimes a grave. Not all mannas r from heaven. . . some are poisonous!

Please dont do it there is more to it if you have tried so hard and she is still adamant. Cant sexual harasement be reported in Nigeria? Sit her down pretend to be talking to her and record your conversation, oh poor me this wont work since you said she is reading this. Dont destroy the home you are just building by sleeping with one stupid girl. What a girl would pester a man for sex? things are happening in the world today o, God save us.

help me tell am say when d hammer go fall from heaven, no be only him bALLS go dey affected.

@Izeek
Similar thing happened to me last year. Well, mine was online. Met a gal online (yahoo chatroom). Told her I have a gal (committed relationship), and she said she doesn't care. It got to an extent that she started sending me airtime, sending sms, midnight calls, etc. At last, she visited Port Harcourt from Kano. Hmmmmm, she saw everything to herself but refused to give up.

Please never u fall for her ooooooooooo!

efuah:

Lol the world is never fair o.

Those who get dnt want
Those who want dnt get.

Listen hammers, some opportunities as u may call it are sometimes a grave. Not all mannas r from heaven. . . some are poisonous!

U seem to know everything. How come? How can an opportunity become a grave oooooooo, then that is no longer an opportunity but a cause!

Anything that will help a man to spew milk out of his snake fish. . . they call it opportunity. No matter the latter consequence, they dnt give a hoot. . . the first satisfaction is what matters to them. . . i mean some men, those who gat their feelings in thier heads(it controls them)!

chukz4real:

@Izeek
Similar thing happened to me last year. Well, mine was online. Met a girl online (yahoo chatroom). Told her I have a girl (committed relationship), and she said she doesn't care. It got to an extent that she started sending me airtime, sending sms, midnight calls, etc. At last, she visited Port Harcourt from Kano. Hmmmmm, she saw everything to herself but refused to give up.

So what happend? Am more interested here

@Efuah
Like that expression; "Anything that will help a man to spew milk out of his snake fish. . . they call it opportunity". How I wish I know how the supposed snake rili looked like! Well, giving such gals a trial won't be bad anyway!

You no know snake fish? How old r u sef?

@Efuah
The snake fish wey I know dey stay inside water. How come im manage buy milk wey im dey spew?

Pretence go kill the son of man o o o

We have two snake fish(es) lol . . . one lives in water, for the other one, water lives in it! People carry it around.

Bros, don't do what you will live to regret. The good thing is she cant rape you.

Stand by your word. NO Means No. period.

@Efuah
U mean the snake has a bearer right? Explain pls

chukz4real:

@Efuah
You mean the snake has a bearer right? Explain please

Na wa for u buddy, u shd av told me u're a kid. I prefer students that are far older than me. . . I teach old women n men not ya type. . . now go n read ya books.

efuah:

Na wa for u buddy, u should av told me u're a kid. I prefer students that are far older than me. . . I teach old women n men not ya type. . . now go n read ya books.

How I wish my teacher recommends some of the books

@efuah

Life is all about risks.

I am fully armed and prepared

@poster,
Resist the devil and he she shall flee from you.
Tell your spouse about her.She will handle the situation.

efuah:

Pretence go kill the son of man o o o

We have two snake fish(es) lol . . . one lives in water, for the other one, water lives in it! People carry it around.

Hmn,madam Lecturer.

chukz4real:


@Efuah
You mean the snake has a bearer right? Explain please

Go and enrol with her institution,Shikenah.

@Hammers
Don't mind Efuah, while her mate are busy speaking in tongues, she's there speaking in teeth!

I graduated from tongues speaking to teeth long ago. . . as for tongues, my boy can even do better!

kola kola kola, i will smack u oh!