efuah:

yemi, what's urs?

abawa:

na una sabi who go say e no get anything we de wori am?

efuah:

yemi, what's urs?

Joey82:

was about asking same question

Me!?

I'm actually on my way out to the field right now!!

I'll pick up from where ever you guys leave off!!!

efuah:

yemi, what's urs?

Busta:

none . . .life is too short to be insecured over nothing

Well . . . don't you have some physical attributes that sort of take its toll on your confidence level!?

Personal insecurities is what i call them!!!

Ditto, bebe2007 & sista-jay!

arianne:

[b]@yemi- well, frm the responses u've got, u should know that we also are in denial about one thing or the other.[/b]here's mine but its not really an insecurity issue but it was a cause of concern for me for a very long time. i used to believe or should i say think that i would never get the kind of love i deserve because am the d type that gives my all in a relationship but i always wanted that guarantee that my love interest would also be hopeless crazy about me. i always wanted it 50:50 or nothing. but the years have made me wiser and i dnt bother myself anymore because now i know whether its 50:50, 60:40 or even 90:10, it will always add up to a 100% as long as u complete and complement one another.

Yeah arianne!

You're absolutely right!!

From the responses thus far, it is apparent that we are also in denial!!!

Even inspite of my little ruse in order to get people talking!

BTW, that 90:10 ratio is criminal, unjust, and unfair to whoever is giving the 90%!!

Such a relationship isn't worth it, really!!!

tRoOE:

What a thread, gosh ***walking out of the thread***

LMAO!

I still love you all the same OE!

No matter what!!!

stillwater:

Too personal a topic.

Yeah!

I guess so!!

almondjoy:

None! Thank God!

Always free!

Shebi na you!

I trust you na!!

TOYOSI20:

@Topic

Noneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You lieeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yemivictor:

I'll go first!

I tend to have these really big eyeballs, like Segun Arinze's!!

And it really takes it toll on my confidence level!!!

So i wear dark glasses all the time!

yemivictor:

I'll go first!

I tend to have these really big eyeballs, like Segun Arinze's!!

And it really takes it toll on my confidence level!!!

So i wear dark glasses all the time!

jkpretty:

Sorry that is a natural thing that u have to live with for the rest of your life. Better stay without your glasses & let people get used to u that way than . . . i see that more as a thing of inferiority complex.

Insecurities are some certain positions life has subjected u to. Which is based prolly by your own making. And so its something that needs working on, to make a change & hoping for the best.

almondjoy:

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

Segun Arinze became a Nollywood star with them "okoplor jesuuuuuuuuuuus"! If you are conscious of any kind of physical or mental defect, you draw more attention to yourself. I have "PLENTY"! I just choose not to care so I have learned to believe I have none. Not the best, not the worst. Life goes on!

LMAO!

You guys really need to read posts very well o!

I just confessed that the big eyeballs thingy was a ruse to get people to talk & none of you saw it in my previous post!?

Abeg, me i no be Oju Yobo o!

I don't have them Segun Arinze nor Bola Tinubu eyeballs o!