Hi everyone!

I've observed amongst my female friends, each time I tell them I'm not ready 4 marriage d first question they ask is, don't u have a "bobo" nii?

Its not that I'm that old, still in my early 20's but the thing amazes me. Another when I told her I just wanted my space, the next thing was "don't say it outside that you don't have a "bobo" & that got me thinking if it was a crime.

Sincerely, I love my life like this. I've had relationships in the past that didn't work out & I felt rather than go in 2 another I should just take a break.

It feels good to be independent & decide what happens in your life without considering any man. Though it seems selfish, but I already paid my dues in d past.

Its ur life, u can make any decision u like, bt in my opinion its NOT a CRIME, njoy ur sef.

No

its nt a crime bt dnt resort to.masturbation or les...tinkin yur nt datin...and ur ok wit ur life...no offence plxzzzzzzzzz .

It is not

No...

Its never a crime my dear... In reality, being single is one of the sweetest things I have ever tasted... Its cool. If its what u want then so it should be...

Keep it up!!

It's ok. When u see the right person, u'll fall !!!

4 now, 2 hell with what ppl think! U dnt av to do things cos of 'ppl'

Muskeeto, Muskeeto!! Muskeeto!!! What can a poster do to please u?
Dem no dey follow u play? If u no fit laff, wetin u dey use ur muscles do?
Wetin useless for dis topic now, ehn Musketeer?
Abeg o, dis life too short to dey beef person wey talk e mind, u hear?

.Im in your shoes babe, i hate long things in my life, please call me, please send me recharge card,why didn't you call me today, why did u go offline when u saw me online on 2go, are u at home, just to mention a few of girls wahala.

Definitely not, that is if u don't get jealous when u see your friends with their "bobos".

if i may ask? Is it boyfriend or a date or in a relation?
R u not tired of boyfriend?
Pls op, go and marry, i blieve u r up to 20. Meant no harm oh

A guy takes a girl on a date. She orders costly champagne, oysters, lobsters, the most expensive food on the menu. The guy asks: “Do you eat like this at your mom’s place?” The girl replies, “No, my mother doesn’t plan to sleep with me after the meal.’

I have a friend like you , she says she does not want any man in her Life cos men always want sex and she does not want to give that now . She is on here too but i dont want to mention her name . A good friend and a very lovely one . she spend 2 weeks with me and it was fun been around her .

dahmie2013: Hi everyone!

I've observed amongst my female friends, each time I tell them I'm not ready 4 marriage d first question they ask is, don't u have a "bobo" nii?

Its not that I'm that old, still in my early 20's but the thing amazes me. Another when I told her I just wanted my space, the next thing was "don't say it outside that you don't have a "bobo" & that got me thinking if it was a crime.

Sincerely, I love my life like this. I've had relationships in the past that didn't work out & I felt rather than go in 2 another I should just take a break.

It feels good to be independent & decide what happens in your life without considering any man. Though it seems selfish, but I already paid my dues in d past.

All of these in your early 20s?, my dear, i think you deserve a break. What happened to studies? Are you through with school? Anyways, to me, it helps to have male friends, perhaps unattached while you sort your life out. However, if all men and women had the same approach to relationship, how would we procreate and the world recreate itself, just asking.

Face your life first not boyfriend,until you are ready for it

@Topic,
Be parient let me ask my oga at the top
Cuz I don't want to say something and he will say another one

Daz all

I don't ave a Girl-friend!

















Now,, Am I in a Prison Cell?

Dear in the 21th century, it is a crime!

Men!!!Men!!!Men!!!
So complicated,
So confusing,
So hard to please.
If u try 2 pls dem, u re cheap. If u make love (sex) to them, u're a LovePeddler. If u don't, u re playing hard to get.
If u show dem u love dem, u're too emotional.
If u don't show it, u don't love dem.
If u give them attention, u're bugging them, if u
don't u're with other men. If u demand for
attention u're a nagging
woman, if u don't u're not understandable
If u dress sexy, u're attracting other men
If u don't , u're awkward & local.
If u cook & wash their clothes u're desperate
If u don't, u're not a wife material.
If u go to club/party, u're too exposed
If u don't, u're naïve.
If u re beautiful, u can't stay wit 1 man
If u're ugly, u're not up to standard. If u're
independent, u're chasing men away
If u're dependent, u're a liability:
If u try 2 satisfy dem in bed, U're a sex addict
If u don't, u're making sex boring. If u'r pregnant, u
want to trap them: If u're not pregnant, u're not a
woman or might hv damaged ur womb
If u ask men for money
U're too demanding
What do men really want? Does that mean they
don't even know what they want? They can be
so annoying!!! GOSH!! please, answer dis question: if
u are a man pls be sincere, WHAT DO MEN
REALLY WANT? But if u are a woman, IS IT TRUE?

Its not a crime! Am a guy and am telling u its not necessary atall. Thats the truth. These relationship leads to heart breaking, premarital sex (that does not worth it), and insults. Also as a young girl, u wud be less focused in ur immediate priceless goals due 2 divided attention! The bible says in songs of solomon 3:5, do not stir up love until it pleases. Instead of a temporal guy wth dirty underwears no future 4 2moro and waiting for sexual pleasure 4rm u, why cant u wait 4 an appropriate guy, *fine boy*, who wud propose courtship 2 u! And 2 all dating has never been approved by God. The only intimate relationshp outside the boundary of the marriage is COURTSHIP.

alfredo4u: if i may ask? Is it boyfriend or a date or in a relation?
R u not tired of boyfriend?
Pls op, go and marry, i blieve u r up to 20. Meant no harm oh

Another up-side down thinker.

190: the main crime is getting into a relationship and not shagging him

could earn you 14yrs imprisonment with soft labour

Oga park well jare wich one be ur own sef

the answer is NO. But when de feeling for joystick arouse in you how do you cope?

Same here sister! Anytime my friend ask of my girlfriend and i say i have none, na one kinda nonsense talk go follow. I don't want any devil in my life, i mean girl. Single life is the best. If not 4 children, i will NEVER marry.

Not a crime at all, but its a crime when u like a female friend than ur bobo