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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by watchindelta(m): 10:40am On Mar 21, 2013
no cheesy but it is crime to hv more than two undecided shocked
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Godyke(m): 10:41am On Mar 21, 2013
laylow001:
Men!!!Men!!!Men!!!
So complicated,
So confusing,
So hard to please.
If u try 2 pls dem, u re cheap. If u make love (sex) to them, u're a LovePeddler. If u don't, u re playing hard to get.
If u show dem u love dem, u're too emotional.
If u don't show it, u don't love dem.
If u give them attention, u're bugging them, if u
don't u're with other men. If u demand for
attention u're a nagging
woman, if u don't u're not understandable
If u dress sexy, u're attracting other men
If u don't , u're awkward & local.
If u cook & wash their clothes u're desperate
If u don't, u're not a wife material.
If u go to club/party, u're too exposed
If u don't, u're naïve.
If u re beautiful, u can't stay wit 1 man
If u're ugly, u're not up to standard. If u're
independent, u're chasing men away
If u're dependent, u're a liability:
If u try 2 satisfy dem in bed, U're a sex addict
If u don't, u're making sex boring. If u'r pregnant, u
want to trap them: If u're not pregnant, u're not a
woman or might hv damaged ur womb
If u ask men for money
U're too demanding

What do men really want? Does that mean they
don't even know what they want? They can be
so annoying!!! GOSH!! please, answer dis question: if
u are a man pls be sincere, WHAT DO MEN
REALLY WANT? But if u are a woman, IS IT TRUE?

You forgot to give the opposite of the bolded. Could you pls complete the other side of it. I mean if you are not asking for money, what will they say?

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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by akatonero(m): 10:42am On Mar 21, 2013
Dnt start way what u cnt finish!!! Simple
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by deltakitchen: 10:42am On Mar 21, 2013
PLEASE DON'T BASE YOUR DECISION ON OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINION GET YOUR OWN PERSPECTIVE FIRST.
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by DICKtator: 10:43am On Mar 21, 2013
laylow001:
Men!!!Men!!!Men!!!
So complicated,
So confusing,
So hard to please.
If u try 2 pls dem, u re cheap. If u make love (sex) to them, u're a LovePeddler. If u don't, u re playing hard to get.
If u show dem u love dem, u're too emotional.
If u don't show it, u don't love dem.
If u give them attention, u're bugging them, if u
don't u're with other men. If u demand for
attention u're a nagging
woman, if u don't u're not understandable
If u dress sexy, u're attracting other men
If u don't , u're awkward & local.
If u cook & wash their clothes u're desperate
If u don't, u're not a wife material.
If u go to club/party, u're too exposed
If u don't, u're naïve.
If u re beautiful, u can't stay wit 1 man
If u're ugly, u're not up to standard. If u're
independent, u're chasing men away
If u're dependent, u're a liability:
If u try 2 satisfy dem in bed, U're a sex addict
If u don't, u're making sex boring. If u'r pregnant, u
want to trap them: If u're not pregnant, u're not a
woman or might hv damaged ur womb
If u ask men for money
U're too demanding
What do men really want? Does that mean they
don't even know what they want? They can be
so annoying!!! GOSH!! please, answer dis question: if
u are a man pls be sincere, WHAT DO MEN
REALLY WANT?
But if u are a woman, IS IT TRUE?

We want Quality polishing!!!. Shining of that-thing-that-must-not-be-mentioned.
Ohh i forgot to add,......cook,clean,soccer moments,space, another girl(mistress) and you know the rest!!!!!
grin grin grin grin

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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Adeyemize(m): 10:47am On Mar 21, 2013
Vice ver$a,just like me,am alöne i dön't av any gf
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Augustinaz(m): 10:49am On Mar 21, 2013
It is not a crime to be single. It is not a crime NOT to have a BOY-ENEMY.
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by ifihearam: 10:51am On Mar 21, 2013
Godyke:

You forgot to give the opposite of the bolded. Could you pls complete the other side of it. I mean if you are not asking for money, what will they say?

I still dey wait too
But na only dat one u fit single out ni?
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:56am On Mar 21, 2013
Truth be told, no man or woman can claim they dnt need d opposite sex, infact as d sex hormones increase in us we tend to have a higher craving for d opposite sex, d matter of having sex is a different aspect of it, once u hv had sex then u lie to ur self when u say "u want 2 be lonely", except if being "alone" means mastubating or engaging in same sex affairs. Then d issue of trust is another, often times we wnt ppl 2 treat us better irrespective of our behaviour 2 dem, dis is wia a lot of ladies come short, if u claim men/women r not trust worthy then how come ppl still get married every saturday, and court marriages still hold, it goes beyond ur partner, look inward and search ur self thoroughly b4 u say "all men/women are d same", in d first place must u try all of them. Though its not a crime having bf, but dissociating ursef will be a great dis-SERVICE to ursef. I would like if u can keep an open mind about it, cos ur relatnshp with men now will shape ur future marriage life, I dnt say u shuld sleep around, u might even say no sex until marriage if u can, but please dnt deny ursef d company of guyz, cos if u r not strong at heart u might need medical attention later, trust me I know what a♍ saying

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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by bidex169: 10:58am On Mar 21, 2013
Ur got ur lyf, live it as u Lyk.... No poo about ur dicision.
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:59am On Mar 21, 2013
DICKtator:

We want Quality polishing!!!. Shining of that-thing-that-must-not-be-mentioned.
Ohh i forgot to add,......cook,clean,soccer moments,space, another girl(mistress) and you know the rest!!!!!
grin grin grin grin




Na so grin
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by ozodimgba(m): 10:59am On Mar 21, 2013
A lady without a bobo is like a soldier in the war field without a gun. Its not a crime rather its a necessity of life, believe it or leave its my opinion. Those ladies that dont have a bobo, they either selfservice or are lesibians.
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Ebestsmscom: 11:01am On Mar 21, 2013
Never a sin but, like it not the other way round (gay)
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by DJDOLA(m): 11:02am On Mar 21, 2013
ciccerouno: Truth be told, no man or woman can claim they dnt need d opposite sex, infact as d sex hormones increase in us we tend to have a higher craving for d opposite sex, d matter of having sex is a different aspect of it, once u hv had sex then u lie to ur self when u say "u want 2 be lonely", except if being "alone" means mastubating or engaging in same sex affairs. Then d issue of trust is another, often times we wnt ppl 2 treat us better irrespective of our behaviour 2 dem, dis is wia a lot of ladies come short, if u claim men/women r not trust worthy then how come ppl still get married every saturday, Α̲̅πϑ court marriages still hold, it goes beyond ur partner, look inward Α̲̅πϑ search ur self thoroughly b4 u say "all men/women are d same", in d first place must u try all of them. Though its not a crime having bf, but dissociating ursef will be a great dis-SERVICE to ursef. I would like if u can keep an open mind about it, cos ur relatnshp with men now will shape ur future marriage life, I dnt say u shuld sleep around, u might even say no sex until marriage if u can, but please dnt deny ursef d company of guyz, cos if u r not strong at heart u might need medical attention later, trust me I know what a♍ saying
bleeping TRUTH MY BROTHER....MAYBE SHE WANT 2 END UP AS LESBIAN....IF U DONT GIVE BOYS CHANC CAN U PLS GIVE GIRLS OPPORTUNITY 2 FINGER AND SUCK THAT DIRTY THING MTCHEWWWW
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Osc: 11:05am On Mar 21, 2013
Yes its a Crime and u r d Criminal
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:05am On Mar 21, 2013
It is a crime against humanity.Under the law of Universe,section 419,paragraph 15.Any girl that does not have a boyfriend is guilty of lalafurnication anatomy.
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:07am On Mar 21, 2013
Godyke:

You forgot to give the opposite of the bolded. Could you pls complete the other side of it. I mean if you are not asking for money, what will they say?

They will say you are a mumu..
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:13am On Mar 21, 2013
laylow001:
Men!!!Men!!!Men!!!
So complicated,
So confusing,
So hard to please.
If u try 2 pls dem, u re cheap. If u make love (sex) to them, u're a LovePeddler. If u don't, u re playing hard to get.
If u show dem u love dem, u're too emotional.
If u don't show it, u don't love dem.
If u give them attention, u're bugging them, if u
don't u're with other men. If u demand for
attention u're a nagging
woman, if u don't u're not understandable
If u dress sexy, u're attracting other men
If u don't , u're awkward & local.
If u cook & wash their clothes u're desperate
If u don't, u're not a wife material.
If u go to club/party, u're too exposed
If u don't, u're naïve.
If u re beautiful, u can't stay wit 1 man
If u're ugly, u're not up to standard. If u're
independent, u're chasing men away
If u're dependent, u're a liability:
If u try 2 satisfy dem in bed, U're a sex addict
If u don't, u're making sex boring. If u'r pregnant, u
want to trap them: If u're not pregnant, u're not a
woman or might hv damaged ur womb
If u ask men for money
U're too demanding
What do men really want? Does that mean they
don't even know what they want? They can be
so annoying!!! GOSH!! please, answer dis question: if
u are a man pls be sincere, WHAT DO MEN
REALLY WANT? But if u are a woman, IS IT TRUE?
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:14am On Mar 21, 2013
laylow001:
Men!!!Men!!!Men!!!
So complicated,
So confusing,
So hard to please.
If u try 2 pls dem, u re cheap. If u make love (sex) to them, u're a LovePeddler. If u don't, u re playing hard to get.
If u show dem u love dem, u're too emotional.
If u don't show it, u don't love dem.
If u give them attention, u're bugging them, if u
don't u're with other men. If u demand for
attention u're a nagging
woman, if u don't u're not understandable
If u dress sexy, u're attracting other men
If u don't , u're awkward & local.
If u cook & wash their clothes u're desperate
If u don't, u're not a wife material.
If u go to club/party, u're too exposed
If u don't, u're naïve.
If u re beautiful, u can't stay wit 1 man
If u're ugly, u're not up to standard. If u're
independent, u're chasing men away
If u're dependent, u're a liability:
If u try 2 satisfy dem in bed, U're a sex addict
If u don't, u're making sex boring. If u'r pregnant, u
want to trap them: If u're not pregnant, u're not a
woman or might hv damaged ur womb
If u ask men for money
U're too demanding
What do men really want? Does that mean they
don't even know what they want? They can be
so annoying!!! GOSH!! please, answer dis question: if
u are a man pls be sincere, WHAT DO MEN
REALLY WANT? But if u are a woman, IS IT TRUE?

What do men really want? I can't speak for most men but I want a woman I love and she loves me back in equal measure or even more...

Simple...
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Godson201333(m): 11:17am On Mar 21, 2013
It is not a crime but there are still some nice bobos out there,Try to get into serious relationship,Time waits for nobody oo,Guys of these days wont marry u when you are around 27 yrs old,Everything wanna marry fresh chicks,so be warned.
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 11:18am On Mar 21, 2013
laylow001:
Men!!!Men!!!Men!!!
So complicated,
So confusing,
So hard to please.
If u try 2 pls dem, u re cheap. If u make love (sex) to them, u're a LovePeddler. If u don't, u re playing hard to get.
If u show dem u love dem, u're too emotional.
If u don't show it, u don't love dem.
If u give them attention, u're bugging them, if u
don't u're with other men. If u demand for
attention u're a nagging
woman, if u don't u're not understandable
If u dress sexy, u're attracting other men
If u don't , u're awkward & local.
If u cook & wash their clothes u're desperate
If u don't, u're not a wife material.
If u go to club/party, u're too exposed
If u don't, u're naïve.
If u re beautiful, u can't stay wit 1 man
If u're ugly, u're not up to standard. If u're
independent, u're chasing men away
If u're dependent, u're a liability:
If u try 2 satisfy dem in bed, U're a sex addict
If u don't, u're making sex boring. If u'r pregnant, u
want to trap them: If u're not pregnant, u're not a
woman or might hv damaged ur womb
If u ask men for money
U're too demanding
What do men really want? Does that mean they
don't even know what they want? They can be
so annoying!!! GOSH!! please, answer dis question: if
u are a man pls be sincere, WHAT DO MEN
REALLY WANT? But if u are a woman, IS IT TRUE?

All these boyfriend and girlfriend issues are not very important to everybody,if you see that ur relationship is giving you headache,just quit and stay on your own instead of complaining my boyfriend this,my girlfriend that,it doesn't make any sense,they are so many people out there (male or female) that are single and happy, afterall
Co.ck is not garri and womanliness is not soup.
Stop complaining.

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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by ddeola: 11:20am On Mar 21, 2013
No
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:21am On Mar 21, 2013
Young po413:

All these boyfriend and girlfriend issues are not very important to everybody,if you see that ur relationship is giving you headache,just quit and stay on your own instead of complaining my boyfriend this,my girlfriend that,it doesn't make any sense,they are so many people out there (male or female) that are single and happy, afterall
Co.ck is not garri and womanliness is not soup.
Stop complaining.


Amen to that..
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Orikinla(m): 11:23am On Mar 21, 2013
NO.
BUT IT IS A CRIME NOT TO HAVE A MANFRIEND LIKE ORIKINLA. grin
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Orikinla(m): 11:31am On Mar 21, 2013
dahmie2013: Hi everyone!

I've observed amongst my female friends, each time I tell them I'm not ready 4 marriage d first question they ask is, don't u have a "bobo" nii?

Its not that I'm that old, still in my early 20's but the thing amazes me. Another when I told her I just wanted my space, the next thing was "don't say it outside that you don't have a "bobo" & that got me thinking if it was a crime.

Sincerely, I love my life like this. I've had relationships in the past that didn't work out & I felt rather than go in 2 another I should just take a break.

It feels good to be independent & decide what happens in your life without considering any man. Though it seems selfish, but I already paid my dues in d past.

No woman is complete without a man.
And no man is complete without a woman.

My woman did not have space for men, because the only time she had for herself are Sundays since she works from Monday to Saturday, 8am - 9pm. But I found my way into her Sundays and I am not leaving.
The only time she does not have time for me is only when she has to be in church or school.
I don't dictate to her and if she does not want to see me, I let her be until she opens her heart to welcome me again.
If you find the right guy, he will not mess around with the space and time you have given him.

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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by Jimmyblaze(m): 11:38am On Mar 21, 2013
I tell u moore solemly any1 who want maximum satisfacxion is bound 2 FALL, keep it up mi sis & god wil c u 2rue!
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by dmcdad: 11:41am On Mar 21, 2013
yorke1: Dear in the 21th century, it is a crime!
Thats a crime in ur world and not to everyone.. What makes it a crime? Na by force? What have u gained so far in relationships you have been into

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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by dmcdad: 11:42am On Mar 21, 2013
venatus25: the answer is NO. But when de feeling for joystick arouse in you how do you cope?
Man must not live on sex alone... Joystick wasn't meant to be given and received pre-maritally. Got that

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Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by dmcdad: 11:44am On Mar 21, 2013
Damitism: Same here sister! Anytime my friend ask of my girlfriend and i say i have none, na one kinda nonsense talk go follow. I don't want any devil in my life, i mean girl. Single life is the best. If not 4 children, i will NEVER marry.
Gbam!!!
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by dmcdad: 11:46am On Mar 21, 2013
Mishydoo: Yes it is!!!Its an act of self denial,I hv expeienced this b4,its not by choice that u hv chosen this path but bad xperiences forced it ȱȠ u.Move ȱȠ my dear!
Fallacy! What makes u think its not by choice The facf that you cant stay without sex and all doesn't make everyone same like yourself. So, get real if you are yet to and start thinking straight.
Re: Is It A Crime Not To Have A Boyfriend? by dmcdad: 11:50am On Mar 21, 2013
tellwsdom: Yes it is a crime, becos u wont have iphone 5, Ipad, black berry, peruvian hair-You wont even be able to afford your panties angry
Ahan!!! Does that mean ALL gurls in relationships are dependent on men to get those

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