sexkillz: I know what I'm driving at. This is between me and Uju.

Idowuogbo:
Agbero no b human being ni?

uj_sizzle:
hohoho abeg help me ask am oo




Killz. Didn't know you picked who to fall in love with

why do people fall in love with who they are with?

You think they all chose to? Even against the judgement of others?

You think it's impossible to love someone who you can't pinpoint what's so good about them that they had to be the one?? And yet you are so crazy about them?

I guess it's never happened to you then. But don't generalize on love based on your personal experience....people may have something different.

Love is a principle that cannot be changed. You don't wake up and fall in love with the first boy you see on your street, do you?

There has to be a reason why.

That's why good friends fall in love over time. . . They had enough reasons to.

uj_sizzle: Lol i can't quote all that, so lemme ask a question and we'll work from there.

What is love??

Even wikipedia will give you a very comprehensive answer and describe the 4 kinds of love.

I know the small trap you are trying to set. Very soon, you'll tell me that you love your car and your man equally cos love is love. . .

Try again.

uj_sizzle: Lol i can't quote all that, so lemme ask a question and we'll work from there.

What is love??

sexkillz: Even wikipedia will give you a very comprehensive answer and describe the 4 kinds of love.

I know the small trap you are trying to set. Very soon, you'll tell me that you love your car and your man equally cos love is love. . .

Try again.

bright87:

"Love" is just one word that has the most complex definition you can ever think about.. To different persons it means different things.
I think your question should be "What is True Love "

Now know that infatuation is when somebody is highly,greatly,inspired and interested in someone or something that they feel they can grow a great chemistry and bond with or already have.

True Love is when you love someone no matter how they are. It don't matter if your girl has more money than you or if the man does.LOVE should never be about money,sex,race,star signs or religion and you should never get with someone because your friends and family want you to be with the person it must be your choice.You can't let your family,friends and religion get in your way for true love.

True love is when two people know each other imperfections, limitations, shortcomings, and flaws, and in spite of that they accept without hesitation and without hope for a change.

In a relationship or marriage both people should be faithful,loyal,respectful,careful and have affection and passion for one another that is what True Love is. The definition goes on endlessly...

Popowaa: Killz i understand what you are trying to say but they are some instances you fall in love with some and you dont even know why you love him.He may not be rich or very good looking,not very intelligent but yet you love him soo much and you keep asking yourself what do i see in this guy that makes me love him the way i do but you cannt even answer that question yourself.it's possible to love without reason if the love took time to spring up.

uj_sizzle:
lol nice try but i wasn't thinking that .
Why don't you paste a summary of all 4 definitions from wiki then
I'm sure i can work around them without making reference to my car

sexkillz: That's pure infatuation, a.k.a, confusion. . . Love always has a reason. That you cannot explain it doesn't mean it's not there.

You don't feel that way with everyone else, do you?

sexkillz: By the way, aren't we discussing romantic love?

uj_sizzle:
kool. Thanx. But there is no such thing as 'true love'. It's either love or it isn't.
I do understand however the shortcomings of the English language, which is why I'd prefer someone got the origin Greek words and gave their meanings .

Popowaa: It's not infatuation,u can love someone without knowing why.It's pure love.

sexkillz: What do you love about yourself?

uj_sizzle:
stop sectionalizing love. It may come with different 'themes' it's basic nature doesn't change.

sexkillz: It has to be compartmentalized. Except you are trying to tell me you love a dog as equal as you love your man.

Popowaa: Everything about me.Especially my always happy face.

Popowaa: Cos it makes my face look more beautiful and make others happy too.

sexkillz: So you had a reason. . . Hmm.

sexkillz: It has to be compartmentalized. Except you are trying to tell me you love a dog as equal as you love your man.

uj_sizzle:
oh goody. From a dog you'd expect loyalty which translates as a condition, with man love is about sacrifice. It's about what you give without expecting in return. From each partner's point of view, it's unconditional. However, when you place both side by side, then there's a bigger picture: each person's unconditional love complements the other's.

sexkillz: So am I safe to say that you can love everyone that approaches you because of the unconditional clause? And also, if you are already with someone, and another person comes along, you'll also love them?

Because if you don't have a reason why this person is special, what's the point?