have u girls ever noticed that if a guy asks u out and u say no, they change their attitude towards u even if they say that they can cope with u not being with them.i dont no if any of u girls r in on that.

menn, grl as if u know, it is sooo true, mine is even worst cuz once i say no and offer to just be friends, they would be like "if am not gonna date u, i ain't being friends with u", i laugh cuz i don't kare, i have alot dat am finding a way 2 eliminate sum,

yeah and am like"because i wont go out wit u dosent mean no one else will!". its like get on with ur life end b mature about this instead of ignoring me!

Yeah, that is possible. I have not experienced that myself. Sure, guys who do that are losers, I guess. But even if some guys do that doesn't make most guys losers as your topic suggests. Sorry, I don't see the link. 

well thats the idea.durrgh i dint say ALL guys i mean most guys and that might b true

Maybe i'm a little cynical, but these days I actually expect guys to become jerks when i tell them no, based on some past experiences. For example, there was one incident where this particular guy was hitting on me as I was walking out of a fast-food restaurant. The conversation was as follows:

GUY: Hey, baby can I call you sometime?

NIA: (walking out of restaurant) No thanks, I'm very busy

GUY: Don't play hard to get, baby, I just want your number

NIA: (keeps walking)  I'm not playing.

GUY: well, there's plenty of fishes in the sea and you're too dark, anyway.

NIA: (laughs out loud and walks on)

The worst thing, though, is when you befriend someone, thinking they're really trying to be your friend. At first they are very polite and respectful. And then (after a few months or so) they ask you out and you say no, and afterwards they start treating you like crap.
I usually just wave them off and dish it out raw cause I hate it when people act immature like that.
Having said that though, I have a few guy friends that I've been cool with since we were in diapers, LOL, so I have to disagree that most guys are jerks.

thats very true gal, onlythose who truly did love U will still relate nicely to U

Being a loser isn't a gender specific thing - guys and girls can have suckful attitudes

Ya so rite

But l think it all boils down to letting the man's ego go down . You know its like what , what does she hate in me that she can't go out with me. Some guys are even worst, if u think l just be a friend, am out of ya life.

yes they are losers,they always mess things up

@ poster, ladies that this kind of thread online either got dumped by a dude, lonely or jealous.

How can you say all guys are losers?

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@POSTER, tell us what really happened as for why he dumped you for another BITCH.
should i say u are having an attitude problem that was why he let go of you Bleep FACE?

TCUBE:

@ poster, ladies that this kind of thread online either got dumped by a dude, lonely or jealous.

I totally agree with you.

Besides, why should i continue to hang out with a chic i like but dont like me back? I should go on being her friend when that obviously isn't what i want?!

That doesn't make any sense to me at all 'cos the more you remain friends the easier it is for u to be used as a "point of reference".

Again, the easier you forget the object of your attention, the easier it would be for you to see someone else.

Just bein real

tsmack:

I totally agree with you.

Besides, why should i continue to hang out with a chic i like but don't like me back? I should go on being her friend when that obviously isn't what i want?!

That doesn't make any sense to me at all 'because the more you remain friends the easier it is for u to be used as a "point of reference".

Again, the easier you forget the object of your attention, the easier it would be for you to see someone else.

Just bein real

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You are the real man, I totally agree
Why should i waste my time on someone who doesnt even look at my side or who is not intrested in me
when i can move on and get a better offer,
though it doesnt mean i should now insult the girl but i CAN'T BE HANGING AROUND and turn the chick's pupet boy

;d

Okay. NEXT!!!!!!!!!!

I'm sure SVS and hotstepper are not older than 20years old, As u grow older u learn more.

well, there is a harm to his ego by turning him down. If his feelings or friendship is important to you then you can break it to him gently.

if not let the dude f*** off and go sulk elsewhere! there is no time for running around the male ego.

For me I find a dude is more decent when he actually WANTS to be your friend FIRST and hang out with you before jumping to make you his gf.

It shows me he's not the type to simply chase everything in skirt and has a genuine interest.

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Hotstepper:

menn, grl as if u know, it is sooo true, mine is even worst cuz once i say no and offer to just be friends, they would be like "if am not gonna date u, i ain't being friends with u", i laugh cuz i don't kare, i have alot dat am finding a way 2 eliminate sum, 

funny but girls that wanted 2 date me and I've also refused 2 date act the same way "like big wide CuNtS"
Look ladies, it got nothing 2 do with the gender, its probably got a lot 2 do with being human.

Old story

you saying i should hangout with someone who obviously doesn't think am gud enough for her? all of us go to where we are appreciated,so stop getting it twisted.

x2 x4 x8 x32

. . .Just passing.

You are who u attract. . . So if you attract losers then you are. . . . EOD

kpolli:

You are who u attract. . . So if you attract losers then you are. . . . EOD

spot on, if you get asked out by thugs,street urchins,and the likes,the chances are

that you've not gone wide off the mark of a street sojourner yourself.

You guys realize this is a 6 year old thread?

Inked_Nerd:


Wow, this just goes to show the level of intelligence some of you men possess. Perhaps in whatever little bubble you two live in, you may think that there are women who are looking to be treated like that but believe it or not some of you idiöt menfolk have the a very nasty and inbred habit of harassing women regardless of how well put together a woman may be. It's men like you two that enable such behavior to continue. When it happen women in your life that you love and respect, then we'll see

Inky, were you on sabbatical?