jerseyboy: @OP Chei. This na how u wan catch all nl babes for like you. Smart guy

NL babes are the best!

From a woman's point of view-true if he is a nice guy. Not necessarily the way every guy acts. As always lists like this can be misleading and a guy who seriously wants to sleep with a woman can easily fake most of the stuff here.

Unimke_Ak: @Poster_ Its not True joor
I can do err tin on that list and even more, even tho I'm not in to her and once I knack.. E don finish.

LOL @ your pic below......

Ijele-igbo:


7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

Very true. It shows that he's not just interested the s.ex alone. It's this deep longing for touch and affection.

*yawn* some guys will hug anuthing huggable. Help dat poor girl because poverty evokes sympathy. Remember "that thing" cuz the've got memory and use it to start conversation. And brag to their friends that they're dating this hot chick lawyer doctr banker actor etc to keep their reps up in d street -- and still not be that into you!!. They do this outta boredom cuz most babes are boring.. But they may never say i love u (or say it with sincerity..) .

kambo: They do this outta boredom cuz most babes are boring...

if u can't make ur own life exciting for urself, then no one else can do that for u...seems like the problem lies with you

Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

Now that I know all this, I can fake it!

Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

All what you have said can be summarised as one thing - ATTENTION.

Give any lady your attention, and she is all yours.

Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

Now that I know all this, I can fake it!

Decryptor: Continue kicking till u hit 33. By then you'd realise what those lines you crammed from "2 can play that game" has done to you. Wannabe Vivica Fox

Hmm. . .it seems you are one of 'em folks who go around having casual affairs. . .

I will not settle for less, neither will I play games. If my man displays 6 out of the 7 traits described by the op, will it not be foolishness to hang around? Abeg bros, park well! Marriage is not a ticket to heaven, so if any bobo misbehave, na the curb get hin black asss!!

So true! But she's blind, she can't see.

op equals to learner

freecocoa: Story.

OP e be like say you never jam real players, they'll do all these and more just to get into that pant.

All I know be say, nothing is guaranteed in life especially as regards relationships sef.

correct!!!

All these & lots more I do.

Reminds me of the fellow who lived with his girlfriend for seven years. For seven good years, he was chopping free kpekus. One sunny day, the girlfriend got fed up and packed her things out. The guy thought she would still come back because it wasn't her first time of pulling that stunt.

Alas, two weeks later, the guy opened his mail box and found the girlfriend's wedding IV waiting for him. And to add salt to injury, she had rsvp'ed him. The dude went to into shock. Seven years is no joke, after all. . .

And THAT, ladies, is how to treat a man who thinks he can chop and clean mouth. Cunny man die, cunny man bury am

Good point.Thanks

Ishilove: Reminds me of the fellow who lived with his girlfriend for seven years. For seven good years, he was chopping free kpekus. One sunny day, the girlfriend got fed up and packed her things out. The guy thought she would still come back because it wasn't her first time of pulling that stunt.

Alas, two weeks later, the guy opened his mail box and found the girlfriend's wedding IV waiting for him. And to add salt to injury, she had rsvp'ed him. The dude went to into shock. Seven years is no joke, after all. . .

And THAT, ladies, is how to treat a man who thinks he can chop and clean mouth. Cunny man die, cunny man bury am

so

Dnt tink so,i can do all dese tins 2 any girl i meet,evn if she's jst 4 fun,d only tin is dat,d one i want 2 hav a feature wit,i do more of all dese tins 4,she get 3 times of my time dan all d odas.

Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

Gold diggers in Nigeria possess the 7 qualities. Most times you see a guy after a girl that is richer or more comfortable. The guy does all the above and more.

So when you say a guy is into a lady, the question is, why is he into you?

BANGA SOUP: so

Google is your friend

All these stuffs are meant for little gurls.

Money says in seconds what a benevolent lover says/do in years.

Hope u understand?

LIES!!!

a.alex:
Dnt tink so,i can do all dese tins 2 any girl i meet,evn if she's jst 4 fun,d only tin is dat,d one i want 2 hav a feature wit,i do more of all dese tins 4,she get 3 times of my time dan all d odas.

Na wa ooo

Decryptor: Continue kicking till u hit 33. By then you'd realise what those lines you crammed from "2 can play that game" has done to you. Wannabe Vivica Fox

That was a sucker punch !!

Ishi, be frank "You offend dis guy before ?"

yo MY GUY...STOP TELLING THE LADIES THE PLAYER BOY SECRET. I USED ALL THIS STUFF THAT YOU SAID ON A FEMALE, I LIVED WITH FOR 10 YEARS FOR FREE, SHE PAID FOR MY COLLEGE TUITION, AND SHE EVEN PAID FOR MY BMW 2008 CAR PAYMENT. LOL.. AFTER I DONE WITH HER, I JUST BROKE UP WITH HER. ALL THIS LIST ARE RUBBISH,

FEMALE, THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL KNOW IF THE GUY TRULY LOVE YOU AND HE WANT TO MARRY YOU, IF ONLY HE INTRODUCES YOU TO HIS PARENTS. THATS IT, IF YOUR DATING A GUY AND HE HAVEN'T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS PARENT, HIS NOT SERIOUS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. TRUST ME I KNOW. THE LIST IS RUBBISH

Ishilove: Reminds me of the fellow who lived with his girlfriend for seven years. For seven good years, he was chopping free kpekus.

The earlier you girls change this ratchet ideology, the better for your dignity.

miketonic: yo MY GUY...STOP TELLING THE LADIES THE PLAYER BOY SECRET. I USED ALL THIS STUFF THAT YOU SAID ON A FEMALE, I LIVED WITH FOR 10 YEARS FOR FREE, SHE PAID FOR MY COLLEGE TUITION, AND SHE EVEN PAID FOR MY BMW 2008 CAR PAYMENT. LOL.. AFTER I DONE WITH HER, I JUST BROKE UP WITH HER. ALL THIS LIST ARE RUBBISH,

FEMALE, THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL KNOW IF THE GUY TRULY LOVE YOU AND HE WANT TO MARRY YOU, IF ONLY HE INTRODUCES YOU TO HIS PARENTS. THATS IT, IF YOUR DATING A GUY AND HE HAVEN'T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS PARENT, HIS NOT SERIOUS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. TRUST ME I KNOW. THE LIST IS RUBBISH

trust you ke, am keeping ma sister frm ur like
though u make sense wif ur point

freecocoa: Story.

OP e be like say you never jam real players, they'll do all these and more just to get into that pant.

All I know be say, nothing is guaranteed in life especially as regards relationships sef.

I hate it when girls feels every man's motive is jst to get into their pants. You girls make the loudest noise wen we do... So what's d fuss about?

choi............rules kwanu!!