tinakoya:

Greedy girls that pretend to love much much older man, common. how long will that marraige last, especially when you are still so much active and he can't perform, forget it

whether d person believes in God or not ain't your business,it has been prdained right from time to be so, , he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God

I don tell you make no hook am for God neck, God ordained a lot of things, so many things, like no messing around, yet 99% of boys screw around, guy, give me other reasons that seem more appealing to a logical person

tinakoya:

Its kind of difficult this days to get someone loving and caring that is for real. I have a boyfriend who is far away but i feel hes not serious just because hes not with me.

By Chinda,
na bondage because marriage is like one television,with so many channels but u are allowed to watch only one channel, therefore it helps reduce fornication rate, like i said earlier it is a bondage but can also be a very  sweet bondage if u want it to be, a sweet bondage only if u are wt d right person,  

Its just that it makes me sick if those old man thinks they are really loved.

I don't believe that marriage is a bondage at all. It only becomes a bondage when you are hoodwinked into it. It's true that marriages are become cubersome these days but good ol ones still exist. I am yet to see a couple that are happier than my parents, may be that's why my dad never bothered to look at a second woman because mum is all he needed even though more than half of my village men are either promiscous or polygamous.

chinda3:

what i meant by bondage is, going out on dates as to stop,they are some things u will be doing and not doing, i did not use d word bondage as in a real bad bondage,what i simply meant that everything one does has to be limited, u have to watch d friends u move with, u can't even go out wt a man on a friendly date again,y is because u now belong to one person,honestly marriage is d sweetest thing anybody can experience,like i said its can be a sweet bondage,if only you're wt d right person

By Bigfather,
Na for that una younder that one dey happen , can you tell me the percentage of Africans or precisely Naija folks that are suffering from the so called ERECTILE DIFUNCTION as you put it ? When there is abundant herbal stuff which mother nature has given to us free of charge.The so called viagra na for those wey wan do over sabi and them wey dey claim to be ajebo !
My dear i go wire till i tire o !

I choose a later age for a man because he needs enough time to accumulate wealth before choosing to get married and starting a family

who is talking of a man here ?   A man can stay as long as 100yrs and will still be sexually active and still have children. But will it be good for a man of that age to be paying school fees when he is suppose to be reaping the fruit of his retirement ? Am sure a woman can and will never be that sexually active at half of that age .
So if you see a man of 40yrs unmarried , then there is definately something wrong somewhere

what i meant by bondage is, going out on dates as to stop,they are some things u will be doing and not doing, i did not use d word bondage as in a real bad bondage,what i simply meant that everything one does has to be limited, u have to watch d friends u move with, u can't even go out wt a man on a friendly date again,y is because u now belong to one person,honestly marriage is d sweetest thing anybody can experience,like i said its can be a sweet bondage,if only you're wt d right person

Lol Lady, how are you going to do that unless you don't intend on working yourself?

hoping that the man will be doing more of the supplementing,

~Lady~:

I'm sorry sir but u sound really sexist here. Who told you that women can't be sexually active when they get older. Just so you know the older women get the more active they become. Get rid of that age old mentality, it doesn't compliment you. Get on your computer and research about the sexual activity of women and you will find out that we get more sexually active than men.
As we get older it gets harder to have children and for us at a young age that seems to be the barrier for us to be more open to sex. At younger ages we have a higher chance of getting pregnant therefore we limit our sexual activity. When we get older it becomes harder to have children therefore the barrier is gone and we are more likely to throw caution to the wind. So recant your statement quick.

by bigfather,
My dear, this has never been proven before that a woman of 50yrs and above are more sexually active than a man.
Ahhhhhh, my sister when you that age, abeg nor try am o !