Princeparix: delete her from ur heart

Mynd_44:
Bad idea. There is not reason for such drastic measure

Princeparix: y?-a fiance who dnt understand dat dia isnt a marriage witout once-in-while wahala aint ready to walk down d aisle

Mynd_44:
So deleting your details is an abomination right?

Princeparix: yea-is deleting d details of ur Ex an abomination?

Mynd_44:
It is not an abomination

ashmanpolo: i have read the contributions here with an increasing interest and have reached a common frame of reference with some opinions but def conned with others.
....She deletes everything from her phone - number, pix etc
....She receives an apology
Now she's back and happy like nothing of such happened.
So will it be apt to accept her back on a surface level and monitor her or fully accept her to the in-depth as normal or completely extricate her?

This is a redefinition of the initial question.

Thanks

alutacontinua:

The way you guys behave sometimes can make someone really scared of you, trust me! I think it's something about your ego...even though you're wrong, you just stand on the "I cannot apologise thing". I guess you must have hurt her so much that she couldn't come back to massage your ego, she needed your apologies but you were not forthcoming. So, she thinks maybe this is the end of it all and seeing your number and pictures everyday on her phone is definitely not going to help with the healing process. She deletes all of it and just hopes maybe you'll come back to your senses and if not, she might have no choice than to move on. You come back to apologise and she accepts, dt was all you needed to do in the first place. The relationship continues! What exactly is the problem here? The only blame I think she has is that she's not even supposed to let you know that she deleted all those things. She suppose subtly get all of them back without your knowledge.

ashmanpolo: You had a simple altercation with your fiance of 3+ years, she gets mad even with your assss because u used some silly words on her, so infuriated that she deleted everything about u from her phone.
She left and didn't call for like a week and then u called to apologise. You make up again with her. Now what's the implication of that 'everything' about u that's no longer in her phone?

ashmanpolo: You had a simple altercation with your fiance of 3+ years, she gets mad even with your assss because u used some silly words on her, so infuriated that she deleted everything about u from her phone.
She left and didn't call for like a week and then u called to apologise. You make up again with her. Now what's the implication of that 'everything' about u that's no longer in her phone?

andromida:

She was hurting and angry that was one of the ways to express her distress. What looked small to you was a big thing to her.

Black Peni5: If she deletes all your information from her phone because of a little argument, she will delete your life if she sees you with another woman... Beware of Erratic Woman. Be advised and take to your heels.