It may seem astounding that a guy would want to
end a good relationship, let alone a great one.
However, not even the best relationships are immune
from ending. Read on for the top eight reasons that
would make a guy end a relationship when
everything is running smoothly:

1. He feels that you want more in the
relationship than what he is ready to offer you:
You may feel that it's time to take the relationship to
the next level, but he is comfortable at the level you
two are at. He may be happy to just date and enjoy
your company. You may want to move in together
while he is comfortable living in separate places.
Perhaps you are even expecting a commitment or an
engagement. If you want to push the relationship to
the next stage and he is not ready for it, then don't
be surprised if this guy bails on you.

2. He doesn't want to put his eggs in one basket:
He still wants to date other women. Or even if he is
not dating anyone else, he may still want to keep the
door open for the possibility that the grass is greener
on the other side. This doesn't mean that he doesn't
care about or like you. It does mean that he is fearful
of missing out on finding someone better.

3. He's not ready for the "L" word:
It could be that you are open to being in love with
your beau, but he just wants to ride along on the
train of companionship. He may enjoy your company
and his relationship with you, but the "love" word
may tell him that you want to be his wife. If you are
thinking about throwing the "L" word out there to
him, just be aware that he may not reciprocate. It
may be wise for you to wait for him to say it first so
that you know for a fact he is ready to love you. If he
is reserved, then be aware that it may take him a
good year, if not longer to let you know how he feels
about you.

4. He still enjoys his friends and his
independence:
Your guy may only want to occasionally date because
he enjoys his space, his freedom and being with his
friends more than spending time with you. Besides
preferring the company of his buddies, he is fearful of
losing his personal space and guy time. If he is
always talking about his friends or his friends are
constantly around him, be prepared for an eventual
breakup. This guy will end a great relationship with
you, rather than risk losing his friendships.

5. He hears his friends talk about their bad
relationships:
Your relationship may end because your guy has
friends who are in bad relationships. If his friends are
complaining about their partners, your guy may fear
that you will be just like their women. Let him know
that you are different. If someone complains about
the psycho woman who wants to know where her
man is at all times, tell your guy that you would
never do anything like that to him because you also
need your space. It will help to calm his fears.

6. He may feel insecure about his future:
Many men find their identity through their work. If
they have no job, then they have no identity. If your
guy is still in the process of building his future, he
may feel inadequate with you. He may feel concerned
that he cannot offer you much and feels insecure. It
won't be until his future is set with a wonderful
career and financial success that he feels ready for a
loving relationship.

7. He thinks settling down means less sex:
Sex is the glue to any relationship. If you two move in
together or marry, he may feel that as months or
years go by, you will lose the sex drive you once had
with him. This is often based on what men tend to
hear from their friends or from their own personal
experiences, especially if they have been married
before.

8. He just got out of a serious relationship and
isn't ready to get serious again:
If your guy just got out of a serious relationship or a
divorce he may just be looking to date you. He
doesn't want to rush into anything and it may be a
few months or even a few years before he considers
another serious involvement. This guy may be open
to having a relationship with you, but does not want
to feel pressured into making another commitment
until he is ready.
Communicate with your partner on where both of you
stand with regards to relationships. If you
communicate about your own wants and needs, then
you may be able to save yourself a lot of heartache in
the future. There are many guys out there who are
willing to be open and honest with women on what
they want and expect from a relationship. You may
fear hearing the truth or would prefer to ignore it. But
if you don't face the truth now, you will likely regret it
later on.

9. His momma disapproves of you, with or without good reason.

Golden Lady: 9. His momma disapproves of you, with or without good reason.

Pls can we be friends?

Goldenbaby:


Pls can we be friends?

Singing War's "why can't we be friends, why can't we be friends, why can't we be friends, why can't we be friends?".

Sure we can be friends

Hey guyz u can make frnds on ma thread, beware of my 8points though

When you refuses to give in to s**x, then he may dump you...take the risk and join the married or dump ur ass