i met this girl and i fell in love with her, after 1year of good and sound relationship, she starts to misbehave and left because she was not caring,
after a month i met another girl who loves and cares for me and i promise her never to leave her,
Now the first girl is back begging to come back,

the problem now is , i really love the first one despite all she has done but i don't wana hurt the second because she has done nothing bad to me, she came and made me happy.

plz help

Second girl! Second girl! Please don't break her heart as the first one did yours

ibkaye:

Second girl! Second girl! Please don't break her heart as the first one did yours

thanks4 ur advise but what do u want me to tell her if she comes, cos u know i cant just tell her to go just like that, ?`

follow ur heart bt bcareful nt to break d heart of the second girl even if u ve to leave her,do it carefully nd wisely

jhibola:

thanks4 your advise but what do u want me to tell her if she comes, because u know i can't just tell her to go just like that, ?`

Yes you can, but break it down to her nicely, tell her you have someone else in your life at the moment but it does not stop you two from being friends

welli:

follow your heart bt bcareful nt to break d heart of the second girl even if u ve to leave her,do it carefully nd wisely

how if i may ask, the 2nd girl has not absolutly nothing bad, she calls me evry day , unlike the 1st one,

the first girl even told me that its very hard to marry me cos am not a jehovah witness,

but the second accept me even though she knew i was a muslim

even though she knew i was a muslim

jhibola:

the first girl even told me that its very hard to marry me because am not a jehovah witness,

but the second accept me even though she knew i was a a great one

Like I said, second girl seems more perfect for you than the first, but it's your choice abi, abeg choose who you want but be wise ehn

jhibola:

how if i may ask,  the 2nd girl has not absolutly nothing bad,  she calls me evry day , unlike the 1st one,

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        if u too love the first one sey u want follow her leave d secon one den mk sure u dnt tell d second one dat u r fed up.be smart enuf to put her in a tight corner where d fault would come frm her nd u can den use dat as an excuse bt bcareful so dat she does nt know bt blive me bro dat would nt b fair to her.if i am to chose for u i wil say double date nd if u cant follow d second one cus d first had her oppor bt she blew it

welli:

if u too love the first one sey u want follow her leave d secon one den mk sure u dnt tell d second one that you're fed up.be smart enough to put her in a tight corner where d fault would come frm her nd u can den use that as an excuse bt bcareful so that she does nt know bt blive me bro that would nt b fair to her.if i am to chose for u i wil say double date nd if u can't follow d second one cus d first had her oppor bt she blew it

thats the problem i cant double date, and beleive me the second will never do any thing bad unless its a sin to call every minute, then i can blame her for calling,

am in love with 2different people 4 two different reasons

you're in love with two women you don't know which one to take

ibkaye:

you're in love with two women you don't know which one to take

Tony Tetula abi
very funny but its nt 2me cos am confuse on wat 2do

jhibola:

Tony Tetula abi
very funny but its nt 2me because am confuse on what 2do

Oga be smart ehn, you said the first girl dumped you and she is not happy with your religion, you describe the second girl as almost perfect, you said she does not do anything to offend you, she is ok with your religion etc

Hmm, I wonder which girl you should pick second girl

ibkaye:

Oga be smart ehn, you said the first girl dumped you and she is not happy with your religion, you describe the second girl as almost perfect, you said she does not do anything to offend you, she is ok with your religion etc

Hmm, I wonder which girl you should pick second girl

I JUST NEED SOME ONE TO TELL ME WHICH ONE OF THEM TO CHOOSE AND THE REASON WHY,
PLZ ANY BODY

IBKAYE PLZ HELP ME, THIS IS VERY SERIOUS

jhibola:

I JUST NEED SOME ONE TO TELL ME WHICH ONE OF THEM TO CHOOSE AND THE REASON WHY,
PLZ ANY BODY

IBKAYE PLZ HELP ME, THIS IS VERY SERIOUS

Huh? I've told you which one I think you should pick about three times and i've given you a reason

ibkaye:

Huh? I've told you which one I think you should pick about three times and i've given you a reason

i really appreciate ur concern, i hop u guys understand the reason y am doing this,, its because i dont wana make any mistake

jhibola:

i really appreciate your concern, i hop u guys understand the reason y am doing this,, its because i don't wana make any mistake

no problem

you want to eat your cake and still have it abi ?

sayhi2ay:

you want to eat your cake and still have it abi ?

what do u mean plzzz

depends, you probably wanna hang out with your first maybe cos you have been so used to her and you indeed truly love her,

and you still wanna hold on to your second probably because you feel your first might still dump you again,

so when it happens, you have your second to fall back on,

sayhi2ay:

depends, you probably want to hang out with your first maybe because you have been so used to her and you indeed truly love her,

and you still want to hold on to your second probably because you feel your first might still dump you again,

so when it happens, you have your second to fall back on,

does that mean i suld go 4 the second, ?

well, it depends what your first girl did in the first instance, did she cheat on you or something similar, or she wasnt just caring?

do you love the second girl? as you just mentioned that she is the one in love with you ,


let me know, then we can go from there

sayhi2ay:

well, it depends what your first girl did in the first instance, did she cheat on you or something similar, or she wasnt just caring?

do you love the second girl? as you just mentioned that she is the one in love with you ,


let me know, then we can go from there

the first girl was nt caring but i dont know if she is cheating cos i trust her,
see my guy i love the second girl more dan any thing cos she mean the wolrld to me

well, there must be a reason why you are contemplating on going back to the first girl, or you are just considering it cos she is begging you back?

if she dumps you the first time, how can you tell she wont dump you another time? since she knows if she comes begging, you'd surely accept her back,

more reason for her to cheat on you, she will generally exploit that weakness

jhibola:

the first girl was nt caring but i don't know if she is cheating because i trust her,
see my guy[b] i love the second girl more dan any thing because she mean the wolrld to me[/b]

Then choose the second girl!

i really appreciate u guys efforts, and i pray that God will continue to increase ur mental streanght,

now i can see the second is the best 4 me

thanks evry one ;d

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