My girl, dump his sorry azz like yesterday and look for a more mature man. your guy might be gay you know.

Your man-of-God boyfriend makes out with you, scores you and gets upset if you don't score high? Do you think he dosen't enjoy touching you and it dosen't turn him on? Me thinks your boyfriend also has urges like you do and he is too Holy to admit it to you and makes you feel like the bad one instead.

It's normal for you to feel this way but you should talk to God and be ABLE to talk to this man about how you feel. Do not initiate kissess or hugs. Work on yourself and please stop being his guinea pig! Do not allow him to test you anymore. All the best.

Hmmmmmm.....what can i say? Dear if u really want to help ds guy stay away from him as possible, meet only in public places nd pls pray for selfcontrol. Its not easy but God can help u.. On a serious note, does ds guy really have honourable intentions for u? Are u compatible? Does he see u for who u are? And does he really really really loves u? Be wise as a serpent nd gentle as a dove.....

Dis na temptation....

nellydamz:

Helpful Nairaland members! I need help, how can I renew my mind and also to stop enforcing my sexual desires unto my man if not I will loose him which I don’t really want to. I’ve already told him that I do not want to lead him astray and he’s better for him to break up with me because if I’m not in a relationship, I wouldn’t do anything.
Your suggestions are welcome! Even if it is to stop visiting him for a couple of month, I wouldn’t mind.

Read ur bible and meditate on it alone! do this everyday for months and ur sexual urges will reduce. mind u, he is d guy u want to marry, it is easy for satan to use ur sexual urges to try and destroy ur relationship. read ur bible and meditate on it. are u seriously born-again by the way? hav u given ur life to christ? sorry for sounding religious, but i have to ask such questions so that the u will find questions u have to answer abt ur life and his b4 u think of marriage.
gal put ur house in order

only prayers