THE ONLY WAY TO GET THE BEST OF AN ARGUMENT IS TO AVOID IT
if you think otherwise use this
1.welcome the disagreement:if there is some point you haven't thought about it,be thankful if it is brought to your attention.
2.distrust your first instinctive impression.:be careful .it may be you at your worst,not your best
3.control your temper.
4.listen first.don't resist,defend or debate.it only raise barrier
5.look for areas of agreement.
6.be honest:apologize for some error you might have made this will disarm your opponent
7.promise to think over your opponent's idea and study them carefully
8.thank ur opponents sincerely 4 their interest,u may turn strangers to ur friends
9.postpone action to give both side time to think through the problem
THAT'S HOW A REAL MAN WOULD ACT