Stegomiah: Setting for both i.e avin ur personal acct and a joint one for family expenses seems 2 b wat majority av agreed on so far, but i tink one account will suffer dan d oda, most likely 2b d joint one. cos each individual will b afta enriching his/her own personal acct.

guitarlife as brot anoda dimension 2 dis thread, but i tink he is only fytin for d interest of d masculine folks, btw dont dump ur GF because of joint account issue, wats courtship for, u can tlk tins out....

jidegirl12:

B you see I wanted to leave you on this one but your cho cho cho is really e-disturbing.

When I said my hubby is custom made and specially made for moi - he is and the best thing that has ever happened to me and we shared thesame values and affection, <= all that are NOT relevant with money.

Only a hungry mongrel from a broke background will be poking his hungry red eyes in other people's earning , as long as I play my part in the finances and whatnots, he really doesn't care what I do with the rest and we both lavish ourselves and kids with gifts too. There's MORE to a marriage than MONEY!

So you and your likes ( they know themselves) always spewing 'NL perfect marriage' is very condescending , I honestly don't know what y'all problem is the fact that we love our spouses and do baby talks here or cos y'all don't have??, why don't you leave NL housewives alone and face your green monter eyes front! you know I go talk!



#Jumps in the shower

biolabee:

Thanks ... splendid post

If women have been used to controlling men' s resources, why dont i control a little also
TiTT for TaTT

jidegirl12:

B you see I wanted to leave you on this one but your cho cho cho is really e-disturbing.

When I said my hubby is custom made and specially made for moi - he is and the best thing that has ever happened to me and we shared thesame values and affection, <= all that are NOT relevant with money.

Only a hungry mongrel from a broke background will be poking his hungry red eyes in other people's earning , as long as I play my part in the finances and whatnots, he really doesn't care what I do with the rest and we both lavish ourselves and kids with gifts too. There's MORE to a marriage than MONEY!

So you and your likes ( they know themselves) always spewing 'NL perfect marriage' is very condescending , I honestly don't know what y'all problem is the fact that we love our spouses and do baby talks here or cos y'all don't have??, why don't you leave NL housewives alone and face your green monter eyes front! you know I go talk!



#Jumps in the shower

damiso:

I take a non gender biased stand on the issue.If you both agree to it and all is peachy, fine do what works for your home.
Where I would be slightly wary is if you INSIST and then turn it into a very big issue.

I honestly do not want ti monitor my husbands every toro kobo cos I know he is responsible with money.Better than me sef.He is not a child.He managed well before we got married and I know we have a vision and where we are going.So why should I be bothered if he decides to give 200 pounds to that old school friend who they used to soak Garri together in Ibadan.He will tell me and I for one will never discourage him cos he is an adult.
I have friends who have said they want to budget all hubby spends to the last kobo.Because of that they choose the most expensive everything.Their reasoning is they will see where money for sina (runs ie cheating )will surface from.

I dont like control f.reaks.

damiso:

I take a non gender biased stand on the issue.If you both agree to it and all is peachy, fine do what works for your home.
Where I would be slightly wary is if you INSIST and then turn it into a very big issue.

I honestly do not want ti monitor my husbands every toro kobo cos I know he is responsible with money.Better than me sef.He is not a child.He managed well before we got married and I know we have a vision and where we are going.So why should I be bothered if he decides to give 200 pounds to that old school friend who they used to soak Garri together in Ibadan.He will tell me and I for one will never discourage him cos he is an adult.
I have friends who have said they want to budget all hubby spends to the last kobo.Because of that they choose the most expensive everything.Their reasoning is they will see where money for sina (runs ie cheating )will surface from.

I dont like control f.reaks.

AjanleKoko: What's the big deal with joint account?
Obviously na because una no get moni, that's why una dey rake

Guitarlife: oga can you keep a secret ? i ain't married yet just drilling the present gladiators so i can know how to glide too

AjanleKoko:

So no woman is even chopping your doe yet.
And you are writing essays here

AjanleKoko:

So no woman is even chopping your doe yet.
And you are writing essays here

it's such an unfair practice. and they keep shouting equality huh ? yet they find it hard to split the bills equally.

Guitarlife: it's such an unfair practice. and they keep shouting equality huh ? yet they find it hard to split the bills equally. That is just by the way anyway. I'll miss my bachelorhood o. cheeii see freedom . sorry married folks .

Guitarlife: it's such an unfair practice. and they keep shouting equality huh ? yet they find it hard to split the bills equally. That is just by the way anyway. I'll miss my bachelorhood o. cheeii see freedom . sorry married folks .

biolabee: Mama jhyde as you have pointed out if it works for you it's all well and good

No need to be antagonistic

I am not envious of you or anyone on this thread so keep woes
Of greem monster to yourself

Ish

AjanleKoko:

There's no such thing as equality in marriage
Else couples would be doing the deed face to face, both lying on their sides

AjanleKoko:

There's no such thing as equality in marriage
Else couples would be doing the deed face to face, both lying on their sides

AjanleKoko:

There's no such thing as equality in marriage
Else couples would be doing the deed face to face, both lying on their sides

Guitarlife: hahahaaa post of the year *in yuzedo voice* I GIVE UP!!!!

Guitarlife: hahaahaaahaaa she gave up *in yuzedos voice* nor mind me jare.

AjanleKoko: What's the big deal with joint account?
Obviously na because una no get moni, that's why una dey rake

babyosisi:

If you read through this whole thread ,nearly every lady that spoke personally either were not doing joint accounts at all,only did joint projects or had a joint account but their own private account also .
Not a single woman has told us all her salary and earnings go into a joint account.
So as you can see,no woman is willing in this day and age to put all her money in a pot with her man
Doesn't mean we don't love our men
We just want to have some Independence and that is perfectly in line
Datz all

MMotimo: I' m really not inclined to get into a long drawn out argument here but have to comment because of this



100% of my earnings go into the same joint account 100% of his own earnings does and each person has equal, unlimited access.

jidegirl12: Byvan , can I ask you a question
darling?

yellowpawpaw:
She is sleeping.

jidegirl12:

Yeah I know, whenever she wakes up thanks ypp