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The girl is not mend for you. Stop wasting time begging her move on and enjoy life.

i feel your pain bro. but you've made a grave mistake already, you have appeared way too needy, clingy, and too emotionally overbearing. You've let your self become blinded by your supposed unending love for her which obviously is not the same with her. You have to let her go, she aint the right one and doesnt deserve an iota of love from you, you'll keep on begging her for everything even if she accepts you, you have to move on, it'll take some time but you'll.be happy again then you'll find one who truly loves you and deserves your love.....

..love is beautiful.

And u want matured response with ur immatured saga !!!

U need to be a man dude, go get matured !!!




i begged and begged i knelt down for hours she was screaming @ me till her neighbours came by n got involved,i dint care cos i luv my girl n i wanted her back so i was still begging n apologizing(ibeggd till about 1.30am)i even felt that with her frends n neighbours around they ll support n plead with me instead they all ganged up against me n started calln me name(oloriburuku,useless guy) i was shocked to the marrow cos these r pple i neva ever even knew or said hi to.after i tried n my efforts yielded nothn ileft her apartment about 1.40 am n headed home

The bolded is very irritating, girls don't like weakling dude atimes u have to dictate the pace and u gatto be in Charge !!!

Meen!!! I lauhed so hysterically n so so loud ap d "oluoribrukwu thing" so so funny, seem like comedy to me.

Buh bck to d situation at hand; young man I think u should allow d gurl go, she has done the right thing, she has seen the light nd I hail the courage of her getting outside d scope of ur doom. How will u be dating a gurl 4 3yrs n still u haven't proposeÐ only 4 her to see a better light, n u are coming here to write rubbish, u wanted her 2b waiting 4 God knows when! pls be reasonable n allow d gurl leave her life.
If dat laddy was to be my sister I tell u, she 4 don leave u tey tey!!! N I wn't let u anywhere close 2 my hause, na wa ohh!!!

This tossing around of begging and crying you both displayed shdnt be a constant tin in a relatnship esp one as mature as urs since u wr thinking of settling down. Personally, I dnt fancy guys that can't take a stand in a relationship and stick to it! U are the head for crying out loud and in as much as we ladies love bn pet and begged occassionally, it tends to be a total turn-off when it becomes a regular thing. Take heart bro and move on if she dsnt want any reconciliation.

tanx to u all i appreciate

Please let' go. She's not the one for you.

tanx daresh i guess its stupid love

Walaihi u be mumu.

Damn bro!! I feel your pains but why did you get your emotions involved in the first place? You need to always stand your ground as the man in every relationship - being weak or showing emotions, is a big NO NO.

Just leave the scandalous chic alone and move on. Focus on yourself and make yourself better. Wipe her off your memory. Go out more and enjoy the best life has to offer. You can't make yourself an emotional slave to no one, it's just going to make your an emotional wreck. There's a place and time for everything - you will meet someone that truly deserves you when the time comes.

Btw, I feel your pains and I hope you can get it together soon.

@shymex tanx a lot bro,i rily appreciate ur comment.....
i had so many 9ice ladies bt i turned dem all down cos of her

Golden Dr.:
The girl is not mend for you. Stop wasting time begging her move on and enjoy life.

bros, no be only 'mend'. If she no 'mend' for him, she fit 'massob' for him na

Take a deep breadth...think again...and let her go! Its over between you two. Don't be in a hurry to forget about the relationship, else you'll grow love sick. Time is the best healer, so just give yourself tim and relax. One last thing....tell that girl how much she hurt you!!!

hmmn @ senior ova tanx, am lettn go already..it aint easy mehn

I dey come, make i go find my advice wey loss. Wait for me.

Seems the relationship you had for a while was all about apologising for one's fault-begging and kneeling .If she's engaged to a guy she's been with for three weeks,then you should count yourself lucky.
Sulk all you want but don't go back to her begging for her 'love'.Face those nice ladies you turned down bro! That's the way forward!

@190 and linoversace i rily appreciate ur wise comments cos am beginning 2c things 4rm a better perspective and i know with time things will definitely get better....
tanx 2u all

You have lost her at the moment so you should take the high road and leave.

However good or bad a situation is it will change. What brought you to her will not take you where you are going to, stop resisting change. If she has decided to move, let her be and try something else. We regret what we didnt do more than what we did.

NEVER forget you were born without her and that there are hundreds more like her and thousands more that are even better than her. You’re better off alone than with the wrong woman (it gives you a longer life span). Keep your emotional distance from her.

it is well

Sori bro.. Jst knw some people r meant 2 last 4 a season in our lives n go..u've played ur part in hers n she has done d same.:: learn 4rm d yrs u've bn wiv ha n move on wiv ur lyf..:: dey say a settled past is a future at peace..let go n u'll stop hurting..buh it's gonna take time..BE A MAN!!!

Love and let go,but maybe she needs some space and Im sure she will come back to her senses,if after 6months or even 1yr and she comes back begging,pls kindly take her back for she has learnt her lessons,or you may regret at the end,just like you are now.
Who said it`s a man's world,when women are the ones ruling,atleast ruling indirectly,im proud to a woman!

I will come and comment I am coming ..... Gotta recharge my internet

[b][/b],if after 6months or even 1yr and she comes back begging,pls kindly take her back for she has learnt her lessons,or you may regret at the end, I MEAN C'MON,WHO DOES DAT??

[b][/b],if after 6months or even 1yr and she comes back begging,pls kindly take her back for she has learnt her lessons,or you may regret at the end, R U 4REAL??I MEAN C'MON,WHO DOES DAT??