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Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by kadree(m): 12:20am On Jul 26, 2013
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Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by kadree(m): 12:23am On Jul 26, 2013
lincolnj88: Quran did not say abt mohammed often because he is not worthy to make d book holy instead it focus on d name of jesus more dan d prophet...d hadith says 5 daily prayers and d quran says 3 daily prayers so i tgink u guys are confused....
Obviously,d person who typed dis trash is a hardened supporter of d BIBLE dat says"drink but don't get drunk" but surely, not a fan of d OTHER deeper life BIBLE dat extremely frawns at liquor intake(even though dis trash he spewed out can be likened to dat of a person operating under a strong influence of hard form of liquor)
Sorry friend,ur comment here,reeks nothing but odour.ur best wasn't gud enough,kindly try more.

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Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Nobody: 12:50am On Jul 26, 2013
tintingz: You'll get your answer on what you posted



Furthermore as to the prophets Marriage with Aisha,something people will notice is that the completionof the marriage was done when Aisha was 9 yearsold, not when she was 6, and there is a reason forthat. The reason why this happened is because Aishahad been through puberty by the age of 9, and inIslam a female who under-goes puberty is considereda lady and is fit for marriage. Now some may say howdoes a girl go through puberty at the age of 9? :



Why bother responding when u are merely collaborating my post.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by grandstar(m): 2:19am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: What do u call marriage between a boy(16yrs) and a gisl(14)Whenever u hear child marriage,what comes to ur head is 'paedophille' huh?.me think u need some education.
too young! the blind leading the blind.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Nobody: 3:32am On Jul 26, 2013
debbleopto:


he won't accept it since he doesn't read the Koran itself. may be football or porn took his time. In his argument he couldn't cite a sura verse. To himself he knows more than ayatollah and the scholars in Mecca who followed the hadiths.
Do u know more than pastor chris and rev king?therefore,divorce and burning of human being alive and even perming of male hair is legal in christainity..prove or show ur us anybody that married a 6 or 9 yr old child in mecca.You are a big liar and may God reward u accordingly if u dont desist from it.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Nobody: 3:39am On Jul 26, 2013
grandstar: too young! the blind leading the blind.
Go and tell them that in America.The problem with u guys is that u have been blinded by hypocricy.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Nobody: 3:44am On Jul 26, 2013
babyosisi:

Why bother responding when u are merely collaborating my post.
IS THAT ALL HE POSTED MISS HYPOCRITE?KEEP ON LIEYING AND YOU SHALL GET UR DUE REWARD FROM GOD ALMIGHTY.MUST U LIE TO PASS UR MESSAGE?May God judge you.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Nobody: 4:04am On Jul 26, 2013
Ruthia: em nat insulting u, neither will i, jst mind ur words ok?
And i repeat,you are a disappointment for not posting the quranic verse as promised.Like i said before,you dont have to lie to make a point.Shame on you for wasting my time..Now i know you are as idle and frustrated as babyosisi.you two are birds of a feather..Next time you see your Gay pastor,tell him to stop telling you cheap and embarassing lies about Islam.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by grandstar(m): 4:04am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: Go and tell them that in America.The problem with u guys is that u have been blinded by hypocricy.
Are you saying they are old enough to get married? They are still kids. A woman should be at least 18 and male 22years!
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by instinctg(m): 4:05am On Jul 26, 2013
I sabi dis useless lecturer from lasu, very protective over his children. Bunch of retardz
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Nobody: 4:10am On Jul 26, 2013
grandstar: Are you saying they are old enough to get married? They are still kids. A woman should be at least 18 and male 22years!
Says who?Or did u get it from uq bible?if yes,kindly post it here for us to see.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by basty: 4:37am On Jul 26, 2013
sexymoma: Oga O


Too gooood
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by kobonaire(m): 5:22am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: Says who?Or did u get it from uq bible?if yes,kindly post it here for us to see.
@akthedream You seem like a reasonable man and obviously you are very passionate about your religious beliefs. So now, forget history and let us just concentrate on our era. Do you think it is right of a 60+ year old man to marry a 13 year old girl? And when you want to answer think about all the lovely women in your life and imagine them getting married at 13 .... i hope to get a logical response from you.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Ruthia(f): 7:19am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: Since u now use wikipedia as ur source as against the quran and bible,then u will also believe that jesus was a GAY.If u dont believe them ,then the king of hypocrites...
Nb..Type CRUSADERS on wikipedia to confirm that Christainity has done more harm to humanity than any other religion.
mohammed was a child molester nd a sex addict having sex with slaves even married slaves nd concubines
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Godsun(m): 7:19am On Jul 26, 2013
Eneze1:Another major condition for child marriage is that the girl herself has the right to repudiate the marriage when she attains maturity if she does not like her spouse

I have problem with the bolded part, really after already being used by someone old enough to be her Dad or after having wasted the prime of her life giving birth, am really surprised at some people level of thinking

She would remain untouched before she attains puberty, she wouldn't even live with the man, they would only be engaged. Proper marriage is done when she attains puberty, at her will, she won't be forced to marriage and if she feels she doesn't like the man, she has a choice to reject him.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Ruthia(f): 7:25am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: Are you okay?You hungry?Stop spewing trash.
wats d trash about it? Instead of ur imams going about evangelising about ur religion he goes about talking incorrect things about oda pple's religion, which even most muslims dnt even believe, wat a wicked religion
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Ruthia(f): 7:38am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: And i repeat,you are a disappointment for not posting the quranic verse as promised.Like i said before,you dont have to lie to make a point.Shame on you for wasting my time..Now i know you are as idle and frustrated as babyosisi.you two are birds of a feather..Next time you see your Gay pastor,tell him to stop telling you cheap and embarassing lies about Islam.
let me educate u fool, our pastors neva preach about people's religion(mumuslim) dey concentrate on putting us on d right part, who'l go about wasting time talking about ur religion wen der's notyn gud to say about it, i told ur fellow muslim showed me all dis things, i'm sure dey've bath u with dat der water nd u've drank it, dats y u cant c d darkness u're in, ape! Inside me nd u who dey jobless, castrated monkey , uncircumcised baboon
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Ruthia(f): 7:44am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: Do u know more than pastor chris and rev king?therefore,divorce and burning of human being alive and even perming of male hair is legal in christainity..prove or show ur us anybody that married a 6 or 9 yr old child in mecca.You are a big liar and may God reward u accordingly if u dont desist from it.
look at dis fool oooo, even ur fellow muslim accepted d fact but u er still addamant, wats ur problem? U dnt read quran abi? U go about chasing toddlers instead of reading ur quran...... Anuofia
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by dejyx: 7:50am On Jul 26, 2013
"In Islamic writings, her name is thus often prefixed by the title "Mother of the Believers" (Arabic: أمّ المؤمنين umm al-mu'minīn), per the description of Muhammad's wives in the Qur'an.[2][3][4] Aisha was married to Muhammad at the age of six and the marriage was consummated when she was nine years old."


Reference.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aisha

So what are you guys talking about?
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by dejyx: 7:58am On Jul 26, 2013
"Early Muslims regarded Aisha's youth as demonstrating her virginity and therefore her suitability as a bride of Muhammad. This issue of her virginity was of great importance to those who supported Aisha's position in the debate of the succession to Muhammad. These supporters considered that as Muhammad's only virgin wife, Aisha was divinely intended for him, and therefore the most credible regarding the debate"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aisha

No wonder the 7 virgins in paradise after killing unbelievers with bombs.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Japanise: 8:32am On Jul 26, 2013
am highly disappointed at the so call half bake young Muslims that call themselves leader, which of Quranic Verse or Haddith Support your assertions MURIC’s Director, Ishaq Akintola

Islam is so clear and unambiguous,in Islam all Muslims are compel to seek knowledge first before practicing Islam as a religion

these so call group leader just come out to the public and say rubbish without proof to support their assertion

please MURIC’s Director, Ishaq Akintola provide the verse of the Quran or Haddith that support your statement.

Islam does not support the molestation of an underage child and Islam support child right that is why Islam clearly stated that parent will be held responsible for all misdeed of their children. The so call parents now want to expose the young girl to hardship

Nigerian should say no to this barbaric act



i have a question for those Muslims that support this barbaric act.
let assume your 9 year old girl in primary school come home with a boy of 13 year old and inform you as her father of mother that mummy/ Daddy Pray for us, we want to get marry very soon . what will be your reaction


please let be realistic in all what we are doing, even if Arabian practise underage marriage in the past, this is modern age let wake up from our slumber
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by debbleopto: 9:02am On Jul 26, 2013
tintingz: You'll get your answer on what you posted

Now some may object to this saying how could theProphet marry Aisha at such a young age. One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something verycommon to marry young girls, in fact they were notconsidered young girls, rather they were consideredyoung women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the UnitedStates girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago.

Yet with these facts no historian claims that all thesepeople were sick perverts, historians would callanyone who made such a claim to be arrogant andvery stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history.

Furthermore as to the prophets Marriage with Aisha,something people will notice is that the completionof the marriage was done when Aisha was 9 yearsold, not when she was 6, and there is a reason forthat. The reason why this happened is because Aishahad been through puberty by the age of 9, and inIslam a female who under-goes puberty is considereda lady and is fit for marriage. Now some may say howdoes a girl go through puberty at the age of 9? :

When does puberty start? Although puberty usually starts between ages 8 to 13 in girls, itmay start earlier or later. Everyone's body changes ata different time. Whether you have breasts at age 10or have not started your period by age 14, do notworry. Everyone goes through puberty eventually. ( http://www.healthtouch.com/bin/EContent_HT/cnoteShowLfts.asp?fname=07103&title=PUBERTY+IN+GIRLS+&cid=HTHLTH )

In fact early symptoms of a girl going throughpuberty is described as:

You may get PMS. PMS or "premenstrual syndrome" is a group of changes you may see and feel before your period. You may have headaches,dizziness, or feel sick to your stomach before yourperiod. You may feel like crying more, feel a little sad,and feel more emotional about everything. PMS maycause you to retain (hold onto) water. Retainingwater means that your body tries to keep more bodyfluid in before and during your period. This maymake your breasts tender and cause you to feelbloated, restless, or grumpy.

If we read the hadiths, we find that right before Aishagot married off to the prophet that she was sick andnot feeling to well:

Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234:

Narrated Aisha:The Prophet engaged me when I was agirl of six (years). We went to Medinaand stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harithbin Khazraj . Then I got ill and my hairfell down. Later on my hair grew (again)and my mother, Um Ruman, came to mewhile I was playing in a swing with someof my girl friends. She called me, and Iwent to her, not knowing what shewanted to do to me. She caught me bythe hand and made me stand at thedoor of the house. I was breathless then,and when my breathing becameAllright, she took some water andrubbed my face and head with it. Thenshe took me into the house. There in thehouse I saw some Ansari women whosaid, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessingand a good luck." Then she entrustedme to them and they prepared me (forthe marriage). Unexpectedly Allah'sApostle came to me in the forenoon andmy mother handed me over to him, andat that time I was a girl of nine years of age.

Aisha had no problems when she moved in with theProphet, nor did she show signs of distress frombeing away from her mother or father, rather she wasvery happy, obviously not the type of emotion youwould get from a supposed child now would you? Achild will want to be with its mother and father, and ifit is taken away from them it will cry a lot and will bevery distressed, yet no such signs were shown fromAisha.

In other words Aisha(ra) was 18-20 when she married/consummated according to history

According to almost all the historians Asma (ra),the elder sister of Ayesha (ra) was ten years olderthan Ayesha (ra). It is reported in Taqreeb al-Tehzeeb as well as Al-Bidaayah wa al-Nihayah thatAsma (ra) died in 73 hijrah when she was 100years old. Now, obviously if Asma (ra) was 100years old in 73 hijrah she should have been 27 or28 years old at the time of hijrah. If Asma (ra) was27 or 28 years old at the time of hijrah, Ayesha(ra) should have been 17 or 18 years old at thattime. Thus, Ayesha (ra), if she got married in 1 AH(after hijrah) or 2 AH, was between 18 to 20 yearsold at the time of her marriage.

I am wondering is it the same God that created them man and woman is the same that said man and girl should marry. could we be expecting boy and woman? when have u heard that when they called for women girls will also follow them. or your girl will refer to herself that she is a woman before her teacher. If khadija were to be around I am convinced that won't happened. for example if 13 is accepted then a 30 years old would have been grand mother. why not be patient and allowed the girl to mature to a young woman. at least there are other young woman not yet married waiting for husband.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by debbleopto: 9:15am On Jul 26, 2013
Godsun:

She would remain untouched before she attains puberty, she wouldn't even live with the man, they would only be engaged. Proper marriage is done when she attains puberty, at her will, she won't be forced to marriage and if she feels she doesn't like the man, she has a choice to reject him.

friend puberty is still developmental stage to womanhood. allow her to. mature fully. do you always eat your food half - done while on the fire? marriage is always between two mature people.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by faksy(m): 9:17am On Jul 26, 2013
[quote author=lincolnj88] we dont need to.... prophet mohamed , have already done that 4 us...... Wat we are doing now is to analyze dem so that d few educated cows can see dem.......ISL AM IS DOOMED ALREADY
may almighty Allah (SWT) thawab u wt ur alturance...amin
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Eneze1(f): 9:37am On Jul 26, 2013
akthedream: Stop acting like a no brainer.Did u not read that there will be no sex b4 puberty and her consent is needed b4 sex?Grow up and stop acting like a lid all the time.

between me and u who's a no brainer, I guess ur IQ is very low for u to understand the rubbish ur muric spilled, so if she attain puberty at age 11, she can be slept with or have u forgotten she's just a defenseless little girl, u need ur brain checked young man and stop defending what doesn't make sense
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by Burger01(m): 10:34am On Jul 26, 2013
These perverts are just twisting the whole shaiit.

Tweeaah.. Pigs

sad
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by simpleseyi: 10:37am On Jul 26, 2013
ihimami:

My friend, I can see the effect of media harassments affecting you as a Muslim. You do not need to be proud of being Muslim in as much as you fail to comprehend the points the MURIC director is making. Islam is guided by Devine Law and order, so if your position is based on what those who have been influenced by western perspective says, I am sorry you are far from being a true Muslim. Islam is based on solid evidence, and if you can not provide Quran and hadith evidences that stipulated the age bracket when a daughter can be given out in marriage, it is wrong for you to come out and condemned the MURIC director's position. My candid advice, please don't allow those that have been misguided to lead you astray, because they have been programmed to hate anything Islamic even though they could see the positive impact it is having on Muslim Community all over the world, i,e compare the rate of immoral activities such as homosexuality, crimes, sexual promiscuity and other vices of western countries to that of Islamic countries. Peace.

Another PEDOPHILE! Ladies and gentlemen, that person sitting or standing beside you may be a pedophile just like this guy that typed rubbish here. Now Mr. ihimami, all these your rantings, let us put them into action. Please come and ask for my under-aged cousin or niece's hand in marriage and lets see whether you will be fit enough to type this rubbish. I am not practicing Islam to please you or according to your own self-specified beliefs. If you can give give out your daughters in primary school out for wedding, kindly contact Sanni Yerima. Stay away from me because I don't spare PEDOPHILES, I destroy them before they destroy the society.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by lincolnj88: 10:48am On Jul 26, 2013
kadree:
Obviously,d person who typed dis trash is a hardened supporter of d BIBLE dat says"drink but don't get drunk" but surely, not a fan of d OTHER deeper life BIBLE dat extremely frawns at liquor intake(even though dis trash he spewed out can be likened to dat of a person operating under a strong influence of hard form of liquor)
Sorry friend,ur comment here,reeks nothing but odour.ur best wasn't gud enough,kindly try more.
hmmmm anoda aboki ,
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by ArewaWarrior: 10:57am On Jul 26, 2013
simpleseyi: By God's Grace I am a muslim and I am forever grateful to God for being a muslim; however I am very very disappointed and ashamed of the actions and inactions of some of my so-called muslim brothers and sisters. How can any sane human give any reason to support child marriage. This MURIC Director should tell us how many of his daughters got married while in primary school. If this so called MURIC Director is sure of what he is saying and he is ready to defend it, please someone tell him to come and ask for the hand of my under-aged cousin, niece in marriage, he will come and tell Nigerians the outcome of such evil demand.

If you are a muslim and grateful to Allah for being one you could start with knowing what the religion says about child marriage before you conclude. It is a choice. If u like you can give your daughters up when thr 30 or even older, however if others choose differently and are not breaking any Islamic law then who are we to objet? You see the white man has managed to poison most of our views on issues that are permissible like also marrying more than 1 wife, Part of the wisdom behind this practice of polygamy is that 99.99% of men are polygamous in nature, whoever tells you otherwise is a hypocrite. ask the xtians to produce any verse in the bible that states you have to marry 1.... that law was man made.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by debbleopto: 11:02am On Jul 26, 2013
simpleseyi:

Another PEDOPHILE! Ladies and gentlemen, that person sitting or standing beside you may be a pedophile just like this guy that typed rubbish here. Now Mr. ihimami, all these your rantings, let us put them into action. Please come and ask for my under-aged cousin or niece's hand in marriage and lets see whether you will be fit enough to type this rubbish. I am not practicing Islam to please you or according to your own self-specified beliefs. If you can give give out your daughters in primary school out for wedding, kindly contact Sanni Yerima. Stay away from me because I don't spare PEDOPHILES, I destroy them before they destroy the society.

God bless you. God is wiser than us all and he won't tell us to do what is foolish or evil. He created us man a nd said I will make him helpmate. so he created woman and not girl for the man. the man organ will be like instrument of torture to the girl . she can not say no to a man that is already high.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by debbleopto: 11:04am On Jul 26, 2013
simpleseyi:

Another PEDOPHILE! Ladies and gentlemen, that person sitting or standing beside you may be a pedophile just like this guy that typed rubbish here. Now Mr. ihimami, all these your rantings, let us put them into action. Please come and ask for my under-aged cousin or niece's hand in marriage and lets see whether you will be fit enough to type this rubbish. I am not practicing Islam to please you or according to your own self-specified beliefs. If you can give give out your daughters in primary school out for wedding, kindly contact Sanni Yerima. Stay away from me because I don't spare PEDOPHILES, I destroy them before they destroy the society.
Re: Our Position On ‘child Marriage’ – Islamic Organisation by akpanbaba: 11:36am On Jul 26, 2013
Truly,the teacher is teaching me nonsense.

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