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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by NavierStokes(m): 9:23pm On Aug 31, 2013
BIG LIE
marcangelo: Hmmm, NICE GUYS FINISH LAST
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Donmichaelz(m): 9:23pm On Aug 31, 2013
Click like if You know you can never Marry a girl you slept with before Marriage,So they can for ones Grow some senses

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Nnachi404(m): 9:26pm On Aug 31, 2013
Double194: I dey press my mango well well to know if the ripe reach inside before I buy ooh.
omo you be bad boy well na bad boy them girls like but use cd when you want to press it mangohuuuu
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Nobody: 9:29pm On Aug 31, 2013
Just reminded me of a very close friend of mine who is having a serious crisis in his marriage of 3weeks old(today)... His wife told him she's a virgin, xo 'no sex b4 marriage', and he was over the moon about that. Only for him to discover that she's not a 'v' after the wedding... He's feeling so betrayed and bittered, even thinkin of divorcing her because of the betrayal, telling me he can never trust her again... I wonder why that lady did that to ma friend...

I also have another friend who told me that he had already consummated his relationship with his girlfriend, but immediately after he proposed to her, she told him 'no sex b4 marriage'... Cos they needed to get God involved. (Classical punishment)Twas really funny....

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by welgate(m): 9:29pm On Aug 31, 2013
For the religious person, sex before marriage is a capital sin whether you accept it or not. If you are the satanic and irreligious type, God will surely give you a wife or husband that is as irreligious as u are. I bet you, conduct a research on all those that have married a girl or guy that had s.x before marriage and you will find out that 99.9% of them had s.x before marriage. So, if you are the type that had s.x before marriage, if you don't repent God's willing you will marry a girl or guy that had s.x before marriage.

May God Save Us

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Youngzedd(m): 9:37pm On Aug 31, 2013
[quote author=chux4liv]But come to think of it, all what OP is writing maybe true but I suspect you are writing from experience, Have you dated any S.U that refuse you her "Punanni" lately?

Why I'm writing this is because it's we men that lure them into this act, use and dump them. Soo let us be the one that will still take them into our abode.[/quote]

On point.

I do pity them.
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Aug 31, 2013
Phiozy: Just reminded me of a very close friend of mine who is having a serious crisis in his marriage of 3weeks old(today)... His wife told him she's a virgin, xo 'no sex b4 marriage', and he was over the moon about that. Only for him to discover that she's not a 'v' after the wedding... He's feeling so betrayed and bittered, even thinkin of divorcing her because of the betrayal, telling me he can never trust her again... I wonder why that lady did that to ma friend...

I also have another friend who told me that he had already consummated his relationship with his girlfriend, but immediately after he proposed to her, she told him 'no sex b4 marriage'... Cos they needed to get God involved. (Classical punishment)Twas really funny....
nice one,I sure say you self no go do sex before marriage for person wey wan marry you,after all the oga ade's don enter the place.lol
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by dabrake(m): 9:38pm On Aug 31, 2013
Truckpusher: Omo before me Mr Truckpusher put my money down say i do grin......

I must do my appraisal drilling to know the potentials of that reservoir if it will require water flooding to be a good producer or natural flow without any artificial gas injection cheesy
and at the same time i must insert all the new technology of drilling to observe the bottom hole pressure before embarking on any form of completion.

Infact i must have serviced the well bore to the payzone for at least two to three yrs with all approach known to mankind before going for the full blown production of mankpory and chanfary grin grin

Any girl that comes with that no sex policy should be asked this simple question,

Are you a virgin? and if the answer is 'NO' Abeg commot wrapper make i enter joor! God punish you
grin grin

LMAO. Omo, bobos dey vex oh.

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Truckpusher(m): 9:41pm On Aug 31, 2013
babyosisi: Another woman bashing thread
Mchtwwww
Make una go marry una fellow man na
Why bother with females since all of us don rotten finish
Go and find your polycarp or sylvanus and leave the women alone
Eediots

These girls you all are accusing of sleeping around ,no be una dey sleep with them
Are they sleeping with spirit men?
The one you are are currently sleeping with,no be your fellow man go marry am while you end up with some else's ex
Nonsense
Amadioha majie kwa unu Olu dia angry
so you too sleep around? grin....ayaf died ,all hope is lost. grin

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by ideyvexnow: 9:44pm On Aug 31, 2013
Teenzy: I wonder why some guys are vexing cos of dis ish....did d girl beg u 2 date her..if u cant handle it den free d babe.

Obtaining by false pretense is Fraud, pure and simple.
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by kayceekleans(m): 9:49pm On Aug 31, 2013
Marriage is honourable, the bed undefiled...
Sex b4 marriage is a sin... Therefore should not be

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Aug 31, 2013
Ishilove:
A 1000 likes.

Mor0nic topic, mor0nic op. Mscheeew angry

So if perchance she gives you free access to her womanliness but at the end of the day you don't end up getting married, is that how she will also allow other men have free access to her body? So if she dates seven men before finally settling down, is that is how she will sleep with all seven men? Yet it still the same men who are advocating for pre-marital sex that will complain that a woman has over-used herself when she finally gives in to them.

Selfish reetards angry
Moronic POV. It's only in this corner of the world women like you make such a fuss about something as asinine and trivial as premarital sex. Sophisticated men and women know that it's hardly the most important thing that makes a relationship tick. Sex is good. But other thngs are more important and i dare say more enduring: exposure, an enlightened mind , a well rounded personality, a good sense of humour and career accomplishments. A man or woman with these assets has enough self respect and wisdom to not take any man or woman seriously who's primarily interested in the number of lays he or she has had in the past undecided

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by deshclones(m): 9:55pm On Aug 31, 2013
NL is a bad influence walahi...I have this very pretty awesome galfriend that told me no sex before marriage nd as a sharp guy I obliged...but I participated in one discussion like dat in the romance section..and after I foolishly started doubting ma gal..demanding for se.x...nd proof that she truly is a V..it was tuff but she finally after 2wks of my intense shakara nd emotional blackmail...with tears in her eyes stripped naked nd asked me to come verify if she is a V and pop d cheery so I won't leave her cos she loved (nd still does love)me...mehn shame,and disgrace filled ma entire being..I felt like a fool...cos she was truly a V...this is a 25yr old gal with a gd job,MSC nd proffessional qualifications to boot...


To be honest,I am prepared to wait,am okay wit the kisses I get...I hv had so much sex in ma youthful life that am willing to stay off se.x cos of this damsel,afteall November is almost here...different strokes for different folks.

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by olopan(m): 9:55pm On Aug 31, 2013
hustla:

You just painted my scenario
14 year old girl don dey straff...if you see a pretty girl at 20+ that hasn't had s....ex before in 2013.. My bro..hold on to am grin
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.@ all what i have a gal that is a true virgin,and talks of future has always being discuss but then i tell ma family about it mostly the women but all come up with the ideal that she is bad for marriage[kogi:the yoruba speaking part & no offences to kogites] due to cultural up bring that has proven and shown itself to be true over considerable length of time & obsevere by many to be true
. see the angel on my right shoulder tells me to just let her go without compromising her virginity
. but the angel on my left shoulder shocked say you got to make better chance of this opportunity coz jewels like this are rare.............and am having a dilemma dont knw to break the news........
undecided
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by ideyvexnow: 9:56pm On Aug 31, 2013
Phiozy: Just reminded me of a very close friend of mine who is having a serious crisis in his marriage of 3weeks old(today)... His wife told him she's a virgin, xo 'no sex b4 marriage', and he was over the moon about that. Only for him to discover that she's not a 'v' after the wedding... He's feeling so betrayed and bittered, even thinkin of divorcing her because of the betrayal, telling me he can never trust her again... I wonder why that lady did that to ma friend...

I also have another friend who told me that he had already consummated his relationship with his girlfriend, but immediately after he proposed to her, she told him 'no sex b4 marriage'... Cos they needed to get God involved. (Classical punishment)Twas really funny....

After watching a lot of Indian and American Love and Romance Movies and painfully discovering that real world relationships are 100% different from TV stuff, I no longer believe in Love. I simply believe that marriage is the coming together of 2 people for the sake of convenience.

For example, I pay enough money for a brand new car, but If one of the conditions for buying the car is that I won't be allowed to test run the car before paying, I will immediately smell FRAUD and back out of the purchase.

So guys wise up and stop being fools. Marrying a particular girl is not do or die and so it is not a reason to keep thinking with your John Thomas instead of thinking with your head. Love only exists in the Movies. In real life, what we have is Lust, Convenience, Selfishness and conditional associations(fair weather associations).

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Truckpusher(m): 9:57pm On Aug 31, 2013
Horayce:
Moronic POV. It's only in this corner of the world women like you make such a fuss about something as asinine and trivial as premarital sex. Sophisticated men and women know that it's hardly the most important thing that makes a relationship tick. Sex is good. But other thngs are more important and i dare say more enduring: exposure, an enlightened mind mind , a well rounded personality, a good sense of humour and career accomplishments. A man or woman with these assets has enough self respect and wisdom to not take any man or woman seriously who's primarily interested in the number of lays he or she has had in the past undecided
Don't mind her ,she prolly thinks i was coming to tell the whole NL how she chop my money and personally dealt with me....

Am i making sense at all undecided

Sorry ,ermm i was in a dream and i tot i was Psquare cheesy
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by JeremyLawal: 9:59pm On Aug 31, 2013
you sure u re not impotent.. after rocking hard then what do you do??.. self-service??
aywhy93:

I always insist on no sex before marriage and I never date rounze girls but that doesn't make me impotent... I rock so hard but I've learnt to control myself... because others are breaking God commandment doesn't Mean I should also do the same.
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by dgysoft(m): 10:00pm On Aug 31, 2013
For me before i say i do to a lady. She go get one bouncing baby boy for ground first. No long stories. A bi you wan rob peter pay paul? Mba nu!
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by ideyvexnow: 10:02pm On Aug 31, 2013
kayceekleans: Marriage is honourable, the bed undefiled...
Sex b4 marriage is a sin... Therefore should not be


Yeah Yeah Yeah, we've heard that many times, but guy, marriage is serious business. No sex b/4 marriage is like paying for an expensive thing without testing, only to later discover that you paid for rubbish.

I will rather sin and ask for forgiveness later, than make a mistake, that I can't reverse.

And come, think about it, It's not murder, it's just sex before marriage, for sampling sake.
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by JeremyLawal: 10:04pm On Aug 31, 2013
IN CONCLUSION... YOUR SO-CALLED S.U GF IS ANOTHER GUY'S PORN STAR.....IWO NI BF ,AWA LO WAN NDO.. grin grin grin
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by agrovick(m): 10:05pm On Aug 31, 2013
lepasharon: #team virgin undecided
tah! Make i hear word
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Saraha1(f): 10:06pm On Aug 31, 2013
[quote
author=deshclones]NL is a bad influence walahi...I have this very
pretty awesome galfriend that told me no sex before marriage nd as a
sharp guy I obliged...but I participated in one discussion like dat in
the romance section..and after I foolishly started doubting ma
gal..demanding for se.x...nd proof that she truly is a V..it was tuff
but she finally after 2wks of my intense shakara nd emotional
blackmail...with tears in her eyes stripped naked nd asked me to come
verify if she is a V and pop d cheery so I won't leave her cos she loved
(nd still does love)me...mehn shame,and disgrace filled ma entire
being..I felt like a fool...cos she was truly a V...this is a 25yr old
gal with a gd job,MSC nd proffessional qualifications to boot...


To be honest,I am prepared to wait,am okay wit the kisses I get...I hv
had so much sex in ma youthful life that am willing to stay off se.x cos
of this damsel,afteall November is almost here...different strokes for
different folks.[/quote] Thank your star,that gave such opportunity to rethink before bad guy of nairaland influences you.
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 31, 2013
Nothing do u o. Send me my IV sha.. wink
deshclones: NL is a bad influence walahi...I have this very pretty awesome galfriend that told me no sex before marriage nd as a sharp guy I obliged...but I participated in one discussion like dat in the romance section..and after I foolishly started doubting ma gal..demanding for se.x...nd proof that she truly is a V..it was tuff but she finally after 2wks of my intense shakara nd emotional blackmail...with tears in her eyes stripped naked nd asked me to come verify if she is a V and pop d cheery so I won't leave her cos she loved (nd still does love)me...mehn shame,and disgrace filled ma entire being..I felt like a fool...cos she was truly a V...this is a 25yr old gal with a gd job,MSC nd proffessional qualifications to boot...


To be honest,I am prepared to wait,am okay wit the kisses I get...I hv had so much sex in ma youthful life that am willing to stay off se.x cos of this damsel,afteall November is almost here...different strokes for different folks.

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 31, 2013
Those who deny the existence of the type of ladies OP is referring to in the church are not sincere. Even among Christ's disciples, there was a Judas Iscariot. The word fake was originated because there was original. My take is if you say there are no honest girls in church who don't engage in sex before marriage, then you mean the law of phenomenal pair of life is defective. This is because as we have light, so there is darkness, day pairs night. Male pairs female, water pairs land, sky pairs earth, honesty pairs dishonesty. My submission is that it should not be generalized..
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by SIRKOL(m): 10:14pm On Aug 31, 2013
[quote author=Pacify]Oboy this is the truth as you have said it. A friend of mine had a similar experience where he met a lady who gave dis same 'cock and bull' story of no sex before marriage. To cut long story short, my friend said after marriage he discovered that she was an over used handbag who's vaginal muscles have slacked grin grin because of 'excess banging (his words) grin

Anyways, many ladies bring up dis no sex policy because they have some secrets to hide. Same goes for guys who insist on no sex before marriage, I won't be surprise if they are either gay or impotent. [/quote na wa uooo
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by SIRKOL(m): 10:15pm On Aug 31, 2013
[quote author=Pacify]Oboy this is the truth as you have said it. A friend of mine had a similar experience where he met a lady who gave dis same 'cock and bull' story of no sex before marriage. To cut long story short, my friend said after marriage he discovered that she was an over used handbag who's vaginal muscles have slacked grin grin because of 'excess banging (his words) grin

Anyways, many ladies bring up dis no sex policy because they have some secrets to hide. Same goes for guys who insist on no sex before marriage, I won't be surprise if they are either gay or impotent. [/quote na wa ur totzooo
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by ideyvexnow: 10:17pm On Aug 31, 2013
Ok
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by ideyvexnow: 10:17pm On Aug 31, 2013
deshclones: NL is a bad influence walahi...I have this very pretty awesome galfriend that told me no sex before marriage nd as a sharp guy I obliged...but I participated in one discussion like dat in the romance section..and after I foolishly started doubting ma gal..demanding for se.x...nd proof that she truly is a V..it was tuff but she finally after 2wks of my intense shakara nd emotional blackmail...with tears in her eyes stripped naked nd asked me to come verify if she is a V and pop d cheery so I won't leave her cos she loved (nd still does love)me...mehn shame,and disgrace filled ma entire being..I felt like a fool...cos she was truly a V...this is a 25yr old gal with a gd job,MSC nd professional qualifications to boot...


To be honest,I am prepared to wait,am okay wit the kisses I get...I hv had so much sex in ma youthful life that am willing to stay off se.x cos of this damsel,afteall November is almost here...different strokes for different folks.

Guy, so you trying to tell me that you were ashamed of demanding to test and verify the authenticity of the goods you want to purchase. Why should you apologize for doing the right thing or do your normally pay for stuffs without testing.
Remember that this is Naija and in Naija, we are encouraged to remain sharp and to buy after thorough inspection.

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by dipojolaoso(m): 10:18pm On Aug 31, 2013
sexymoma: And how many mango you don press, how many ripe reach and how many yoou don kari go house go show your mumsy undecided



All the mangos wey u don press,no be someone go carry dat one go chop?....men are selfish,straight and simple
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by Nobody: 10:20pm On Aug 31, 2013
Now I know why most guys say the lady they wld want to get married to must begin her 9mnths course b4 the wedding... The wedding ring is the smallest handcuff(or rather finger-cuff) in the world, and marriage is more like a prison, so be careful in choosing your cell/prison-mate. Ciao!
Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by aggiel: 10:21pm On Aug 31, 2013
Some these guys wey dey nairaland, they can lie, deceiving pple up and down, calling that most gals puss* are slacked, so who're the ones marrying them, is still this same guys boasting here.
They're still the same guys hustling day and 9t, working odd jobs, just to get the attention of that same gal they've mocked with their friends as having slacked puss* and they end up marrying the gal, even when they find out the gal has had several relationships.
Abeg I don't believe whatever men say, they lie a lot, sometimes I wonder what really makes them marry a gal, in short u see a homely gal, staying with her parent, doing a good job, good character, she can hardly boast of a serious relationship, men hardly notice her. Then u would notice these other babe, she's got like 5 boyfriends, all responsible with good paying jobs, they're all killing themselves over this 1 babe, they've all proposed marriage, she's the one doing shakara. Sometimes I wonder, wat makes a man make up his mind he wanna spend the rest of his life with a gal, is it because she's a goddess to behold, or because she's very good in bed, or because she's a virgin, or because she's hardworking and intelligent. Men, u can never understand them, abeg women be urself's, if u're a virgin keep it, if u're a not a virgin, na u get am and only u can control how many pple gets in there before u get hooked, be wise.

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Re: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by rezzy: 10:23pm On Aug 31, 2013
Like my fiance wil say, "whether we guys like it or not, we will be the one to inherit all the girls whether good or bad ones".

If you guys keep that thing in between your thighs, all girls will remain a virgin till their wedding night.

NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE and im sticking to it.

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