The recent story about the adventurous lady with the popular man of God in Abuja brings me to this topic. These days it seems churches have now become a harem for girls of questionable virtues. Although this problem had been existing for a while but it seems more prominent nowadays. Churches used to be an holy sanctuary where moral values are inculcated but these days they have become a sanctuary for chronic unrepentant revelers and moral degenerates, these houses of prayers have now become proverbial "Den of Thieves".

Okay, the above is a topic for the Religion Section; to my main concern. Most of the guys - "wife prospectors"- in the church are familiar with the slogan "No sex before marriage", most times "brothers" that have honored these No sex deals have found themselves in deceitful marriages. Don't get me wrong, this is not an advocacy for moral indiscretion but these days that term has been severally used with ulterior motives. These daughters of Eve have now adapted to the guys strategy of running to church to pick "good" girls so they too have repackaged their product to meet market preference. I laugh at losers that fall into the hands of such born again Jezebels, they know how to dangle the forbidden fruit in your front for so long that your common sense would short circuit! Some guys are just pure ignorant or reaping their atrocious deeds. You meet a girl in church, she claims born again so no sex, you are there suffering from "Conji" and she is there getting regular servicing from assistant boyfriend. You are just a bloody ignoramus, bible that says be as wise as serpent but gentle as dove knows what its talking about, that same mouth you are reserving for " You may now kiss the bride" is the same lips giving one nuisance nincompoop "mouth action"(Seun's correction Bot word for BJ). I once went for a wedding where the bride was a topic of discussion for a group of guys sitting next to me, it was obvious they have all "marked register" at one time with Holy Cinderella and the "Dollo" groom was there busy dancing Alingo for his wise choice !!! There is this story of a church sister i know very well, a choir member....Ok story for another day.

nonsense talk

Abeg knack me the concluding part of that gist make I hear the tori **sipping wine and patiently waiting**

Pacify: Abeg knack me the concluding part of that gist make I hear the tori **sipping wine and patiently waiting**

Ok, this a true life short story cos i know this person very well, She was a sister in a popular church and we all knew her to be very promiscuous. Some elders and choir master have been beneficiaries of her largesse and even male choir members were not left out. (I didn't partake of the unholy communion o before you go begin ask me, why? then I was an innocent mummy's overgrown ajebutter so sex was a No-No, which house i wan use sef ). This sister had committed so many abortions but the last one that broke the proverbial camel's back was an Ectopic pregnancy and while in the effort to save her they had to remove her womb. This is a very beautiful girl, well educated, well endowed physically and sophisticated, you know how stories fly around those orthodox church communities because most members are family generation. The sister left the church and joined one of this modern Pentecostal church where she has become a born again chorister. Funny how life works, in later years i met an office colleague who had been boasting about his born again fiancee, he told me about their no Sex policy and how they have maintaining it for 2 years. It was when we went for a marriage ceremony together that i realized that his fiancee is our popular church sister!!! I diplomatically discovered he doesn't know about her issue. I am sure it would be on their honey she would confess that her engine has been removed. Don't get me wrong i believe in second chance but it is based on truthfulness but how many girls would tell a guy how many men she slept with?

Oboy this is the truth as you have said it. A friend of mine had a similar experience where he met a lady who gave dis same 'cock and bull' story of no sex before marriage. To cut long story short, my friend said after marriage he discovered that she was an over used handbag who's vaginal muscles have slacked because of 'excess banging (his words)

Anyways, many ladies bring up dis no sex policy because they have some secrets to hide. Same goes for guys who insist on no sex before marriage, I won't be surprise if they are either gay or impotent.

I dey press my mango well well to know if the ripe reach inside before I buy ooh.

#team virgin

These days it seems churches have now become a harem for girls of questionable virtues. Although this problem had been existing for a while but it seems more prominent nowadays. Churches used to be an holy sanctuary where moral values are inculcated but these days they have become a sanctuary for chronic unrepentant revelers and moral degenerates

well, true.




Best to simply assume everybody is having s.ex @ topic.

just remember everyone in prayer.

what a 'cry-baby' thread

No be 2day

e get one weh they package me the "no sex before marriage" tins now... omo I don weigh the package but e no pure, I just had to break up with the girl b4 I go enta one chance tins

I develop instant hate wen I hear such frm a lady, especially ''NON VIRGINS''
For me its a no no.
In my relationship, I don't give or accept conditions or restrictions.
Na only ''no control'' guys dey fall for dis kind trap.
Av noticed its mostly common wit dis early twenties stubborn/rude/disrespectful chics without relationship xperience. They will sing a new song wen they clock 30. I can bet anytin on dat.

Mehn @op u have said it all..

100% truth. I just pity the guys that still fall for it. Hope this makes front page for more enlightenment & more responses.

If you're not comfortable with something, whatever happened to moving on to the next available candidate

Double194: I dey press my mango well well to know if the ripe reach inside before I buy ooh.

And how many mango you don press, how many ripe reach and how many yoou don kari go house go show your mumsy

^^ ask PHCN

Gals, make una kon defend una sef for hia o!

@op dis ur lines strike me "I once went for a wedding where the bride was a topic of discussion for a group of guys sitting next to me, it was obvious they have all "marked register" at one time with Holy Cinderella and the "Dollo" groom was there busy dancing Alingo for his wise choice"

I was at a wedding too like that where d bride was made the topic of discussion by her own friends and i cant help but felt pity for the groom that was busy dancing.

I wonder why some guys are vexing cos of dis ish....did d girl beg u 2 date her..if u cant handle it den free d babe.

Teenzy: I wonder why some guys are vexing cos of dis ish....did d girl beg u 2 date her..if u cant handle it den free d babe.

why must she decieve a man into marriage?

Pacify: Oboy this is the truth as you have said it. A friend of mine had a similar experience where he met a lady who gave dis same 'cock and bull' story of no sex before marriage. To cut long story short, my friend said after marriage he discovered that she was an over used handbag who's vaginal muscles have slacked because of 'excess banging (his words)

Anyways, many ladies bring up dis no sex policy because they have some secrets to hide. Same goes for guys who insist on no sex before marriage, I won't be surprise if they are either gay or impotent.

A man saying no sex before marriage = impotent

@ OP.....Oga, Judge not oo, no go spoil market for me oo, I get one wey they on board and she is willing to give me you know...

Goldenboy007: The recent story about the adventurous lady with the popular man of God in Abuja brings me to this topic. These days it seems churches have now become a harem for girls of questionable virtues. Although this problem had been existing for a while but it seems more prominent nowadays. Churches used to be an holy sanctuary where moral values are inculcated but these days they have become a sanctuary for chronic unrepentant revelers and moral degenerates, these houses of prayers have now become proverbial "Den of Thieves".

Okay, the above is a topic for the Religion Section; to my main concern. Most of the guys - "wife prospectors"- in the church are familiar with the slogan "No sex before marriage", most times "brothers" that have honored these No sex deals have found themselves in deceitful marriages. Don't get me wrong, this is not an advocacy for moral indiscretion but these days that term has been severally used with ulterior motives. These daughters of Eve have now adapted to the guys strategy of running to church to pick "good" girls so they too have repackaged their product to meet market preference. I laugh at losers that fall into the hands of such born again Jezebels, they know how to dangle the forbidden fruit in your front for so long that your common sense would short circuit! Some guys are just pure ignorant or reaping their atrocious deeds. You meet a girl in church, she claims born again so no sex, you are there suffering from "Conji" and she is there getting regular servicing from assistant boyfriend. You are just a bloody ignoramus, bible that says be as wise as serpent but gentle as dove knows what its talking about, that same mouth you are reserving for " You may now kiss the bride" is the same lips giving one nuisance nincompoop "mouth action"(Seun's correction Bot word for BJ). I once went for a wedding where the bride was a topic of discussion for a group of guys sitting next to me, it was obvious they have all "marked register" at one time with Holy Cinderella and the "Dollo" groom was there busy dancing Alingo for his wise choice !!! There is this story of a church sister i know very well, a choir member....Ok story for another day.

Truth is bitter, my man continue....the worst place to look for a wife is in a church. It is good to know who you are marrying inside out than marrying someone who is hiding under the umbrella of burnt again xtian. Claiming no sex before marriage, i hate that statement with passion. Any girl who uses that word just ended our relationship.

Hmm, all what OP wrote maybe true but I suspect he's narrating from experience. Have you dated any S.U, and she refused you access to her "Punanni"?

It's we men that lure opposite sex into this act, use and dump them. So, lets be the one that will still take them into our abode.

Jenams: I develop instant hate wen I hear such frm a lady, especially ''NON VIRGINS''

Well, I feel most of em are jex afraid to be dumped aqain...

Lol. 1 wanted to scam me too. I just freed her when she said I couldn't even hug her! I jus mscheew and told her "fuuuccck you biatch!!!

chux4liv:

Why I'm writing this is because it's we men that lure them into this act, use and dump them.

That's true tho...buh yet I still can't defend these ladies 'cos...

Pacify:

Anyways, many ladies bring up dis no sex policy because they have some secrets{e.q. Slacked punny} to hide.

I stand for No sex b4 marriage cos most guys only think with dier 3rd legs, use and dump ladies @ will.
If u can't pay for a cow why get d milk for free?
Assuming a lady has slept wit many men all because of sex b4 marriage,loose d elasticity of her womanliness and aborted several times who will like to marry her?
A woman with values,self respect and feminine pride,honesty will keep her self.

Whether u beliv it our nt,God still hv faithful remnant.

Okay see, I'm not saying all claims of "No sex before marriage" deals are not genuine but i stand to be corrected if i say majority of those claims are borne out of ulterior motives. if girls claim "No sex before marriage" then they should make it absolute! not that they are denying you and servicing others! I hardly associate with guys whose life run on sentimental emotions like love, their rationality is that of a dog on heat! When they say that it's rare for girls that have been sexually active to stay off sex for so long is so true! Like they say in Potato Pringles ad; Once you pop you cant stop ! So either she is a virgin or she is not ! anything else na wash! If you allow them use water they have soaked G-string to cook spaghetti for you chop? I am sorry for your mother !

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