Does it irritate you?
Do you feel pity for her?
Does her attention annoy you? I know this is one of the many reasons why many ladies don't approach men of their dreams.sometimes we prefer to die in silence.some say the rejection hurts too much.some say that unlike a woman whom you can woo and win her love,there's nothing you can do to make a man who doesn't love you begin to do so.
Personally,I'd like to know what goes on in the minds of men when a woman is giving then unwanted love.
Your contributions please.
Yours truly
Lorretta U

Nothing Nothing

mekzyjoe: Nothing Nothing

what's nothing?

if a lady loves us and we don't feel the same way about her, we don't feel bad or pity her. we only take her for all she's got and move the fuccck on to the next one

firetrap: if a lady loves us and we don't feel the same way about her, we don't feel bad or pity her. we only take her for all she's got and move the fuccck on to the next one

u r a wicked devil's advocate.

I feel irritated and feel sorry for her wasted emotions. But hey! On the brighter side I get free and sure punny!

stangely: u r a wicked devil's advocate.

dey there dey mumu yourself, if the tables were turned and u were the one doing all the loving and not getting any in return; she'll take you for all you have to offer and still fucccck your best friend if she fancies him. I'm just calling it as it is, you may not like it but its the truth

Its irritates me and at some point i feel pity for her.For sum galz if u dnt love dem back they can go any length just to frustrate u.Its not a small tin.

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The question is stupid and irrelevant...

How would I feel if a girl loves me and the feeling is not mutual - Nothing..

@OP: You're proposing the question to the wrong audience. Kindly rephrase your question to the feminine gender.

Well..... It depends how she looks like

if she has big yansh why won't i reciprocate the love?

OP be more specific with your question, by saying whether the girl in question is a super hottie with killer curves, front and back and then you'll get some real answers. Personally i won't chase her away if the above was true, i would treat her right, if she wasn't hot then it's friendzone for her.

firetrap:

dey there dey mumu yourself, if the tables were turned and u were the one doing all the loving and not getting any in return; she'll take you for all you have to offer and still fucccck your best friend if she fancies him. I'm just calling it as it is, you may not like it but its the truth

Gbam, truth right there..

the question is for females.

men and women arent wired the same way.

Enegod: if she has big yansh why can't i reciprocate the love?

Bad boy

lorretta u:
Personally,I'd like to know what goes on in the minds of men when a woman is giving then unwanted love.

big ego booster?

they feel flattered by the attention and it helps them have more confidence chatting up the females they're really interested in, knowing said ladies will most likely fall like ninepins?


unless, of course, you're a creepy stalker, totally different scenario.

I will just kick her out of my way. It is bad for business, for unwanted babe to display love for u.

druid06: The question is stupid and irrelevant...

How would I feel if a girl loves me and the feeling is not mutual - Nothing..

@OP: You're proposing the question to the wrong audience. Kindly rephrase your question to the feminine gender.

You are such a man...

druid06: The question is stupid and irrelevant...

How would I feel if a girl loves me and the feeling is not mutual - Nothing..

@OP: You're proposing the question to the wrong audience. Kindly rephrase your question to the feminine gender.

actually my question is very relevant.and truly I know how it feels to love someone who doesn't love you.I'm a woman and we women talk to each other.but on the other hand,we can't fathom what goes on in the minds of men.I know if the tables were turned and woman who doesn't love you can learn to love or reciprocate your love at least.but we don't know how to get accross to men.so my question is more like,when a woman loves a guy who doesn't love her in return,is there any hope of her winning the man's love(as can be the case in women) or is it all a futile chase where she'll end up losing all her self respect,dignity and self esteem.and still won't get the man?if yes does it mean any woman who's in love with the wrong guy is doomed to eternal heart-break?(Well until prince charming come along at least)

@Op, this happens to both males and females. I think the way a lady feels about a guy she doesn't love but loves her is same way a guy will feel when a lady he doesn't love loves him. In other news: The truth about Nigerian husbands busted:
www.nairaland.com/1414969/awkward-truth-naija-husbands

lorretta u: actually my question is very relevant.and truly I know how it feels to love someone who doesn't love you.I'm a woman and we women talk to each other.but on the other hand,we can't fathom what goes on in the minds of men.I know if the tables were turned and woman who doesn't love you can learn to love or reciprocate your love at least.but we don't know how to get accross to men.so my question is more like,when a woman loves a guy who doesn't love her in return,is there any hope of her winning the man's love(as can be the case in women) or is it all a futile chase where she'll end up losing all her self respect,dignity and self esteem.and still won't get the man?if yes does it mean any woman who's in love with the wrong guy is doomed to eternal heart-break?(Well until prince charming come along at least)

yes.

even if you have s.ex with him!

and even if you carry 10 belle on top.

Ok

I don't feel nada, on to the next! Way back, but now if she loves me and I dnt and I size her bakassi and o make sense, omo na awoof o

Enegod: if she has big yansh why won't i reciprocate the love?

LOL @ expecting honest answers, nne.

@OP it really depends on the lady's features.
N/B:- I'm only irritated if she's not pretty.
-If she's got the right curves I play along, no dulling I no fit carry last.
-If she's hardcore I play along, she can handle the aftermath.
-If i get to find out that she's bisexual, I dey game die (na collateral damage be that).
-If she's a nice little princess, I just tell her straight up that I don't love her but in a friendly manner so that she doesn't feel rejected. BUT
if she insists on "the Love can be cultivated speech" I play along. I don't reject any good offer!
-If she's a first timer Omo I dey run can't afford the risk of chewing gumming.

lorretta u: Does it irritate you?
Do you feel pity for her?
Does her attention annoy you? I know this is one of the many reasons why many ladies don't approach men of their dreams.sometimes we prefer to die in silence.some say the rejection hurts too much.some say that unlike a woman whom you can woo and win her love,there's nothing you can do to make a man who doesn't love you begin to do so.
Personally,I'd like to know what goes on in the minds of men when a woman is giving then unwanted love.
Your contributions please.
Yours truly
Lorretta U

Irritated because they over-do things to please you which makes them appear more and more like a clown

the truth is gradually coming out. no guy go see awoof tidy say him no want.

Well you guys thanks for being honest.
I guess the ladies will keep on doing what we know how to do best.
Hide our feelings even if it kills us

Truckpusher: Irritated because they over-do things to please you which makes them appear more and more like a clown

I guess that's right

yuzedo:


LOL @ expecting honest answers, nne.

I like the honest answer.at least it will keep us from making colossal mistakes.

I feel pity for them,and sometimes pretend to love them them,just for the sake of it

firetrap: the truth is gradually coming out. no guy go see awoof tidy say him no want.

There are still principled guys around. What's τ̲̅ȍ be gained from d awoof punny Gold or diamond