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Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by tRoOE(f): 4:47am On Oct 09, 2008
[size=13pt]You can not change my opinion regarding how i feel towards these so called cultist, i know what my friends & love ones went through, even to the extent of living the school or the beating my childhood got, just becos he declined their membership.[/size]
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by Joseph6(m): 4:51am On Oct 09, 2008
cultist as a lova? next thing u know u're Satan's mistress
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by carnal: 10:37am On Oct 09, 2008
@troee,like sillyboy mentioned cultism differs and i will advise you do your research again about pyrate ,we will never beat anyone to join us nor kill anyone, i am a proud pyrate member even though i left school since 1999, i shall still rmeain one for life.

@sillyboy,make you leave all this lobbers alone,wetin be your achor and how is your farm?
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 11:59pm On Oct 09, 2008
@ trooe.

What can I say about the unfortunate experiences some of your loved ones gat. But like i said, association differs and I wouldnt lie about the fact that some conf. are so irresponsible and "thugish". But we have the respected ones that wouldnt just take anybody. As a matter of fact, you will never be a seadog if you are not refined and have the ability to control your behaviours, attitudes and emotions.

Was it last year that some donations was made to the motherless babies home in Nigeria and it was published. My dad is a pyrate and he joined at Ife in the 70's and he got married to my mum. She knows and they still live together *(over 30 yrs.) up till now. If I must say, they are the best parents in the world to me.

Like I said, am not making case for anybody, am just trying to let you know that it's individual' decision either to be evil of good.

@ Carnal.

Please buzz me on YIM.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 12:09am On Oct 10, 2008
sillyboy:

@ Plus_Queen

A times some people like you can be so dumb!. . . the fact that am a cultist doesnt prove that I killed anybody. So what blood are you talking about?

For your information, not all cult go about killing people or harming others. Some are strong networks and even does publications n national dailies for their AGM.

Am a respected Pyrate and am proud of me. Get some knowlege before you "shoot" dear

If this were true, you'd say you were part of a Fraternity, not a "cult". There are no "positive cults"
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by arramyjay: 12:11am On Oct 10, 2008
carnal:

@troee,like sillyboy mentioned cultism differs and i will advise you do your research again about pyrate ,we will never beat anyone to join us nor kill anyone, i am a proud pyrate member even though i left school since 1999, i shall still rmeain one for life.

@sillyboy,make you leave all this lobbers alone,wetin be your achor and how is your farm?

shocked
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by savanaha: 12:14am On Oct 10, 2008
sillyboy:

@ Plus_Queen

A times some people like you can be so dumb!. . . . So what blood are you talking about?
the fact that am a cultist doesnt prove that I killed anybody
For your information, not all cult go about killing people or harming others. Some are strong networks and even does publications n national dailies for their AGM.

Am a respected Pyrate and am proud of me. Get some knowlege before you "shoot" dear

hmm. Like someone already said maybe you are confusing cultism with frats. All in all cults are bad in any term or language. Their is not positive way of say cults.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 12:15am On Oct 10, 2008
As you can see his s/n fits
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 12:22am On Oct 10, 2008
@ Karmamod.

Am in no fit. I know exactly what am saying. When most people refer to cultism in Nigeria, they lump everything up. And moreover, what's the big difference in the english meaning of cult and a fraternity?. . Non is evil, but the two points to association of people who share the same beliefs and "devotion"
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by Okijajuju1(m): 12:25am On Oct 10, 2008
I would first of all like to say that not all cultists are killers.
Now, I schooled in Naija for a year before I left, and in that period, I noticed that the ladies liked liked cultists for different reasons.
Some are attracted to the danger.
Some are in it for protection. I remember a girl who used to hang with us because she felt protected. (Not that I say I am a member of any fraternity o!).
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 12:30am On Oct 10, 2008
Cults is a word used to describe NEGATIVE associations.

There's a huge difference between that and fraternity.

Cant believe someone would go around claiming "oh I was in a good cult"
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by savanaha: 12:35am On Oct 10, 2008
sillyboy:



Am in no fit. I know exactly what am saying. [b]When most people refer to cultism in Nigeria, they lump everything up. [/b]And moreover, what's the big difference in the english meaning of cult and a fraternity?. . Non is evil, but the two points to association of people who share the same beliefs and "devotion"

this is not only in Nigeria, anywhere you go and say you are in a cult people will look at yo weird. Remember a few years back when so people in a cult in America drank poison and all died, they were in a cult. My school has frats and all they do is drink and thorw parties. No I understand America and Nigeria is different but no one thinks it a big deal to be in a frat but say your a member of a frat and everyone will label you the lunatic. Infact google frat and cults and see if you get the same thing.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by Okijajuju1(m): 12:38am On Oct 10, 2008
KarmaMod:

Cults is a word used to describe NEGATIVE associations.
There's a huge difference between that and fraternity.

can't believe someone would go around claiming "oh I was in a good cult"

Now let me correct that impression.

cult [kult]
(plural cults)
noun
1. religion: a system of religious or spiritual beliefs, especially an informal and transient belief system regarded by others as misguided, unorthodox, extremist, or false, and directed by a charismatic, authoritarian leader
2. religious group: a group of people who share religious or spiritual beliefs, especially beliefs regarded by others as misguided, unorthodox, extremist, or false
3. idolization of somebody or something: an extreme or excessive admiration for a person, philosophy of life, or activity (often used before a noun)
the cult of youth
a cult hero

4. object of idolization: a person, philosophy, or activity regarded with extreme or excessive admiration
5. fad: something popular or fashionable among a devoted group of enthusiasts (often used before a noun)
has taken on cult status

6. cultural anthropology system of supernatural beliefs: a body of organized practices and beliefs supposed to involve interaction with and control over supernatural powers
7. sociology elite group: a self-identified group of people who share a narrowly defined interest or perspective

Microsoft® Encarta® 2007. © 1993-2006 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.

Now it depends on which definition you pick.

I have seen some really cool frat members. No violence no nothing.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 12:40am On Oct 10, 2008
@ Karmamod

Cults  is a word used to describe NEGATIVE associations.

Just like some religious association and social associations are described as negative ones too because of their names. Or just like some part of Igbo in Nigeria will describe Osus as an outcast and some Yorubas will describe Ijebus as been fetish and stingy because they are Ijebus?

Common, it seems you are not getting my point. I am saying it's quite wrong to label someone because of his social network or ubringing. It should be an individual assessment thing.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 12:42am On Oct 10, 2008
Dude you are the one that is labelling yourself with an awful title.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 12:44am On Oct 10, 2008
Okija_juju:

I have seen some really cool frat members. No violence no nothing.

Maybe, just MAYBE it's because they belong to a frat and NOT a cult

Think it's a coincidence that "unorthodox" is in just about every definition of cult that you posted.

No sane person goes around claiming to have been in a cult. Say that here and see if they don't rush you to an asylum
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 12:55am On Oct 10, 2008
@ Karmamod

undecided. . . .I understand and respect your opinion perfectly even if you don't understand me.

From my ring-corner, a towel just got into the ring.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 12:57am On Oct 10, 2008
I Win!
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by Okijajuju1(m): 12:59am On Oct 10, 2008
KarmaMod:

I Win!

We are talking about cults FFS. You were bound to win in the end. tongue
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 1:03am On Oct 10, 2008
@ Karmamod

Common, I only made you to have that feeling of winning cheesy. .it's okay with me for you to have that feeling.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 1:03am On Oct 10, 2008
sharrap ova there. amazon lover

Where;s my medal  grin
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 1:04am On Oct 10, 2008
Im not the one calling myself a "cultist", sillyboy

I dont need you to tell me Im the victor

Now where are my spoils cheesy
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 1:18am On Oct 10, 2008
@ Karmamod.

Check your door step, a fedex guy is right at your door with your medals and all the spoils.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 1:20am On Oct 10, 2008
Ok. Brb. cheesy
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 1:27am On Oct 10, 2008
Gat it?, . . . . . . you sure deserve the bronze medal for your efforts. grin

Okija juju gat the silver. . . . .

and as always, Silly has got the Plat-Gold. cool
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by Okijajuju1(m): 1:51am On Oct 10, 2008
only silver? angry

I demand a re-count abi na vote.
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by tRoOE(f): 1:52am On Oct 10, 2008
[size=13pt] @Sillyboy
Don't get me wrong ohhhhhh, am sure there are good cult members out there (maybe the older generation), but the youth of nowadays have turn the cult into something else.
I know some of cult guys, that re good, intelligent and down to earth, and have also accomplish sumthing in life, but majority of the cultists re just nuisances to our environment.
since ur fraternity re donating money, i won't mind if ur can fund my party this xmas
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Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 1:53am On Oct 10, 2008
Who wnat that your Oshodi gold that will make my skin turn green.] Im fine with my spoils o
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 2:10am On Oct 10, 2008
@ Trooe.

Good you see what I was drivn at. Am not trying to brag here, but most o my colleagues did brilliantly well while in school and after school was fantastic in terms of appointments before I moved here.

Concerning your party, am sorry you will have to seek for sponsors who will use the party to advertise their services or products. We only get involve in humanitarian activities for the less priviledged and not "belleful" people like you guys. You guys have thats why you are throwing a party.

@ Karmamod.

How do you know it is an Oshodi gold that makes your skin green?. . . and this your sentence
Who wnat that your Oshodi gold that will make my skin turn green.] I'm fine with my spoils o


Suggests that you are either you are use to it or you used it earlier undecided
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by KarmaMod(f): 2:28am On Oct 10, 2008
*sighs*
Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by tRoOE(f): 2:29am On Oct 10, 2008
[size=13pt]I thought u were bragging about at 1st until i read ur other commens 2day
lol i was just pulling ur leg about the part
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Re: Can You Have A Cultist As A Lover by sillyboy(m): 2:36am On Oct 10, 2008
@Karmamod.

Sacarsm, me,. . . hell no. Am just trying to bring your attention to how people could interprete your statements. I used a gold necklace worse than Oshodi gold in Secondary school, and girs thought it was cute then. Lol.

@ Trooe.

I knew you were kidding, else you will have to post your contacts on NL if u were serious.

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