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Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by chi2012(f): 6:59pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Just when I thought I found a nice man who is so in love with me' who isn't so keen abt sex' ready to wait after marriage. Just few dayz after meeting his mother and family. I learn the bitter truth. He masturbates to keep himself satisfied... I don't feel so safe with this' and he says he would stop. But I m still worried. Is dis normal of young men? What do I do? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by ijeoma100: 7:05pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012: Just when I thought I found a nice man who is so in love with me' who isn't so keen abt sex' ready to wait after marriage. Just few dayz after meeting his mother and family. I learn the bitter truth. He masturbates to keep himself satisfied... I don't feel so safe with this' and he says he would stop. But I m still worried. Is dis normal of young men? What do I do? Ask yourself why he self services...then ask yourself if you're giving him sexual satisfaction. Anyway would you prefer him to have sex with someone else or to masturbate? 10 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by firetrap(m): 7:30pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
if you have regular sex with a guy I see no reason why the man would prefer his hands to the velvety interiors of ur cervix. a man who is accustomed to having regular sex will find an alternate means of satisfying his cravings when his needs are not being met. its either he masturbates or he has sex with other women or even prostitutes. so which would u prefer 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by StPete: 7:37pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012: Just when I thought I found a nice man who is so in love with me' who isn't so keen abt sex' ready to wait after marriage. Just few dayz after meeting his mother and family. I learn the bitter truth. He masturbates to keep himself satisfied... I don't feel so safe with this' and he says he would stop. But I m still worried. Is dis normal of young men? What do I do? You should be extremely grateful that ur man masturbates cos that goes to show in a large way that he may not be cheating on u. If u have told him no sex before marriage, how else do u want him to satisfy his urges or do u think its easy for a man to 'lock up' as much as a woman? Allow the guy self-service his rod while he awaits ur puny on the d-day 13 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by chi2012(f): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
St_Pete: U are right dear. But I still feel its not worth it. This habit has its own side effects! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Vivly(f): 8:05pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012:seriously? Wetin u dey fear, tell us. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Babe wetin be ur own self, nyansh u no wan give am, ok him no dey disturb dey help himself, na war, if him reason another woman na break up. Relax n marry the dude so u can help each other. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Boss13: 8:07pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Women and their plenty wahala. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by MaziOmenuko: 8:21pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012: @bolded, you are absolutely right and you should be alarmed. His actions reduces libido (men's sexual drive) and once he's used to jerking off with his hands, it might lead to erectile disfunction and untimely ejaculation. Its a psych thing, once his d!ckk get used to getting erect once his fingers itches, it may be difficult for it to get erect when he's with you. Do I have a solution? No! 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by chi2012(f): 8:38pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Mazi_Omenuko: Ooh my God!!! this is one of my fears. Worst thing is he is addictied to this cos he prefers to be alone most times than hanging out with friends. I m not so sure I can put up with this!!! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Ucheosefoh(m): 8:46pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012:Then help him out by giving him hand job or mouth action cus body no be fire wood 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by MaziOmenuko: 8:50pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Ucheosefoh: Then help him out by giving him hand job or mouth action cus body no be fire wood You don't know a thing about habits. They are breed at the comfort of your closet but can't be ostracized therein. OP, I wish I have a plausible solution to your dilemma. You'd be surprised he'll prefer his hands even when you strip naked in his presence. Just dot your 'I's' and cross your 'tee's' |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by EejaNla01(m): 8:56pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Op,you need to help him out! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by chi2012(f): 9:09pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Eeja Nla01: Op,you need to help him out! How else would I help him nah? I have decided to put into prayer and probably talk to his a mum about it. Since he travels a lot, his defence is' do I prefer him sleeping wit a girl or does he stick to his habit? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 9:25pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Mazi_Omenuko: maaaaaaaaaziiii You already know what you want to say no need to run reverse psych on her just say it BTW how is ugly ? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by MaziOmenuko: 10:10pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012: Put him in prayers; nice. Talk to his mum; disaster waiting to happen. You don't wanna do that, trust me. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by MaziOmenuko: 10:16pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Imanuelle: And that would be Imanuelle: I just did. Imanuelle: Dunno. Probably sipping his alomo bitters and pounding the next chic he comes across with. How is the big house? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by OCTAVO: 10:37pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Front page pls!!! She needs good advice. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by tellwisdom: 10:56pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Please, what is self service?? He works for himself?? Where?? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by nelie(m): 11:05pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
ijeoma100: Ur so on point. Kudos brov!!! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by OCTAVO: 11:14pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
tellwisdom: Please, what is self service?? He works for himself?? Where??This place is meant for adults. Go back to bed... 9 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by simpleseyi: 11:51pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012: He is not begging you to marry him, so, continue with your search, you may be lucky to find a rich Alhaji and become wife number six. NONSENSE, if the guy cheats, you scream, now he is self-servicing, you are still whining. Go to the net, there is no side effect and no effect on the side of self-servicing, just you ladies psychologically implied effects. 9 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by RoyalRoy(m): 11:59pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
chi2012: At the bolded, Are you serious at all? Tell his mum that what? How old are you? Like 15? Don't even think of it not to talk of trying it. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by pendusky(m): 4:48am On Sep 06, 2013 |
OCTAVO: Front page pls!!!front page for wat |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by StPete: 5:02am On Sep 06, 2013 |
simpleseyi: Brilliant, especially the bolded. Where in the world do people come up with this side effects of masturbation?SMH Its so funny that 97% of people have or still masturbate while the remaining 3% are not telling the truth. Na who una dey deceive? 8 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Exponental(m): 6:07am On Sep 06, 2013 |
@op, As d case is, he has 3 options. Masturbate, cheat on u or u give him d satisfaction he desires. Pls choose for him. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by skedy1(m): 6:19am On Sep 06, 2013 |
tell his mum? I c say bomb de ur head! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by chi2012(f): 6:31am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Thank U all for ur advice' I guess its entirely up to me. @ Mazi' U r the best. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by EejaNla01(m): 7:09am On Sep 06, 2013 |
chi2012: Thank U all for ur advice' I guess its entirely up to me. @ Mazi' U r the best. Its like you don't know how a man's body function on this matter, its up to you o, don't punish him and never tell his mum You can even help him with your hand |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Ucheosefoh(m): 7:23am On Sep 06, 2013 |
op sound so childish to me give am punny she no gree, give am bj or hand job she no gree, leave am make anoda gal help am out she no gree, leave am make he self service she de hala @op wetin be ur own sef nawa oh u wan tell his mother say her son de self service u are not mentally mature for marriage BTW how old are u 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by stylesco: 7:25am On Sep 06, 2013 |
I know a guy like that. His own side effect is that a woman never satisfies him. He can last for a very long time and not come until he self service. Dunno what to say to you though. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 7:26am On Sep 06, 2013 |
@op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself. I will help you pray! |
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