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Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by firetrap(m): 7:47am On Sep 06, 2013 |
nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself. why not tell her to take a megaphone and go from street to street announcing it to the whole world. you're giving an advice that you would not take if it was given to you. op e be like say to be aunty gbegbegbe dey hungry you. u go dey there dey form say masturbation no good and another lady that doesn't feel as strongly as u will even help ur man to be milking himself. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by azpekuliar: 7:48am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Mazi_Omenuko: Absolute lies from the pits of hell! I wonder why people who have never ever mas2urbated before, come here and begin to peddle myths about mas2urbation passing them as truth. WTF! I challenge you to post a single credible medi-journal link supporting your claim. Mas2urbation has no known side-effects. Absolutely none! 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 7:53am On Sep 06, 2013 |
firetrap:Megaphone? That's wicked now... Abeg that's my opinion and I prefer it to be a family affair. @op we need to make your bf stop whatsoever he is doing, God is not happy about the trend pls dnt ignore the advice. Signs of endtime indeed |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by carlos1(m): 8:06am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Exponental: @op, As d case is, he has 3 options. Sorry! Its actually four options, Masturbate, cheat on u, give him d satisfaction he desires or break up and let him be 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by ijeoma100: 8:41am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Mazi_Omenuko: Complete nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Penssuwa(m): 8:43am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Making it a family affair is like jumping frm frying pan into fire. This issue is too sensitive to be discussed by d parents. If I'm in his shoes, u'll remain my arch enemy till death if u dare tell my parents. Since he is bold enough to tell u, y dnt u discuss it with him & sought out solution together. What r u there for if u cnt help? BTW, are u under 15? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by ijeoma100: 8:47am On Sep 06, 2013 |
nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself. Is this the worst piece of advice EVER to be offered on Nairaland? Where in the Bible does it say masturbation is devilish? What has a pastor got to do with anything? Telling his whole family that he self services will achieve what? And to the OP - what exactly is your own issue with your boyfriend masturbating? What exactly are your own ideas about it all and what harm do you think he might be causing? 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by EejaNla01(m): 8:53am On Sep 06, 2013 |
I blame the guy for telling her in the first place. Some women fit kill person! 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 8:53am On Sep 06, 2013 |
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Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by patrkq(m): 9:28am On Sep 06, 2013 |
nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself.stfu.. Am sure u dnt hav a bf... If u mistakenly hav he's just decievin u.. Tell his pastor?! Why not invite d govenor nd LGA chairman... Arrant rawbitch 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Princesszoe: 9:38am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Exponental: @op, As d case is, he has 3 options.Amongst the 3 options, where do we place abstinence? Or should we add abstinence as option no.4? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by dmcdad: 9:48am On Sep 06, 2013 |
tellwisdom: Please, what is self service?? He works for himself?? Where??No! He does his church service in his house rather than go to the church. Abi I no get am? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Mrniceguyjohn(m): 10:10am On Sep 06, 2013 |
,.......u dnt wanna give him pussy to Bleep..then live him let him satisfy his sef since u cnt giv him wat he want............. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by udemzyudex(m): 10:39am On Sep 06, 2013 |
chi2012: Just when I thought I found a nice man who is so in love with me' who isn't so keen abt sex' ready to wait after marriage. Just few dayz after meeting his mother and family. I learn the bitter truth. He masturbates to keep himself satisfied... I don't feel so safe with this' and he says he would stop. But I m still worried. Is dis normal of young men? What do I do?I always tell girls that there is no guy that will date without asking for sex. .if he doesn't ask then it's because he is shy or he self service. himself.. my own advice. . he should avoid staying in a lonely place when ever the urge arise. delete all porn video and pictures ask him if he is ready to stop the act |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 10:52am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Even though most people aren’t raised with myths like “masturbation will make you go blind” anymore, few men and women are raised with a sense that masturbation is actually good for them. But it is! Here’s why: 1. Masturbation is a great way to learn to pleasure yourself. This is true for both men and women. Once you learn how you like to be touched, you can show or tell your partner(s) for ultimate mutual pleasure. Ask her how she likes to be touched, too. Maybe you can even show each other at the same time. 2. It can help you to fall asleep. The relaxation that masturbation – and sex – provide is unbeatable just before sleep. Considering how important sleep is to cognitive function and a positive mood, take one for the team and masturbate before bed. 3. Frequent masturbation in early adulthood is linked with a lower risk of prostate cancer later on. Whether you masturbate or have partnered sex often, there seems to be some benefit to clearing out the pipes at least a few times per week. And if you do it more often, good for you! Unless you’re causing yourself pain or discomfort or you’re turning down work and social opportunities to stay home and self-pleasure, there’s no harm in masturbating every day, if you feel like it (or several times per day). 4. It helps you play it cool. Like in Something About Mary, some men find that masturbating before a date can help them to feel more calm and comfortable when they’re out with someone they like. Masturbation is certainly known to be a great tension reliever. Read more at Men's Health: http://blogs.menshealth.com/sex-professor/4-reasons-why-masturbation-is-good-for-you/2010/08/15/#ixzz2e6Zj2Dt6 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 10:53am On Sep 06, 2013 |
@op,if say u fine,i for comment but because you no fine...i reserve my comment. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Trippledots(m): 11:25am On Sep 06, 2013 |
@op..i really think ua selfish. you seem to just be concerend about yourself; You want a man who isnt keen on sex, you've found one who self services and you are scared of what effects it can have later, you dont think you can cope with such behaviour......true love, my dear, is mutual. If u get to knw of a therapy he can follow but it will need him becoming sexually intimate with someone, will you b ready to 'sacrificially' oblige him?? Inasmuch as i dont preach sex outside the 'ring', lets learn to put others before ourselves sometimes. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Princesszoe: 11:29am On Sep 06, 2013 |
udemzy_udex:wrong! There are guys who don't ask nor self service because they have fear of God. Aside fear of God, comes strong moral principle. In some ocasions, is the women that initiate sexx. Discipline also plays important role here. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by deor03(m): 11:42am On Sep 06, 2013 |
@ OP, You're a lucky girl. You have 4 options 1. Allow him to yansh outside until your marriage ( with attendat risk of STD, pregancy and HIV) 2. Yansh him yourself ( with the risk of crossing the line with your conscience and GOD) 3. Give him a blów jób , hand jób or Tit-Bleep ( No line crossed here IMO) 4. Allow the guy to do his thing by mástürbate ( No line crossed here either If the guy is sexually active, he will have the urge and he has to cüm |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by udemzyudex(m): 11:44am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Princess zoe: wrong! There are guys who don't ask nor self service because they have fear of God. Aside fear of God, comes strong moral principle. In some ocasions, is the women that initiate sexx. Discipline also plays important role here.even the men of God do fornicate.. men are the carriers of life.. .lol when you are not in the mood that thing will be in the mood.. . for the side of discipline, all guys are not the same.. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 11:54am On Sep 06, 2013 |
Princess zoe: wrong! There are guys who don't ask nor self service because they have fear of God. Aside fear of God, comes strong moral principle. In some ocasions, is the women that initiate sexx. Discipline also plays important role here. So d guys dat self service, do not have d fear of God, abi? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by medidress: 12:57pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Educational Guide Frequent masturbation and ejaculation stimulate acetylcholine/ parasympathetic nervous functions. Excessive stimulation can result in over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters such as acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin. Abundant and unusually large amount of these hormones and neurotransmitters can cause the brain and adrenal glands to perform excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion and turn the brain and body functions to be extremely sympathetic. In other words, there is a big change of body chemistry when one excessively masturbates. Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Like other behaviors, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances. The side effects of such changes to the body include: Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time Lower back pain Thinning hair / Hair Loss Soft / Weak Erection Premature Ejaculation Eye floaters or fuzzy vision Groin / Testicular Pain Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone Masturbation plays a big role in a normal sex life. Some of us discover it as children because it starts to feel so good between our legs. Others are shown by our friends. We continue to masturbate because it feels so good. It gets us ready for mature sexual relationships when we reach adulthood, and it helps us take care of those raging hormonal urges and surges when we are teenagers. Masturbation can enhance mature sexual relationships where two partners use it either as a prelude to other sexual activity, or as the main fare. And it keeps us going when relationships falter, such as when a partner is ill or away. It is a great equalizer in a relationship where one partner needs more sexual activity than the other. How much is too much masturbation? That depends but it's suggested men keep their ejaculation frequency down to 2-3 times a week. However, sexual activity can be experienced more often if men learn how to orgasm without ejaculation. Doing so can actually store bioenergy into your system and make your penis firmer, your erections last longer, and your ejaculate volume bigger. Masturbation is a part of life and our sexual practices. In fact, most doctors recommend it, not only to improve sexual experiences but to also promote good general health. However, like most things in life, too much of a good thing can be bad. Excessive masturbation can lead to symptoms like stress, fatigue, and memory loss. In extreme cases, sufferers fall into the pitfalls of impotence and hair loss. Under most circumstances, masturbation is neither good nor bad One recently published study reported that 87% of women and 95% of men have practiced masturbation—but when done to extreme, it causes drastic changes in brain and body chemistry. Masturbating too much can over-stimulate acetylcholine/ parasympathetic nervous functions and disrupt the liver’s release of enzymes that synthesize neurotransmitters acetylcholine, dopamine, and serotonin. Additionally, the liver’s ability to release enzymes that aid in hormone production is affected. As a result, the brain and adrenal glands produce too much dopamine, norepinephrine, epinephrine, and other hormones and neural transmitters. Symptoms (also called Sexual Exhaustion) is distressing liver and nervous system functions, include youthful impotence/erectile dysfunction (including a soft or weak erection) and seminal leakage. While more than 30% of men have experienced impotence at one time or another, impotence in youth is more rare and can often be attributed to the above factors. Over-masturbation can also cause problems such as seminal leakage, which can cause sperm to ooze or leak out of the penis with no accompanying erection. Both semen leakage and youthful impotence are embarrassing, uncomfortable, and signs of Sexual Exhaustion. Semen leakage is a sign that the parasympathetic nerve, which keeps the ejaculation valve shut and holds the erection, is weakening as a result of over-masturbation. With a weakened nerve, maintaining an erection is a problem. Get Rid From The Addictive Behavior? The first step to getting better is to reduce masturbation and ejaculation frequency and try to overcome this bad habit. Eat more soybean products and eliminating excessive caffeine from your diet. Focus on nutty foods like sunflower seeds, and peanuts and eat more sea foods, seaweed, vegetables, and try to minimize red meat and dairy product intake. Instead of soda, try drinking orange juice or cranberry juice and, of course, drink plenty of water. We have developed Kohinoor Gold in order to combat sexual exhaustion and reverse the effects that over-masturbation has on your body. Feel your erections become more firm and more engorged, you will be able to last longer, feel less pain in the prostate and testicles, and feel more alert and energized. YOU MUST BE A LUCKY GIRL |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Iaz93: 2:01pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
chi2012:I'll just assume you're joking. The guy go soooo hate you ehn! How do you even want to say it? Damn!! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by ITbomb(m): 2:10pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself.Design a billboard Why dont you give the poor guy a head and keep the punny for wedding day. You get luck 80% of normal guys who choose not to have sex before marriage are either getting it elsewhere or doing it themselves. You are lucky to find out that yours do it by himself. . If a guy say he his not interested in sex until wedding, you stand a great risk of a regrettable married life |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by MaziOmenuko: 2:16pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
medidress: Educational Guide When I mentioned the bolded as negative side effects of masturbation, people wanted to tear my neck. What we elders see while sitting down, kids will never see even when they climb the iroko. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 2:56pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
chi2012: E=MC SQUARED complex problem solved with simple equation PYTHAGORAS THEOREM= HYPOTHENUS2=L2+B2 WHAT WOMEN WANT=34X+RT4+RTY34+100000000000000(234TTT*4511111111111111111111111111111111111!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EXPONENTIAL) +45XY RAISED TO POWER 40+45(1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000LOG56)+10000.56 ANSWER = ? allow the guy w4nk abeg !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 2:56pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself. devilish act?...hahaha....why do you think Vaseline is the fastest selling item in boys only hostels......you no know anything |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Nobody: 5:29pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Boss13: Women and their plenty wahala.dis particular woman walaha nor be small. She is very very confused. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Emaprince: 5:38pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
No sex before marriage..hope you are still a virgin? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Princesszoe: 6:23pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
udemzy_udex:I know that mindset. There is a saying that the national anthem of hell fire is "every body is doing it". You better reject that mindset and build a discipline life style. Good and discipline men are every where . The issue is that you have been attracting your likes and your ears hear negative stories about your likes. Everybody (man and woman) do have the urge but some men hardly control their urge, likewise some women. The urge is normal and do occur in every human except if one has medical issues. God gives life to everybody. I don't understand your logic of men are the carriers of life. Please start working towards leaving a discipline life, it works , some men are very discipline to the core. Your choice. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Princesszoe: 6:24pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
udemzy_udex: |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Masturbates by Princesszoe: 6:32pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
austushi1:This type of question always appear null and void to me because of knowledge gap. Get the meaning of one having the fear of God first, then you will possibly get your answer without doubt. |
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