Ihedinobi:

Stars in? Look who's talking.

Lol @ growing older and getting reaponsibilities. Na dat kind of love you wan give me? Dat one na long tin now na. Long-term with me is serious stuff o, yet to meet the woman that can handle me right now to say nothing of long-term. Of course, in the long term option, impromptu won't always be there. Spontaneity may not even always be practical then. Even creativity may not count as much as certainty and occurence at all.

Issue is what you go'n do for the niggie right frickin now!

Veeery flexible? Me likey! Very creative! Gaddem! This might actually work TDB = till daybreak, hon.

uj_sizzle: Ihedinobi and Ishilove sitting on the tree K.I.S.S.I.N.G

Ihedinobi:
That last part was the part I found difficult to accept for three years, that you could actually let go of something that means so much to you and start something new with someone else. But you can. And it need not take a full year to recover. If the break is because the other person is not as much into the relationship as you are, nothing would cure your heart except new love, no, not rebound, new real love.

Logicboy03: I am very picky with women. This has saved me a lot of problems. The thing is to first understand yourself and be like a man. Once a woman can see tht you are independent, serious with your goals and consistent, there is no problem. However, select a woman with goals or reasoning that is compatible with yours. You will know this during discussiions with her.

sanb: @Op; this is a question that’s been asked several times…. but it’s good guys need clarity on what women want…as a woman, I’ll give you some tips and I’m pretty sure other women would agree with me…..

·We need to feel that we can trust you and we need to know and feel that you can trust us as well;
·Make us feel good, as we want to experience a meaningful, emotionally and fulfilling life with you..i.e. make us feel that we're on common ground with you;
·Be your true self and don’t pretend; cos we have the instinct in us to smell pretense from afar;
·We know we like nagging; but be rest assured that we women hate to see a man nag; best believe we have some men who know how to nag more than even a woman;
·Give us your support..i.e…let us feel that you’re the first person we can turn to when we’re in need, without fear of lectures or disinterest from your side;
·When we hurt, we want you guys to listen and resist the urge to offer advice unless we ask for it…i.e. be considerate, thoughtful, and kind;
·Compliment us and mean it; cos that compliment goes a long way in making us feel good about ourselves;
·Try not to take us for granted, neither ignore us; cos it infuriates us;
·Show your joy in spending time with us; cos we need to feel that you appreciate doing so;
·Be our greatest supporter i.e. back us up 100% cos that’ll make us know that we can always count on you;
·Most of us never forget things; and if you’re angry with us my advice would be to walk away and take time to cool down, or you might say something you will regret;
·DON’T EVER TRY TO COMPARE US WITH OTHER WOMEN; COS WE’RE UNIQUE IN OUR INDIVIDUAL WAYS…(Purposely typed this in caps);
·Include us in your dreams and tell us about them; when you share your life with us, it make us feel part of you; and
·If you treat us the way we deserve to be treated i.e. by showing respect and valuing us; then be rest assured that it’d be reciprocated.

Lastly, note that a happy caring guy makes a happy caring woman….all the way….

Hope the above tips helps in your quest to know what we women want……from SANB’s perspective…

druid06:

What about what men want??

sanb: Lol; same applies....

druid06:

Why should it be what women want all the time. What about the dudes or don't we matter?

druid06:

Why should it be what women want all the time. What about the dudes or don't we matter?

lorretta u: Women want happiness.
And while yes money can make one's life on earth pleasant,it can't buy happiness.
I know that for sure now
I've seen rich men and poor ones too.
I've loved a dirt poor man and we were very happy while it lasted.
Of course maybe we'd have been even happier if we had all the comforts we needed then.but trust me if that money were to be in the pocket of another man then,I'd have gladly stuck to my man and his poverty.
What am I saying?
We women really do like money and luxury and since men discovered it,there are just a few who work to improve on themselves.they all believe "if I've money,I can have any woman"
So they only concentrate on making money at the detriment of other good qualities.and by the time they are done,they've only suceeded in turning themselves into the biblical rich fool
That money can't buy them love.it only buys them names such as
Mugu1.
We want a man who's world revolves around us.(Selfish?) Well yea. We don't ask for what we can't give in return.
A woman just wants to be loved. She wants to know that inspite of the fact that she's not as beautiful as beyonce,she's the most beautiful woman in your world.

Ishilove:
Lol. Ihedinobiiiiiii... Relax, your blood is hot. I be person pikin. You wan kill manpikin with this till day break talk

uj_sizzle: Ihedinobi and Ishilove sitting on the tree K.I.S.S.I.N.G

Ishilove: Well, I don't know about other women but I know what I want.

uj_sizzle:
Guys happen to be a bit more flexible I think

sanb: @Op; this is a question that’s been asked several times…. but it’s good guys need clarity on what women want and no doubt it's different stroke for different folks; but I’ll give you some tips and I’m pretty sure other women would agree with me…..

·We need to feel that we can trust you and we need to know and feel that you can trust us as well;
·Make us feel good, as we want to experience a meaningful, emotionally and fulfilling life with you..i.e. make us feel that we're on common ground with you;
·Be your true self and don’t pretend; cos we have the instinct in us to smell pretense from afar;
·We know we like nagging; but be rest assured that we women hate to see a man nag; best believe it, we have some men who know how to nag more than even a woman;
·Give us your support..i.e…let us feel that you’re the first person we can turn to when we’re in need, without fear of lectures or disinterest from your side;
·When we hurt, we want you guys to listen and resist the urge to offer advice unless we ask for it…i.e. be considerate, thoughtful, and kind;
·Compliment us and mean it; cos that compliment goes a long way in making us feel good about ourselves;
·Try not to take us for granted, neither ignore us; cos it infuriates us;
·Show your joy in spending time with us; cos we need to feel that you appreciate doing so;
·Be our greatest supporter i.e. back us up 100% cos that’ll make us know that we can always count on you;
·Most of us never forget things; and if you’re angry with us my advice would be to walk away and take time to cool down, or you might say something you will regret;
·DON’T EVER TRY TO COMPARE US WITH OTHER WOMEN; COS WE’RE UNIQUE IN OUR INDIVIDUAL WAYS…(Purposely typed this in caps and highlighted it as well);
·Include us in your dreams and tell us about them; when you share your life with us, it make us feel part of you; and
·If you treat us the way we deserve to be treated i.e. by showing respect and valuing us; then be rest assured that it’d be reciprocated.

Lastly, note that a happy caring guy makes a happy caring woman….all the way….

Hope the above tips helps in your quest to know what we women want……from SANB’s perspective...

Ihedinobi:

Good. I wondered when you'd realize it too Well, just holla when you've fixed up your bower for...

Ihedinobi:

Trees don't give you enough room to maneuver, you know. That's why I don't like kissing in them.

Ihedinobi:

Na you talk say you like dem strong and undiluted. The song never start your back don de pain you already

Ishilove:
Where do you like kissing, you naughty boy?

Ishilove:
For what...?

Ishilove:
Where do you like kissing, you naughty boy?

Ishilove:
Ihedinobiiii...no try me o. You go wound o

uj_sizzle:
Under the stairs

Ihedinobi:

See me and wahala abeg! Dem tell you say I de fear to wound?

Ihedinobi:

Who, not what, you silly girl

Ishilove:
Toh. No say I no warn you o

Ishilove:
For what AND who, you naughty boy