Am a married man with two kids,a girl and a boy,my baby girl is 1yr and six months while my boy is one month old now.i have a maid living with me and she is 8yrs.i discovered the she is fond of romancing her self when lying on her bed.after some weeks,i got a complain that she was caught with another maid having s.ex and bleeping them self.i later discover that she is fucking her self with her middle finger.my wife and i confronted her again and floged her for that act.then we asked her for how long has she been into that sinful act and she said that it started when she was 5yrs,her elder brother molested her several times and after then,she ma.sturbate every day till today.we where suprise when we asked her to show us how she use to do it.she put her middle finger very deep inside her kitty cat and f.uck her self.this girl has nothing stored in her memory.and always takes the 42nd position out of 43.she lacks manners and always like stealing her aunts make ups to make her self up.she is a chronic liar and bed wets all the time.she comes from a very poor family and they are 10 in number.pls i need matured advice on how to handle this case.i sense danger for my children.

8yrs? I'm speechless....

Its not a spiritual problem, its a pure psychological problem, she needs rehabilitation also, she's been molested what do u except, get a good doctor for her to help her through, and then pray, prayer solve all , but don't just pray, get a psychologist for her. Best of luck, however get rid of her b4 she influences ur kids

U hav a maid of 8yrs?

8 years old or maid for 8 years?

ayogabriel: Its not a spiritual problem, its a pure psychological problem, she needs rehabilitation also, she's been molested what do u except, get a good doctor for her to help her through, and then pray, prayer solve all , but don't just pray, get a psychologist for her. Best of luck, however get rid of her b4 she influences ur kids

we are pure christians,i took her to many prayer house and it still continued

Dyt: U hav a maid of 8yrs?

yes 8yrs

End Time Tinz

Mrs.Chima:
8 years old or maid for 8 years?

yes 8yrs.they are 10 in number and there father is not capable

mozonto: we are pure christians,i took her to many prayer house and it still continued

What's a pure Christian?

mozonto: yes 8yrs.they are 10 in number and there father is not capable

Hmmm. Masturbation is normal for young children and flogging her will not stop anything.

Give her activities that she enjoys and encourage her to seek counseling or talk to a specialist because she is dealing with being raped on her own at a young age

Secondly, why did you need to see how she masturbates? That's a pedophilic move and you should know better.

ETT..End Time Tinz...

mozonto: Am a married man with two kids,a girl and a boy,my baby girl is 1yr and six months while my boy is one month old now.i have a maid living with me and she is 8yrs.i discovered the she is fond of romancing her self when lying on her bed.after some weeks,i got a complain that she was caught with another maid having s.ex and bleeping them self.i later discover that she is fucking her self with her middle finger.my wife and i confronted her again and floged her for that act.then we asked her for how long has she been into that sinful act and she said that it started when she was 5yrs,her elder brother molested her several times and after then,she ma.sturbate every day till today.we where suprise when we asked her to show us how she use to do it.she put her middle finger very deep inside her kitty cat and f.uck her self.this girl has nothing stored in her memory.and always takes the 42nd position out of 43.she lacks manners and always like stealing her aunts make ups to make her self up.she is a chronic liar and bed wets all the time.she comes from a very poor family and they are 10 in number.pls i need matured advice on how to handle this case.i sense danger for my children.

...so u peepin when she playin with her sef?? ..Brother ..they need to cage u up for that..u Peterfile (nno oofeinse)

I know where this is headed... So does the OP...

Mrs.Chima:


Hmmm. Masturbation is normal for young children and flogging her will not stop anything.

Give her activities that she enjoys and encourage her to seek counseling or talk to a specialist because she is dealing with being raped on her own at a young age

Secondly, why did you need to see how she masturbates? That's a pedophilic move and you should know better.

we need to know if she really know what she did

uniqueval: I know where this is headed... So does the OP...

WHERE?

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mozonto: yes 8yrs

What are d things she does in d house?

having a maid of 8 years is an offence already, that is child labour. take the child to her parents and explain everything to them. she needs counselling and guidance from a psychologist since she was molested at a very tender age. God will take control.

wow!!! OP if this is true, I suggest you get that young girl psychological help ASAP, obviously she have a lot to deal with at her age... molested victims needs counselling which helps the healing process and also kids at her age are at school and not working as maids..... good luck

Dyt:

What are d things she does in d house?

washing plates and going on errands

She's in desperate need of psychological help, a part of her fragile mind has been altered. Your kids are in grave danger of being molested themselves if left with the child.

send the kid back to her family and help rehabilitate her from afar pls,the her elder brother must be dealt with,its even possible the other siblings in that family are also into d act too.


also shame on you for taking in an 8 year old, even if d parents are incapable.

Fabzgrace

Yes I'm following the thread, thanks for the mention, I've read up to date.

Didn't want to derail, so I'm acknowledging it here.

Mrs.Chima:

Secondly, why did you need to see how she masturbates? That's a pedophilic move and you should know better.

I wonder.

First of all, your children are in danger. Dont be surprise if she is fiddling with the little boy's dick.
Send her home but continue to support her to school as long as you are able and willing.

She has been doing it for 3 years everyday, so one day flogging will not clear the addiction. Remember it is an addiction ( an urge) not something you decide to do or decide to stop.

Imanuelle: Bunch of Pharisees trying to condemn the OP

should she be left to Starve with her family?

Or did he say she doesn't go to school?

Why not advice him on how to help the girl instead of shaming him

Or did he ever send her to hawk bananas ?







@OP
Please return her to her family and explain the issue at hand
Don't think taking her for deliverance will ever end it as it's not spiritual but a thing of the mind
Ignore the hypocrites

Good post, I like it I second it

mozonto: i have a maid living with me and she is 8yrs.......we where suprise when we asked her to show us how she use to do it.she put her middle finger very deep inside her kitty cat and f.uck her self.pls i need matured advice on how to handle this case.i sense danger for my children.

Sincerely Op, you should channel your energy to fix your self and your wife. You both engage in child slavery and told an 8 year old girl to "show you" while you watched! I doubt if you have any sense of morality.

Pls send the young girl back to her parents cos you might not be able to handle the situation and trust me when it becomes tough the parents and village people's reaction will shock you. Some will even accuse you of using her for rituals.

Well, since you need someone to tell you the obvious, take her back to her family. End of discussion.

If u stop looking at her as a 'maid' you & ur wife might just be what d girl needs to become a better woman tomorrow than sending her back to d origin of her problems. She might just surprise u who she turns out to be 20yrs from now.

If you both decide she can be ur daughter and given (almost) same emotional care, attention and attachment she needs. Offer her a better life.

In fact, I don change my mind, send her packing before d cancer spreads

Poster, acording to u;
U saw ur maid f**ingering herself,
She was caught doing it with another gal,
U saw her again,
She is a dumb skull,
She came from a poor background,
And the rest........

My questions r thus;
How did u manage to se her fi*ngering herself?
Not once?
Why did u and ur wife tell her to demonstrate her s*exual act to u?
Will u tell ur own daughter to do such before u.
U said u hv seen her doing it, why tell her to examplify it?
A child of 8 yrs?
Now u r afraid for ur kids?
U r seeking for help,abi?

Listen, for that single act alone, u ought to be jailed.I'm not talking about her age yet.
This is d highest form of child abuse I've seen on nairaland.
And ur wife, a woman was with u watching a gal ma**stbatin herself?
What point do u want to prove by telling her to do it?
A child?
Lord have mercy!!!

U want to help her cos ur children are in danger right?

I don't think I hv any other thing to say for now.
This is giving me headache already.