Hello guys...so I met a lady some weeks back but been too busy to attend to her calls.Over the weekend,she came over to my place and she said she was interested in couple of services i provide (Training and the Likes) . But our conversation went personal and we discussed about my relationships and she told me how she was raped by five guys while in the University. Towards evening,she left my House to get something she needed and while she was leaving,she saw my landlord and they exchanged greetings and told him she came to see me. She returned to my House around 6 pm and she told me she that she was introduced to my landlord by some of her friends that that were into runs while she was in University but that she didn't do anything with him. I believed her because i didn't even care if she had done anything simply because i wasn't interested in anything. But to my surprised,when i saw her off,while coming back,my landlord replied me with this cold greeting. (He knows my Fiancee).So i had to call this girl to beg her to tell me the truth of what really happened between them. She then said she had an affair with him and it was only ones. Now,My this man is always claiming to be a perfect family man (Chore Church Man) and has warned me in the past about bringing all kind of girls home.

On Before now,i have a good relationship with the man,and i don't want anything to mess that up. I have made up my mind i will never let that lady step into my compound again.
Do you guys think i will have further problem with this man? How do i correct every wrong impression he might be thinking i am having about me?


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UNIXLover: Hello guys...so I met a lady some weeks back but been too busy to attend to her calls.Over the weekend,she came over to my place and she said she was interested in couple of services i provide (Training and the Likes) . But over conversation went personal and we discussed about my relationships and she told me how she was raped by five guys while in the University. Towards evening,she left my House to get something she needed and while she was leaving,she saw my landlord and they exchanged greetings and told him she came to see me. She returned to my House around 6 pm and she told me she that she was introduced to my landlord by some of her friends that that were into runs while she was in University but that she didn't do anything with him. I believed her because i didn't even care if she had done anything simply because i wasn't interested in anything. But to my surprised,when i saw her off,while coming back,my landlord was replied me with this cold greeting. (He knows my Fiancee).So i had to call this girl to beg her to tell me the truth of what really happened between them. She then said she had an affair with him and it was only ones. Now,My this man is always claiming to be a perfect family man and has warned me in the past about bringing all kind of girls home.

On Before now,i have a good relationship with the man,and i don't want anything to mess that up. I have made up my mind i will never let that lady step into my compound again.
Do you guys think i will have further problem with this man? How do i correct every wrong impression he might be thinking i am having about me?


Thanks

I think the one who has issues is your landlord and not the lady. So creating emnity with her would not be worth it.

what am saying is,i dont want to have issue with my Landlord. Am worried that he might be thinking that lady told me about that affair and i dont want that to affect my relationship with the man..

Phranciz:

I think the one who has issues is your landlord and not the lady. So creating emnity with her would not be worth it.

Plz ds should be in d sexuality section dont spoil d li2 mindsminds

a repentant runz girl.... bro, you deserve better

you dont get bro,am not even interested. am only concern about my relationship with my Landlord. The man has created a good perception of himself to me and he always claim to be a strong Church Man. I have told the girl not to come to my House again as i do not want to complicate my relationship with my Landlord.

Enegod: a repentant runz girl.... bro, you deserve better

UNIXLover: you dont get bro,am not even interested. am only concern about my relationship with my Landlord. The man has created a good perception of himself to me and he always claim to be a strong Church Man. I have told the girl not to come to my House again as i do not want to complicate my relationship with my Landlord.

Fine u did the right thing once ur landlord find out that she is no longer coming to ur house he will feel safe to relate with u as usual

p.guyokec:
Plz ds should be in d sexuality section dont spoil d li2 mindsminds

There's enough on TV, the streets etc to spoil them, I know cuz I was such.

Your Landlord : A bunch of hypocrites
You: Spineless dude. Why don't you ask your landlord to bend over so you can kiss his ass when next he passes you by? I'm sure that would cement your relationship with him.
The lady : Well, poor lady. But then she should have learnt not to kiss and tell.

p.guyokec:
Plz ds should be in d sexuality section dont spoil d li2 mindsminds

Since when did a landlord have the right to dictate on how a full grown man should live his life and handle his personal matters? Haba!


Even the OP is spineless and a weakling. Since when did the landlord's opinion count in your life? His business is to manage his house and collect his house rent, not poke nosing.

I do not concern myself with the personal affairs of my tenants. Neither do I expect them to interfere in mine.

Guy, grow spine...

ehehn! your landlord acted that way because you started acting weirdly first... when next you see him, find a way of jisting about how your colleague(the girl) broke her leg last week. and bla bla bla...

veave: ehehn! your landlord acted that way because you started acting weirdly first... when next you see him, find a way of jisting about how your colleague(the girl) broke her leg last week. and bla bla bla...

what Don't even try this.
Why would you ever discuss with your landlord in the firstplace?

Is this Landlord your father ?

UNIXLover: you dont get bro,am not even interested. am only concern about my relationship with my Landlord. The man has created a good perception of himself to me and he always claim to be a strong Church Man. I have told the girl not to come to my House again as i do not want to complicate my relationship with my Landlord.

Apparently your landlord is not a good Christian man and he might be lying about a lot of things. Now except you are owing rent, he has no say in your life

BTW. you are not even indebted to him in any way so you dont need to be in his good books for w@ever reason. or dont you pay your rent?

Bludeville: Your Landlord : A bunch of hypocrites
You: Spineless dude. Why don't you ask your landlord to bend over so you can kiss his ass when next he passes you by? I'm sure that would cement your relationship with him.
The lady : Well, poor lady. But then she should have learnt not to kiss and tell.

Do you kiss and tell?.........
I tink I like you

I pay my rent.Thats not the issue.I just respect him and i dont want anything to destroy that.

veave: BTW. you are not even indebted to him in any way so you dont need to be in his good books for w@ever reason. or dont you pay your rent?

If I say I hear:minus de girls thing seriously what if de girl wasn't an ex runs girl nd ur landlord used to chase de girl before or presently u wd just dump de girl 4 him : naw ddes completes my judgement of u : ur either a very shy guy who doesn't. Know it yet, or u just don't care about de girl , or a coward or u want to save face infront of ur landdlord advice : too much familiarity causes problems reduce ur closeness to ur landlord or else 1 day u might end. Up hvg issues with him de day u finally man up

UNIXLover: I pay my rent.Thats not the issue.I just respect him and i dont want anything to destroy that.

My Landlord knows my Fiancee. Yes...she passed the night in My place but i did not have anything to do with her.I only got shocked she had an affair with such an old man .She said the man had come to her university then and thats how they met.Although i already told her that i am distancing myself from her.

barbie107: If I say I hear:minus de girls thing seriously what if de girl wasn't an ex runs girl nd ur landlord used to chase de girl before or presently u wd just dump de girl 4 him : naw ddes completes my judgement of u : ur either a very shy guy who doesn't. Know it yet, or u just don't care about de girl , or a coward or u want to save face infront of ur landdlord advice : too much familiarity causes problems reduce ur closeness to ur landlord or else 1 day u might end. Up hvg issues with him de day u finally man up

Hope u wont pissed if ur fiancee spend the night in another man's house and tells u nothing happened

UNIXLover: My Landlord knows my Fiancee. Yes...she passed the night in My place but i did not have anything to do with her.I only got shocked she had an affair with such an old man .She said the man had come to her university then and thats how they met.Although i already told her that i am distancing myself from her.

@popoowa: pls helpp me ask him o....

Bludeville: Your Landlord : A bunch of hypocrites
You: Spineless dude. Why don't you ask your landlord to bend over so you can kiss his ass when next he passes you by? I'm sure that would cement your relationship with him.
The lady : Well, poor lady. But then she should have learnt not to kiss and tell.

what is this one saying?