i often wonder if love is just a meaningless theme or if it indeed is real.it's all about choices.so let's see what you think about it.tx

So i am guessing you have never being in love, if true then you would not know if it is 4real or not.

Falling in love is not about choice,love is abstract i am sure you have never fell in love so it will be difficult to explain what it means to fall in love.It is practicable,try and have a girl.

i have gotten to realy like a guy so much that even after we broke up we are still friends but i dont think i love him
i think i just admire his character and other attributes he has and i have never even told any guy i love you (well ave only dated two)

well u definition of the word, will determine the kind of experience you will have.

@Topic

Love is as real as death._{just that it takes experience to ascertain the reality of it.}

tope2000:

So i am guessing you have never being in love, if true then you would not know if it is 4real or not.

or maybe he just experience an heartbreak.

Love can only be real when you make it real; most people don’t believe love exist; but we who believe do our best to make it happen.

I guess

Guess what?

guess that love is real

You guess it’s real; you don’t believe it’s real?

Love is real for those that believe in it and vice-versa.

LOVE IS AS REAL AS THE EARTH.
YOU CAN LOVE TO WHAT EVER CAPACITY YOUR MIND KEYS INTO.
THE POINT HERE IS THAT LOVE HAS NO BASIC MEASUREMENT.
THE EXETENT TO WHICH ONE PERSON CAN EXPRESS HIS LOVE MAY DIFFER FROM THE NEXT.

crazykid:

You guess it’s real; you don’t believe it’s real?

when i said 'i guess' i didn't meant i don't think, it means that i was thinking about it for a while and then finally came to my decision

love died at the former lagos toll gate a few years ago
it couldn't survive the ghastly accident caused by heartbreak,
a reckless drunk driver.
may its soul rest in peace

ibkaye:

when i said 'i guess' i didn't meant i don't think, it means that i was thinking about it for a while and then finally came to my decision

So what's your final decision  

crazykid:

So what's your final decision 

my final decision is that i guessbelieve that love is real

Why can’t I believe that?

What are your reasons?

you can't believe it?

my reasons for what?

ibkaye:

you can't believe it?

Yea because you sounded more like an "O yes member"

ibkaye:

my reasons for what?

You’ve got to have reasons for what you believe in; have you ever experienced real love before to make you believe it's real? that’s what I mean.

crazykid:

You’ve got to have reasons for what you believe in; have you ever experienced real love before to make you believe it's real? that’s what I mean.

oh right, well, in a sense, can't really say much at this point

Hmm can’t say much either b’cos I’ve already gotten the picture.

I would Just cross my fingers and hope your Romeo and Juliet connection would have a happy ending

crazykid:

Hmm can’t say much either b’because I’ve already gotten the picture.

I would Just cross my fingers and hope your Romeo and Juliet connection would have a happy ending

lool romeo and juliet ke? that's so sweet, thankyou crazykid

You're welcomed

Of course, love does exist but  real love does exist only in the likes of Nollywood , Hollywood and Bollywood

hardknocks:

Of course, love does exist but real love does exist only in the likes of Nollywood , Hollywood and Bollywood

hmmmm

Checking out existing threads at below:

Any Difference Between Falling In Love And Real Love?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-8386.0.html

How Do You Know Its True Love?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2532.0.html

Cyber Romance And True Love
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-10724.64.html

@ poster,

True, unbridled love is hard to come by particularly when the feeling's mutual. Believe me it can't be described, those who've felt it know it. Trifles cease to exist when you attain that state. However in this part of the world financial considerations dey adultrate the love no be me talk am oooh :oguys/babes beware