i dont really think there is need for that , to me the jealousy thing is very childish

Humm, spoken like a true AA woman.

I agree 100%. I have far better things to do. It must be because I am 33 years old or maybe because I have children to rasie or it could be because I have tons of grown ass bills to pay but I could care less how jealous he is or is not. Once it is over it is over he can do him and I can do me.

Be the bigger person. Jealousy is a negative spirit that you don't want to give life to. Ignore her foolishness; Be happy. If you ignore her, it will piss her off even more than playing her childish game. And remember: "Success means being happy. And, the best revenge is success". So, just be happy~

Arent there more important things to get done in a relationship??

Friend, move on and don't try to know how to make anyone jealous cus if you do, you are still carrying the pain/something around.
Best thing to do like some good pple here had mentioned, just move on and enjoy life. When your yam is big, cover it up before you eat it else you opened up yourself to unnecessary attacks from envious pple.

Which means, move on, find someone else, and live quietly without broadcasting info to your past allies.

by kiking is bleeping assssss

Since my ex decided to leave me for a white woman ( abi na  white Nigerian) I tried to get a life, so I finished my course in IMSU, (studied Economics), went to London Business School and did my masters. At 24yrs I now have a life I can boast of. I don't need to make him jealous. His friends tell him what a fool he is and the other day I saw him with his white Nigerian wife and two kwashiorkor ridden kids trying to jump into a moving molue. I came out of my murano jeep and made sure he saw me and believe you me he wanted the earth to swallow him up. before the break up i thought i couldn't do without him, now i wonder what i even saw in him. Bleep the men jare.

Make him feel jelous? No, that's not my style. I'm the silent type, if I am hurting inside I just settle things amicably. No fytes

That was tight, tiessys

Ben20001:

That was tight, tiessys

Mapenzi hayataki vita (Love doesn't call for war when it turns sour)
Got that one too? Tehehehe

Love doesn't call for war when it turns sour ^{love this one.}

_{Esther, you're the best}

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cindy85:

Since my ex decided to leave me for a white woman ( abi na white Nigerian) I tried to get a life, so I finished my course in IMSU, (studied Economics), went to London Business School and did my masters. At 24yrs I now have a life I can boast of. I don't need to make him jealous. His friends tell him what a fool he is and the other day I saw him with his white Nigerian wife and two kwashiorkor ridden kids trying to jump into a moving molue. I came out of my murano jeep and made sure he saw me and believe you me he wanted the earth to swallow him up. before the break up i thought i couldn't do without him, now i wonder what i even saw in him. mess the men jare.

thanks jare,
thats the way i expect any normal gurl who hasnt lost their dignities yet to act, make who jealous??

make who jealous?? rather he should be havin regrets.
mine left me for another girl, who doesnt even love him.
i did all i could to make him happy, just fallen in love and, being the good girl 
treated the cow like a king, it just wasnt enough. i never remembered him takin me out for once, not atall. he always embarrass me in public or in front of his friends 
he never got me presents,and doesnt remember my birthdays.imagine, na me dey do all the calling and send am recharge card!!  and he  treated me as if i was worthless.
today hes a uni dropout, no money, he looks so impoverished. 
TODAY?? i work in a big corporate  organisation, occupying a big position i didnt really qualify to occupy,  at 23 i hav a ride, would be gettin set to round up studies in a reputable uni.  my taste hav also changed, just wondered what i saw in him shaaaa.
now make who jealous, i know he would hav more than enough regrets, good for him though.

immaturity in d highest order, na mumu gurl.

i dont have to behave in order to make my ex jealous. dats immaturity mehhhhnnn arrh, i no get time.