honeric01: Calling your man daft, yet you want him to forgive you?

3.5 yrs in relationship, yet the best word you could use to describe him is 'daft', e never marry u o, u don dey show ur disrespect already.

phraze: Dnt eva tel a guy he is daft. U hurt sumtin dat he could use to protect you. That thing is cald Ego. Wit Ego even if a lion tried to attack u, he would be ur samson witout tinkin twice!

phraze: The easiest way to a mans heart is by cooking. Find out hs best meal and prepare it for hm. U could tel his sistaz to serve hm wit it. If they tel hm u wre the one who made the meal. My dear he wil find u himself. If he doesnt inbox me! U deserve mor'

obyrich: Good decision. While nursing your broken heart learn to control your tongue especially when you are angry. Also learn some words are NEVER to be used on some people. Always remember this- the way a bullet can kill a man no matter his age, so can careless words destroy a relationship no matter how old. Chances are he may come back especially if your 3 years with him had not been parasitic. Your good deeds will do the pleading on your behalf and win his love back. Otherwise, it's time to look for another daft maga. He is doing a soul searching and an appraisal of his time with you. Give him time.

Billyonaire: I can bet with anything that it is not the first time you called him daft., and he has been spending cash money on you. He is simply not just tired of being called daft, but expending cash money on an insultive girlfriend. I hope he dumps you but pray he doesnt. How you feel is how he feels when you reduce him to nothing.

I hope you enjoy the pain you caused yourself. What you sow, is what you reap. Am I being harsh ? The answer is, Life is not fair.

shymexx: Damn son!! I'll really love the experience of going out with a naija chic in naija because it seems you lot are respectful. Out here, chics call their bfs all kinds of names and most times they never apologise.

Shyte, imagine a chic apologising to me just because she called me, "daft."

Damn!! I'd be feeling like King Jafi Joe!!!!

tell that nyggah to get over it...but really and truly, it seems I'm starting to admire how respectful naija chics in naija are. Boi, I might end up getting on the next available flight to naija to pick a wife, who knows? Chics out there don't respect nyggahs.

Idowuogbo:

True...

I blame u guys tho!

U dish what u can't take.

shymexx:

How?

Most of you are just superficial!

And you lot don't know how to treat a man like a woman of great virtue should...disrespectful, uncouth, aggressive and fake. Lawd, get me an African chic in Africa that will treat me like the King of Zamunda!!!

AmBeautiful: But you know the funny thing?
This whole thing has actually proved one thing : That he is daft for actually keeping malice for two weeks.
Am just saying, no insults intended

AmBeautiful: But you know the funny thing?
This whole thing has actually proved one thing : That he is daft for actually keeping malice for two weeks.
Am just saying, no insults intended

Primuskay: Am nt insultive,jst dat weneva am havin ma monthly flow,am easily irritated nd angry.nd he knws dat

eightsin:

d dude needs space. Some time apart to rediscover eachother.

rigormortis: so you opened your dikc sucking mouth to call a man with a set of balls daft!........worse still that guy is your BF,.....well that's just too bad, I admit you are sorry otherwise you wouldn't have called him for two weeks.

now what you should use is the law of diminishing attention, you have to stop calling him completely in about 5 days time, but before then you gradually reduce the rate at which you call him, if you call 7 times, make it 5, 4, 3, 3, 1 on the last day. afterwards if no positive response send him a text detailing why you did what you did..anger and stupidity maybe and but don't beg please, at this stage you want to make things clear from an emotionally distant point of view, tell him how you feel about him, if you can make it face to face fine.

afterwards, go home delete his number and forget him, if he calls in the evening fine pick ant the SECOND CALL note..not second ring, if he doesn't he is would probably not call the next day, he would do that in 2-4 days time, but here is the deal, switch off your phone on the 3rd day, the reasons are beyond the scope of this post but I will give you two

1. its part of learning how not to jump at each call
2. you will most probably say what you don't wanna or mean to say if you are edgy while you pick

afterwards on the 4th switch on your phone and don't expect his call, but he might have been trying and you got him worried and curious so he is probably gonna call depending on how you played out the game and how the relationship was.

if he doesn't call, don't call or text anymore you are just fueling his ego and makiking things worse, just chill he might call or he might NEVER, whatever happens, learn and move on...its life.

just because you open your pucci heart for him doesn't mean you can open your mouth and say sh!+

AmBeautiful:

Someone you care about and you have spent 3years with?

Primuskay: I dnt seem 2 concentrate.i ve trid 2 stop beggin,i cant.ve gone as far as deletin d pixs nd fone numbes 4rm ma fone.bt it didnt work,i c ma self longin 4 him every day

Primuskay: Dnt tink is necessary again. Jst sent a txt dis evenin 2 say he nids a mnth brk,dat i shuld go nd work on ma anger nt tounge. Guess its anoda way of sayin its ova.bt heaven knws dat i dnt mean it.jst dat i allowd ma emotions 2 control ma tongue. It is wel sha. Mayb we aint meant 2 b.

obyrich: Don't worry he'll be yours in less than a month trust me. I hope you've learnt your lessons. Something tells me he wants you as much as you want him but would like you to improve on your anger management skill. It's not over my dear. I've seen worse cases.

Primuskay: We had a quarrel,i calld him daft. Lata i realizd dat d fault was all mine,nd again,i shuldn't ve used word on him. Ve apologized,textd,calld.he wnt pick ma calls,wnt reply ma txt,even wen i went ova 2 c him 2 sort tins out,he left d house 4 me,i neva saw him 4 d 2 days i stayd dia. Ve sent his friends nd sista 2 help me beg him,bt yet he wnt budge.VE BIN BEGGING 4 2WKS NW,I NEVA TRY? Shuld i contd or let him b as he said.I TRULY LOVE HIM. Do i let a 3 nd half yrs relationship go dat way.pls ur advice is needed.am goin nuts.

Primuskay: Dnt tink is necessary again. Jst sent a txt dis evenin 2 say he nids a mnth brk,dat i shuld go nd work on ma anger nt tounge. Guess its anoda way of sayin its ova.bt heaven knws dat i dnt mean it.jst dat i allowd ma emotions 2 control ma tongue. It is wel sha. Mayb we aint meant 2 b.