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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by JesusAmbassador(f): 4:07pm On Sep 26, 2013
Our body is the temple of God,sexual immorality is the easiest way to get a demonic spirit. Because u and the person have become one and share d same spirit. 1st Corinthian 6:13-19

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by ZN2: 4:07pm On Sep 26, 2013
Kindly refer to - https://www.nairaland.com/1433221/fake-hymen-sale-abuja-n9000

Enough of the virgin tales already.
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by moscobabs(m): 4:08pm On Sep 26, 2013
pekelepekele:

Dey deceive yourself . Nah alum she use wash her thing for you wey you know cheesy
mugun ni e ..she was brought up well from a discipline background,she is not like your sister

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by warrikid(m): 4:11pm On Sep 26, 2013
secnelly: Noted!!!
...but NOTHING IS AS SWEET AS A STOLEN KISS.
...and Variety is d spice of life u knw...
Express don leave dis OP tay tay
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by moscobabs(m): 4:11pm On Sep 26, 2013
MAYOWAAK:

Have you heard about secondary virginity!
u mean the one your brother wife did to deceive your Brother

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by ZURYZEST(m): 4:11pm On Sep 26, 2013
all of una wey dey blab no get sense at all, useless talk.
nothing wey we no go read, and hear......if you like sex before marriage....if u like no sex before marriage...... nothing concern me.

live your life make i live my own.......

if una like make una criticize me na una time........(end of discussion)

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by iogbonnaya(m): 4:12pm On Sep 26, 2013
Make una repent ooo...sex b4 marriage is not gud...me I don repent,I no go Bleep again until I get married
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Nobody: 4:12pm On Sep 26, 2013
buh he who finds a virgin in this our time eeeh.....jus be like person wey find crude oil for north!


buh seriously we can no longer stop pre marital sex even if you make it illegal. fvck can be gotten anywhr, anyhow and anytime these days
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Nobody: 4:14pm On Sep 26, 2013
Dallas Cowgirl:

Did her mouth and hands pass your virginity test?


babe coool down. no be errbody dey freestyle like you abeg

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by kzokul(m): 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2013
@op U said d fact but I must tell u another fact and dat is d fact dt d only set of people dt keeps 2 dis virginity tin are d guls dat r not physically and facially presentable and endowned.......aside these ur post na 4 ur pocket ooooo......

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by moscobabs(m): 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2013
Larryfly:


babe coool down. no be errbody dey freestyle like you abeg
Thank you my guy
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Iaz93: 4:16pm On Sep 26, 2013
No. 2 - Terrible Lie angry
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Lilimax(f): 4:16pm On Sep 26, 2013
Larryfly:


babe coool down. no be errbody dey freestyle like you abeg
smiley
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by daviide: 4:19pm On Sep 26, 2013
moscobabs:
u mean the one your brother wife did to deceive your Brother
wtf!!!! hehehehe pllz letz not exchange words cheesy hehehehe

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by t12tosin: 4:21pm On Sep 26, 2013
OP, why must i choose to watch NTA ibadan for d rest of my life when there is a multichoice of DSTV With beautiful n sweet channels undecided angry
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Ifems(m): 4:22pm On Sep 26, 2013
Please listen there is nothing as sweet as taking risk.It gives confidence and makes that 'love or infatuation' stronger.Did you notice how fun it was when you committed an illegal act with your girlfriend?
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Ziggyzito(m): 4:23pm On Sep 26, 2013
This affects all of us...thank Jah! I'm a virgin... grin

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by antontech(m): 4:24pm On Sep 26, 2013
MAYOWAAK:

Have you heard about secondary virginity!
being a secondary virgin is not bad
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by nbright: 4:25pm On Sep 26, 2013
Whatever rocks your boat
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Leyqute(m): 4:26pm On Sep 26, 2013
Do as I say and not as I do o_O
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by moscobabs(m): 4:27pm On Sep 26, 2013
daviid_e: wtf!!!! hehehehe pllz letz not exchange words cheesy hehehehe
I'm not exchanging word I'm just replying him
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by braxjay(m): 4:28pm On Sep 26, 2013
Dallas Cowgirl: Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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U...... we now know u cant do without it. tongue tongue tongue

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by nbright: 4:29pm On Sep 26, 2013
googlepikin: I was shocked the day our pastor asked all virgins in the house to raise their hands up, and few young girls raised their hands up. And thousands didn't. Na dat day I fear girls.
So you think only girls should be virgins?

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Leyqute(m): 4:29pm On Sep 26, 2013
mayowaak: have you heard about secondary virginity?
have you heard about tertiary virginity? o_O O_o o_O

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by Leyqute(m): 4:33pm On Sep 26, 2013
nbright: Whatever rocks your boat
what if its an earthquake? \-_-/

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by write2obi(m): 4:38pm On Sep 26, 2013
wandevincent: 1,Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.


2, Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.


[s]3, The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.[/s]

I disagree with this one.

4, Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.


5, Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.


6, Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.


7, The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.


8, Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.


9, Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.


[s]10, If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.[/s]

Forgetting or have a bad memory about your ex have nothing to do with sex, I have girls I've dated n slept with and still have good memories of our time 2geda, and girls I dated but didn't sleep with, but yet had a hug impression on my life.
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by HowFar3: 4:40pm On Sep 26, 2013
Noted!!!
...but NOTHING IS AS SWEET AS A STOLEN KISS.
...and Variety is d spice of life u knw...

Gbam
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by MKumator: 4:43pm On Sep 26, 2013
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googlepikin: I was shocked the day our pastor asked all virgins in the house to raise their hands up, and few young girls raised their hands up. And thousands didn't. Na dat day I fear girls.
So did d gals disvirgin demselves? Abegi

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Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by HowFar3: 4:44pm On Sep 26, 2013
secnelly: Noted!!!
...but NOTHING IS AS SWEET AS A STOLEN KISS.
...and Variety is d spice of life u knw...
Gbagammmmm!!!!! cheesy wink cheesy
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by kolamilan(m): 4:46pm On Sep 26, 2013
andrewozed: OP is giving lame explanation. Don't try to justify your personal preference. In the 10 commandments there is nothing like fornication, its only adultery and who told you that women that have sex before marriage don't enjoy it? Its obvious you are not yet a matured mind.
Though I support people waiting to get married before sex as a christian out of obedience towards God but not to use excuses you know nothing about to justify your point
cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by nora544: 4:47pm On Sep 26, 2013
9, Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.

That is not tru, i know many Kids who grow up only with there mother and they are very good educated, all have a university degree, it always belong to the mother and what is better grew up in a loving family only mother and child or a family where the father beats the wife every day and the kids see this.

Please show me this studies that children from single mothers suffer.
Re: Why Sex Should Be After Marriage by adebayour26: 4:50pm On Sep 26, 2013
I beliv everytin is tru jare, even though some wil stand against it.
@moscobabs...am happy fr u bro...kip d flame of luv burning.

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