@Topic. What the poster has just revealed is very true & real! The problem there is that this world is so corrupted with evil influence that only few people that are strong-willed (especially the ones that are aware of the truth) have choosen not to follow with the system of this age. This all has to do with the MIND, that is where the root of all these problems comes from. But it's never too late for that, there's still hope for those who think they aren't worth it anymore. U can still turn around and be of a help to others. You don't have to give in to such pressure anymore. This has NOTHING to do with religion as many might think, it's has SOMETHING to do with our personal lives. Don't be decieved. If you need more evidence for me to ascertain my claims, read the book of deuteronomy 30: 11 - 20

SniperInADiaper: #TeamVirgin

You? Are you serious?

Op this is TRASH. U can easily go 4 condom or stay in a hotel. No need of fear.

Simply True. Many ladies end up falling victims. No.10 is a take-home. Many might end up comparing their sexual satifaction. Its crazy and disastrous.

Buh I hate it wen gurls refer virginity as their pride!!! Smh!itz okay 2 stand by wah u believe buh branding virginity a pride is somewhat childish. If one can ve their hymen back after having sex I don't fink u wil ever put up such idea.!!no offence!!

bolagabriella:

Don't mean to interrupt but what you said is not true cos me is a beautiful gurl,physically and facially endowed but still kept my pride (virginty),it all depends on who you are,what you want for yourself and your determination to stay a virgin.I tell you the truth though,it aint easy,lost so many cute guys cos I always said I aint going to do it and I still won't...like I always say and believe,when the time comes,the right guy will come,I don't care how long I have to wait..que cera cera...and I believe and know there are so many beautiful ladies out there who are like me.ladies out there like me,I just want you to know that you're not ALONE

i called what u just said a nice exoltation,but sincerely if u ar to ask all this young gals n boys ar u avirgin? u will fin out dat frm morning till nyt 95% will say d ar nt vergin, y dis world don spoil na mak una tell me oooooo

wandevincent: 1,Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.


2, Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.


3, The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.


4, Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.


5, Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.


6, Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.


7, The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.


8, Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.


9, Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.


10, If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage.

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tru talk I support

Say No †☺ pre-marital sex...D Bible nd d Holy Quaran is against it. "Abstinence is d best"..team virgin#

Are all the guys virgins as well? A guy is happy he married a virgin but not a virgin.. Does virginity apply to only women? Why do women play virginity more than men?

I am a virgin boy but their are no virgin girls for my area,hw i go do?

Why the emphasis on virginity ? If people make mistakes...forgive them and let them marry!

Some marry as virgins...then sleep with Driver, House girl, and everybody in their office, or area....leaving their spouse lonely and frustrated.
Some men want Mercedes but cant even ride or afford bicycle...using people's daughter to practice and deflower!!
Husbands love your wives.
Wives give your husband bedwork with passion and LOVE... LOVE COVERS ALL SIN !
SEX wit no LOVE is like Eba wit No Soup ..... Those who abandon their wives looking for young virgin should remember, you may think your wife is no longer *HOT but a young Bobo can handle her like a machine AND shower her with adoration.!

Marriage is honourable in all..and d bed undefiled..God will help us all!

So virginity is the greatest gift a wife can give her husband,something she will lose in not more than a minute.
This writeup is what i call concentrated bullshit.:@:@:@:@[/quote]


How can virginty be a perfect gift to aa husband....den what happens to pro creation of children?...so do pple marry for d sake of virginty....do i have to pay d whole bride price for virginity?

nice post,marriage u dont prepare for wll surely confuse u when u get there

still a virgin @ 40. Wat sld I do.

You think virginity is not of high esteem Remember you have sister(s) and you might have daughters in the nearest future..

ammy.ammy:
still a virgin @ 40. Wat sld I do.

40 eh ? Eeeyaaa pele...ndo... U tried !! Dont worry God will provide....just avoid masturbation because you go confuse yourself ! I hope my advice helps.

Leward:
You? Are you serious?

Of course

ammy.ammy:
still a virgin @ 40. Wat sld I do.

Hmmmmm,Who ar u deceiving? Virgin @ wch 40!!!
U sure say ur organ still dey work so

maximuz: So virginity is the greatest gift a wife can give her husband,something she will lose in not more than a minute.
This writeup is what i call concentrated bullshit.:@:@:@:@


How can virginty be a perfect gift to aa husband....den what happens to pro creation of children?...so do pple marry for d sake of virginty....do i have to pay d whole bride price for virginity?

A woman who is a virgin but does not have anything to offer except her virginity is as worth as a toilet paper..

MAYOWAAK: Sex is a fact of life like death. The mind naturally craves for Food, Water, Sex and Sleep. This is the natural order of things. After eating, one must drink water and after sex, you will sleep. It is an established order. To be Hot is not a crime and sometimes to masturbate has been described as a good therapy but all must be done for the right purposes.

Africans are always Hot and at best masturbate. The most alarmingly disturbing is that all are done with all intent and purposes, for the wrong reasons. Africans are only Hot for religions. They masturbate profusely because of religions. When you see an average African looking pale and sex-starved, it is all because of religion. An average African wants to Bleep all the time because of christ, sango, oya, osun, mohammed, krishna among others.

While reasonable people in the advanced world are Hot too, they are Hot for developmental reasons. Japanese, Chinese, Americans, Brazilians are Hot today for science and technology. They masturbate vehemently so as to be satisfied by going into space and even conquering earth. Apart from achieving a lot, they are also making sure that Africans are sexually satisfied all for the wrong reasons.

Africans do not think of fucking advancement. Hell NO!!! Africans think of raping (embezzling) foreign aid and grants. Africans love free sex that continuously give them incurable diseases (underdevelopment and destruction.) Today, many Africans are trying to undo a lot of things but lack the necessary capabilities and proficiency to change things, hence WE come to Facebook and Twitter.

Those who lead the continent have permanently subscribe to the pornography produced only in California which to them always remains the best; hence, refused to look at the beautiful beauties ubiquitous within. The mental enslavement has made the fascinatingly dazzling African princesses to bleach just to satisfy the California pornography because their African princes love FREE SEX which is really KILLING.

Reduce the level of being Hot for religions in Africa and half of the problems are solved. This is so because they will no longer sit and home and blame sango, oya, christ, buddha and mohammed for being sex-starved, rather they will go out there, strive hard, study the environment in a bid to conquer it for their own benefits and Bleep developments big time.

Their leaders will no longer be Hot and beg California Porn stars for satisfaction, rather they will act like real men, work dexterously and adroitly to win the most winsome of the African princesses to be real the women of their lives for the most exhilarating satisfaction. The satisfaction that generations yet unborn will live to benefit from.

Ironically, Africa oils this free sex industry. It is not at all FREE because it is the sweat of Africans that makes it stand. The constituents are taken away from Africa and repackaged BUT Africans believe it is FREE. Today, as always, FREE SEX is killing Africans.

Guy i remember you from religion section.This guy dey write die 1000000 likes my bro.

Florrie: and did your wife meet you a virgin? or do the commandments only apply to women?

Girl you threemuch.All these guyz think say na only girl fit be virgin.It applies to you guyz too o.Keep your joystick low.

Thanks @ OP. I'm pleased to see that one need not rely strictly on religious reasons to be a virgin. I personally see it as an exercise in self-control and committment. I must correct though that point 7 be amended to 90% in some rare, and hardly-mentioned cases, virgins marry a deceptive loose partner who they contract venereal disease or HIV from.

Thanks @ OP. I'm pleased to see that one need not rely strictly on religious reasons to be a virgin. I personally see it as an exercise in self-control and committment. I must correct though that the percentage point 7 be amended to 90%, in some rare, and hardly-mentioned cases, virgins marry a deceptive loose partner who they contract venereal disease or HIV from.

Double post again ! I taya o !

moscobabs: I met my wife a Virgin and we had our first sex a day after our wedding.it's a pride ooo.don't think any other guy out there can be luckly like me.

did ur wife also meet u a virgin? Or is it only for the females? Can she be proud of u also?

zane@baddo:
Buh I hate it wen gurls refer virginity as their pride!!! Smh!itz okay 2 stand by wah u believe buh branding virginity a pride is somewhat childish. If one can ve their hymen back after having sex I don't fink u wil ever put up such idea.!!no offence!!

I understand and no offence is taken.for you to understand how we ladies feel about our virginity then you have to be one which you're not but I will try to explain how it is.the issue of virginity of a woman and it been their pride is like someone who has been entrusted to keep a diamond safe till the arrival of it's owner.imagine a poor guy been asked to keep a diamond for awhile,every other person will see it as a temporal thing,a position the poor guy will soon be relieve of and when he is he'll just be that guy again not a diamond keeper/bearer but I tell you that the joy the poor guy will feel during those period of watching over the diamond will know no bound,he will take pride in the beauty of the diamond.so the beauty of the diamond becomes his pride as the beautiful of intimacy,sexuality is a woman's pride.the thing is,it's not really the hymen between our legs that is our pride but the feeling that no man has seen our unclothedness(something they are dying for),the feeling that we are still untouched,a package not yet opened or tampered with and you know that a package not yet opened always have a great value on it.And the happiness husbands feels when they disvirgin their wives is beyond just breaking that hymen but it stems up from the thoughts and the feeling that they are the first to see her unclothedness,to teach her the act of lovemaking (sex is for boy $ girls,lovemaking is for husband and wife),the thought that he's the first and hopefully will be last(if the wife is not promiscous).now back to the illustration,when the diamond is taken away from him,he will feel hurt so also do ladies feel hurt (the sharp pain) when their hymen is broken and then the owner of the diamond when he takes back what(the diamond) belongs to him,will be so happy so does the man who disvirgin his wife will be happy.
Note that I use wife not lady or girlfriend,the reason why most guys that takes the virginity of a lady don't really feel all happy or concerned about it or take pride in it is because it's not rightfully theirs,so at that moment they don't really feel or think it's a big deal.
Did I make any sense

googlepikin: I was shocked the day our pastor asked all virgins in the house to raise their hands up, and few young girls raised their hands up. And thousands didn't. Na dat day I fear girls.

your pastor na guy man. He wan take kolombi style know how many virgins wey dey im ministry so im go know how to package his parole.

idrezee: hypocracy

I will just have to ignore u,TYPICAL

WildChild00:

U said, that is a sign of virginity, except broken during sport, climbing, sex, etc.

I suggest ur broaden ur knowledge not stick to ur self myopic wisdom!

We all know the truth,so why beat around the bush?

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