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S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 11:55pm On Oct 02, 2013
I find this article interesting and useful to most of us who are youths & yet to get married. Enjoy.
True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves
you, they will want the best for you. They
will not want you to suffer fear of disease,
unwanted pregnancy and the psychological
difficulties of premarital s*x. They will want
to experience love with you only in the very
best place of all – the love nest of marriage.
1,séx is a powerful force that can destroy if not
used properly. Like atomic power, séx is the most
powerful creative force given to man. When
atomic power is used correctly it can create
boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong
way it destroys life. séx is the same kind of
powerful force. séx is a gift from God to give us
the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep
companionship with one’s spouse and for
procreation of the next generation. But if you play
with this powerful force outside the bounds of
marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.
2, intimate activity for young people arrests their
psychological, social and academic development.
Studies show that when young people engage in
premarital séx, their academic performance
declines and their social relationships with family
and friends deteriorate. This is because
adolescents are too immature to deal with the
explosive séx drive and it tends to dominate their
life.
3, The majority of women cannot enjoy séx
outside of the bonds of marriage. The
development of a fulfilling séx life needs the
security and peace of the marriage bond.
Premarital s*x usually takes place sneaking
around in hidden places dealing with the fear of
being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings
of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine
pleasure in premarital séx, most especially for
women.
4, Virginity is to be given to the most important
person in your life, the person you committed
yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your
virginity is the most precious thing you have to
give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in
the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something
so precious in a thoughtless way.
5, Those who engage in premarital s*x run a high
risk of contracting one of the many venereal
diseases rampant today, as well as losing their
fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common
disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.
6, Some venereal diseases have no symptoms
and many couples discover many years later that
they became infertile because of these diseases.
Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today’s
infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted
before they married.
7, The best and only method that guarantees
100% against AIDS and other sexually
transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to
have s*x and maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8, Premarital s*x breaks the 10 Commandments
given by God. The 10 Commandments are given
to man by God to make man happy. They are not
outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow
these laws, we can create happy and prosperous
lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy
price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate
children and loneliness. Modern men make a big
mistake when they think that they can break
these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9, Premarital s*x runs the risk of conceiving
illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies
show that the children of single mothers suffer
psychologically and are less successful socially
and academically than children from intact
families. Above all, children need both their father
and their mother. It is wrong to risk having
children who will never have their father’s love,
protection and care.
10, If you date and you don’t have s*x, you can
forget about that relationship when you stop
dating. But if you have s*x with those you date
and then break up, the nature of intimate
involvement creates strong, often unpleasant
memories for your whole life. Every relationship
you break up where you had intimate relations is
like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of
these mini-divorces does damage to your
character. Later, when you are married and go to
bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant
memories will accompany you. cheesy

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Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by Nobody: 12:25am On Oct 03, 2013
Lovly points!!!

On d contrary..dnt u think one needs to get some experience before marriage

At least in football,players do go on TRIAL before they are handed contract..
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 12:47am On Oct 03, 2013
kizmartino: Lovly points!!!

On d contrary..dnt u think one needs to get some experience before marriage

At least in football,players do go on TRIAL before they are handed contract..
lol. My friend this Isn't football,its not a game. So thereby u ave to look very well be4 u leap and not taste very well be4 u leap
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by cutiepie01(f): 9:14am On Nov 26, 2013
kolidave: I find this article interesting and useful to most of us who are youths & yet to get married. Enjoy.
True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves
you, they will want the best for you. They
will not want you to suffer fear of disease,
unwanted pregnancy and the psychological
difficulties of premarital s*x. They will want
to experience love with you only in the very
best place of all – the love nest of marriage.
1,séx is a powerful force that can destroy if not
used properly. Like atomic power, séx is the most
powerful creative force given to man. When
atomic power is used correctly it can create
boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong
way it destroys life. séx is the same kind of
powerful force. séx is a gift from God to give us
the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep
companionship with one’s spouse and for
procreation of the next generation. But if you play
with this powerful force outside the bounds of
marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.
2, intimate activity for young people arrests their
psychological, social and academic development.
Studies show that when young people engage in
premarital séx, their academic performance
declines and their social relationships with family
and friends deteriorate. This is because
adolescents are too immature to deal with the
explosive séx drive and it tends to dominate their
life.
3, The majority of women cannot enjoy séx
outside of the bonds of marriage. The
development of a fulfilling séx life needs the
security and peace of the marriage bond.
Premarital s*x usually takes place sneaking
around in hidden places dealing with the fear of
being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings
of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine
pleasure in premarital séx, most especially for
women.
4, Virginity is to be given to the most important
person in your life, the person you committed
yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your
virginity is the most precious thing you have to
give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in
the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something
so precious in a thoughtless way.
5, Those who engage in premarital s*x run a high
risk of contracting one of the many venereal
diseases rampant today, as well as losing their
fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common
disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.
6, Some venereal diseases have no symptoms
and many couples discover many years later that
they became infertile because of these diseases.
Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today’s
infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted
before they married.
7, The best and only method that guarantees
100% against AIDS and other sexually
transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to
have s*x and maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8, Premarital s*x breaks the 10 Commandments
given by God. The 10 Commandments are given
to man by God to make man happy. They are not
outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow
these laws, we can create happy and prosperous
lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy
price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate
children and loneliness. Modern men make a big
mistake when they think that they can break
these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9, Premarital s*x runs the risk of conceiving
illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies
show that the children of single mothers suffer
psychologically and are less successful socially
and academically than children from intact
families. Above all, children need both their father
and their mother. It is wrong to risk having
children who will never have their father’s love,
protection and care.
10, If you date and you don’t have s*x, you can
forget about that relationship when you stop
dating. But if you have s*x with those you date
and then break up, the nature of intimate
involvement creates strong, often unpleasant
memories for your whole life. Every relationship
you break up where you had intimate relations is
like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of
these mini-divorces does damage to your
character. Later, when you are married and go to
bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant
memories will accompany you. cheesy
lovely points.Pls tell them o..Some ppl ignorantly think its foolishness 2 wait b4 marriage not knowing dat d reverse is what is termed 'ignorance'.
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 10:03am On Nov 26, 2013
cutiepie01: lovely points.Pls tell them o..Some ppl ignorantly think its foolishness 2 wait b4 marriage not knowing dat d reverse is what is termed 'ignorance'.
thanks miss. Because everyone is doing it,means its a good thing. God will save this our country
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by mykindofperfect(f): 10:56am On Nov 26, 2013
nice write up

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Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 11:06am On Nov 26, 2013
mykindofperfect: nice write up
Tanx cheesy
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by drnairalov: 11:22am On Nov 26, 2013
#Teamsexbefore marriage abeg...i ve to testrun my car before i buy it ryt..

What if her clits re removed. damn log of wood at home ..-Abacha didnt die for that

What if she is frigid...hates sex, some babes re mentally disturbd..bye bye to ur pleasure - India ddnt beat Nigeria 99-1 for that

What if u love extra play..(u knw wat i mean) nd she is disgusted by it O_O - my brother Martin luther king ddnt take a bullet for dat

My sisters what if ur hubby is 4 inches down dere - Marilyn monroe ddnt bcom a hoe because of dat

What if he is just a one rounder..one minuite man u end up meeting ur gateman for satisfaction- damn Aliyah ddnt die cos of dat


on a final note..

Beyonce & Kim Kardashian have no problem sucking their mans di*ck then you average looking, broke bitc^hes shouldn't neither!- Olu Jacobs"


nb..take dis serious at ur own peril Ciao!!
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 11:53am On Nov 26, 2013
drnairalov: #Teamsexbefore marriage abeg...i ve to testrun my car before i buy it ryt..

What if her clits re removed. damn log of wood at home ..-Abacha didnt die for that

What if she is frigid...hates sex, some babes re mentally disturbd..bye bye to ur pleasure - India ddnt beat Nigeria 99-1 for that

What if u love extra play..(u knw wat i mean) nd she is disgusted by it O_O - my brother Martin luther king ddnt take a bullet for dat

My sisters what if ur hubby is 4 inches down dere - Marilyn monroe ddnt bcom a hoe because of dat

What if he is just a one rounder..one minuite man u end up meeting ur gateman for satisfaction- damn Aliyah ddnt die cos of dat


on a final note..

Beyonce & Kim Kardashian have no problem sucking their mans di*ck then you average looking, broke bitc^hes shouldn't neither!- Olu Jacobs"


nb..take dis serious at ur own peril Ciao!!
ur sounding as if a woman is just any goods u purchase in the market and bring home to use.... All those tins u mentioned deals with understanding,u can know and understand a woman without having sex with her. And eventually if u marry her and find out she's all those tins u mentioned above,it can be solved. All those things u mentioned have 1 or more solutions to tackle them. Let's say eventually u sleep with her or test her like u say and There's Sumtin u don't like about her ur just gonna dump her like a dead dog?therefore leaving her with emotional trauma causing low self esteem. Then ur wicked and heartless. Sex is Sumtin to be enjoyed in marriage,u ave all the time to do it in marriage so why rush now?

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