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S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 11:55pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
I find this article interesting and useful to most of us who are youths & yet to get married. Enjoy. True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital s*x. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all – the love nest of marriage. 1,séx is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, séx is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. séx is the same kind of powerful force. séx is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one’s spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you. 2, intimate activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital séx, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive séx drive and it tends to dominate their life. 3, The majority of women cannot enjoy séx outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling séx life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital s*x usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital séx, most especially for women. 4, Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so precious in a thoughtless way. 5, Those who engage in premarital s*x run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure. 6, Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today’s infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married. 7, The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have s*x and maintain fidelity in your marriage. 8, Premarital s*x breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences. 9, Premarital s*x runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father’s love, protection and care. 10, If you date and you don’t have s*x, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have s*x with those you date and then break up, the nature of intimate involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. 3 Likes |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by Nobody: 12:25am On Oct 03, 2013 |
Lovly points!!! On d contrary..dnt u think one needs to get some experience before marriage At least in football,players do go on TRIAL before they are handed contract.. |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 12:47am On Oct 03, 2013 |
kizmartino: Lovly points!!!lol. My friend this Isn't football,its not a game. So thereby u ave to look very well be4 u leap and not taste very well be4 u leap |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by cutiepie01(f): 9:14am On Nov 26, 2013 |
kolidave: I find this article interesting and useful to most of us who are youths & yet to get married. Enjoy.lovely points.Pls tell them o..Some ppl ignorantly think its foolishness 2 wait b4 marriage not knowing dat d reverse is what is termed 'ignorance'. |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 10:03am On Nov 26, 2013 |
cutiepie01: lovely points.Pls tell them o..Some ppl ignorantly think its foolishness 2 wait b4 marriage not knowing dat d reverse is what is termed 'ignorance'.thanks miss. Because everyone is doing it,means its a good thing. God will save this our country |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by mykindofperfect(f): 10:56am On Nov 26, 2013 |
nice write up 1 Like |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 11:06am On Nov 26, 2013 |
mykindofperfect: nice write upTanx |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by drnairalov: 11:22am On Nov 26, 2013 |
#Teamsexbefore marriage abeg...i ve to testrun my car before i buy it ryt.. What if her clits re removed. damn log of wood at home ..-Abacha didnt die for that What if she is frigid...hates sex, some babes re mentally disturbd..bye bye to ur pleasure - India ddnt beat Nigeria 99-1 for that What if u love extra play..(u knw wat i mean) nd she is disgusted by it O_O - my brother Martin luther king ddnt take a bullet for dat My sisters what if ur hubby is 4 inches down dere - Marilyn monroe ddnt bcom a hoe because of dat What if he is just a one rounder..one minuite man u end up meeting ur gateman for satisfaction- damn Aliyah ddnt die cos of dat on a final note.. Beyonce & Kim Kardashian have no problem sucking their mans di*ck then you average looking, broke bitc^hes shouldn't neither!- Olu Jacobs" nb..take dis serious at ur own peril Ciao!! |
Re: S*x And The Reasons Not To Indulge Till Marraige by kolidave: 11:53am On Nov 26, 2013 |
drnairalov: #Teamsexbefore marriage abeg...i ve to testrun my car before i buy it ryt..ur sounding as if a woman is just any goods u purchase in the market and bring home to use.... All those tins u mentioned deals with understanding,u can know and understand a woman without having sex with her. And eventually if u marry her and find out she's all those tins u mentioned above,it can be solved. All those things u mentioned have 1 or more solutions to tackle them. Let's say eventually u sleep with her or test her like u say and There's Sumtin u don't like about her ur just gonna dump her like a dead dog?therefore leaving her with emotional trauma causing low self esteem. Then ur wicked and heartless. Sex is Sumtin to be enjoyed in marriage,u ave all the time to do it in marriage so why rush now? 1 Like |
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